{"id":29027,"date":"2026-01-15T14:17:43","date_gmt":"2026-01-15T11:17:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=29027"},"modified":"2026-01-15T14:17:45","modified_gmt":"2026-01-15T11:17:45","slug":"despre-mitul-emascularii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-mitul-emascularii\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre mitul emascul\u0103rii"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Azi diminea\u021b\u0103, un gher\u021boia\u0219 se oplo\u0219ise pe pagina mea s\u0103-\u0219i \u00eencordeze musculatura pipernicit\u0103 \u0219i neurona\u0219ul stingher la mine. Evident c\u0103 i-am dat block, c\u0103 via\u021ba e mult prea scurt\u0103 pentru a\u0219a ceva; dar \u00eenainte de asta, i-am reconfigurat educa\u021bia lacunar\u0103 cu c\u00e2teva vorbe de bine. Un cititor b\u0103rbat a intervenit: A\u0219a, Lore, felicit\u0103ri, o emasculare ca la carte! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen\u021beleg c\u0103 omul se distra. Ce nu \u00een\u021beleg, \u00eens\u0103, e mentalitatea asta care spune c\u0103 a fi m\u00e2rlan \u00een mod gratuit cu persoane care nu \u021bi-au furat portofelul e \u201dmasculare\u201d, \u0219i a trimite aceste specimene \u00eenapoi pe b\u0103ncu\u021ba p\u0103rinteasc\u0103 e \u201demasculare\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu nu m\u0103 \u00eentind niciodat\u0103 unde nu mi-e plapuma. Sunt con\u0219tient\u0103 c\u0103 drepturile mele se termin\u0103 la gard, \u0219i dincolo de gard, e tarlaua altuia, \u0219i dac\u0103 am ceva de cerut, o fac mereu cu cel mai profund respect \u0219i recuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103. Dar, hai s\u0103 presupunem c\u0103, \u00eentr-o zi, \u00eemi pune cineva ceva prafuri \u00een vin \u0219i \u00eencep s\u0103 cucurigesc ampwlea la cineva care nu \u00eemi datoreaz\u0103 nimic. Dac\u0103 acel cineva m\u0103 pune la punct, nu consider c\u0103 m\u0103 \u201defeminizeaz\u0103\u201d, pentru c\u0103 feminitatea mea nu const\u0103 \u00een c\u00e2t pot fi de idioat\u0103 cu necunoscu\u021bi. \u0218i nu \u00een\u021beleg, sincer \u0219i cu m\u00e2na pe inim\u0103, de ce masculinitatea unora are ca criteriu de evaluare c\u00e2t pot fi de gher\u021boi cu persoane care nu le datoreaz\u0103 nimic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce pot spune, din punctul de vedere al ac\u021biunilor mele, este: nu \u00eemi \u00eencep niciodat\u0103 ziua g\u00e2ndindu-m\u0103 cum s\u0103 \u201demasculez\u201d pe cineva. Dimpotriv\u0103. \u00cemi place s\u0103 ofer bun\u0103voin\u021b\u0103, pozitivitate \u0219i veselie. Nu aleg eu violen\u021ba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cred c\u0103 \u021bine de fiecare dintre noi s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i defineasc\u0103 masculinitatea, feminitatea, nonbinaritatea sau orice altceva dup\u0103 criterii rezonabile \u0219i s\u0103n\u0103toase mintal, \u0219i s\u0103 nu ia ca pe un atac la ou\u021be faptul c\u0103 cineva nu are chef de gher\u021boial\u0103. Nu e nimic personal \u00een indisponibilitatea mea de a tolera gher\u021boial\u0103. N-o tolerez de la b\u0103rba\u021bi, n-o tolerez de la femei, n-o tolerez de la nonbinari, n-o tolerez de la copii, n-o tolerez din partea nim\u0103nui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu are leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu masculinitatea specimenului, de aceea nu o privesc ca pe o emasculare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219a cum nu cred c\u0103 \u0103la sau altul ca el e m\u00e2rlan ca o manifestare a masculinit\u0103\u021bii. E m\u00e2rlan ca manifestare a prostiei \u0219i a r\u0103ut\u0103\u021bii, iar acestea sunt unisex. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Termin cu o recomandare din suflet: ag\u0103\u021ba\u021bi-v\u0103 masculinitatea de mize serioase. Un business personal, o realizare care s\u0103 conteze, o ac\u021biune nobil\u0103 \u0219i a\u0219a mai departe. \u0218i atunci nu ve\u021bi mai boci c\u0103 sunte\u021bi emascula\u021bi dac\u0103 una de pe net n-are r\u0103bdare s\u0103 o trimite\u021bi la crati\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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