{"id":29062,"date":"2026-01-23T12:34:52","date_gmt":"2026-01-23T09:34:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=29062"},"modified":"2026-01-23T12:35:28","modified_gmt":"2026-01-23T09:35:28","slug":"cum-e-cu-atractia-unilaterala","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cum-e-cu-atractia-unilaterala\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum e cu atrac\u021bia unilateral\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ca orice femeie, am \u0219i eu parte de tentative de ag\u0103\u021bat prost plasate. E fair din partea mea s\u0103 spun c\u0103 80% \u00een\u021beleg relativ rapid partea cu \u201dprost plasate\u201d \u0219i se dau jos de pe capul meu. Fie \u00ee\u0219i asum\u0103 c\u0103 sunt simpli cititori \u0219i nu mai \u00eencearc\u0103 tonul libidinos, fie se umfl\u0103 r\u00e2nza \u00een ei \u0219i nu mai intr\u0103 pe pagina mea niciodat\u0103 – ceea ce, din punctul meu de vedere, e de preferat dac\u0103 nu m\u0103 po\u021bi privi ca pe un entertainer \u0219i at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi, sunt ceea ce eu numesc \u201dr\u00e2ile\u201d. R\u00e2ia, cunoscut\u0103 \u0219i sub numele de scabie, e o boal\u0103 infec\u021bioas\u0103 \u0219i contagioas\u0103 cutanat\u0103, caracterizat\u0103 prin faptul c\u0103, dac\u0103 te molipse\u0219ti de ea, e extrem de greu s\u0103 scapi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00centr-o lume a logicii, eu nu ar trebui s\u0103 am parte de \u201dr\u00e2i\u201d, pentru c\u0103 nu sunt genul care s\u0103 plimbe pe cineva cu z\u0103h\u0103relul. Dac\u0103 nu m\u0103 interesezi, \u00ee\u021bi spun sincer \u0219i de la obraz c\u0103 nu m\u0103 interesezi. F\u0103r\u0103 hihihi \u0219i hahaha, f\u0103r\u0103 abureli, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dau speran\u021be false, pentru c\u0103 nu \u00eemi place s\u0103 prostesc pe nimeni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar r\u00e2ile au ambi\u021bie \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u021b\u00e2nare, extrem de prost plasate. \u0218i atunci, te pis\u0103logesc \u0219i te pis\u0103logesc \u0219i te pis\u0103logesc. Mesaje. Comentarii. Mailuri. Mereu pe cel mai misecuvenist \u0219i mai iritant ton, de zici c\u0103 te f**eau deja \u0219i nu \u0219tii tu. Ei sau ele – da, rar, dar am avut \u0219i c\u00e2teva femei care m-au terorizat cu \u201diubirea\u201d – au voie s\u0103-\u021bi vorbeasc\u0103 ca \u0219i cum te-au scos din c*r, dar dac\u0103 tu le r\u0103spunzi cu indignare sau nervi, brusc se dau victimu\u021be, se pl\u00e2ng de tratament incorect \u0219i de toate p\u0103catele tale imaginare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u00e2ile \u00ee\u0219i fac 10, 20, 30 de conturi false, 10, 20, 30 de adrese de mail. \u0218i chiar dac\u0103, \u00eentr-o prim\u0103 faz\u0103, mimeaz\u0103 civiliza\u021bia de pe noul cont, pentru c\u0103 s-au prins c\u0103 ai toleran\u021b\u0103 zero la gher\u021boial\u0103, problemele lor mintale \u00eei ajung din urm\u0103, \u00ee\u0219i amintesc c\u0103 nu vrei s\u0103 te f*\u021bi \u0219i brusc, devin iar criza\u021bi, violen\u021bi, te prind ei pe tine pe strad\u0103, \u00ee\u021bi fac \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi dreg. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00centrebarea mea obiectiv\u0103 – \u00eentrebarea pe care i-am pus-o \u0219i maic\u0103-mii, Dumnezeu s-o ierte, c\u00e2nd, la 20 de ani dup\u0103 divor\u021b, mi se v\u0103ieta la telefon tot despre c\u00e2t de porc era taic\u0103-miu \u00een timpul c\u0103s\u0103toriei – este: b\u0103i, dar voi ceva mai bun de f\u0103cut nu ave\u021bi cu vie\u021bile voastre? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

V-a dat Dumnezeu acest miracol care se nume\u0219te via\u021b\u0103. Crea\u021bie sau evolu\u021bie, \u00eenc\u0103 se dezbate, dar simplul fapt c\u0103 materia a c\u0103p\u0103tat la un moment dat suflet \u0219i voin\u021b\u0103 e cel mai frumos lucru din univers. \u0218i nu dureaz\u0103 pentru totdeauna. Ai la dispozi\u021bie un num\u0103r finit de ani \u00een care e\u0219ti liber s\u0103 faci tot ce vrei. S\u0103 explorezi, s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi, s\u0103 munce\u0219ti, s\u0103 evoluezi ca om. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i tot ce faci tu cu miracolul numit via\u021b\u0103 e s\u0103 te oplo\u0219e\u0219ti \u00een capul cuiva care nu e interesat, ca Ciuma Neagr\u0103 pe Europa secolului al XIV-lea, \u0219i s\u0103 te r\u0103zbuni interminabil c\u0103 nu e interesat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ghici ce: nu va deveni mai interesat. Doar mai sc\u00e2rbit \u0219i mai iritat, \u0219i la un moment dat, rahaturile astea se pl\u0103tesc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u0219i eu o vedet\u0103 care m\u0103 atrage. O vedet\u0103 ale c\u0103rei fotografii \u00eemi spun lucruri. Aceast\u0103 vedet\u0103 e David Popovici. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i nici m\u0103car nu e vorba de bani. E vorba de fa\u021ba aceea frumoas\u0103, ca sculptat\u0103 \u00een marmur\u0103, pome\u021bii aceia perfect defini\u021bi. E vorba de felul acela de a fi bl\u00e2nd \u0219i calm, f\u0103r\u0103 agresivit\u0103\u021bi gratuite \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 misecuvenism, care m\u0103 dezarmeaz\u0103 \u0219i m\u0103 cucere\u0219te. E vorba de discursul ra\u021bional, educat, de stilul subtil, dar mereu elegant, de tonul catifelat \u0219i suav. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

David Popovici \u00eemi place cu adev\u0103rat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

DAR: sunt con\u0219tient\u0103 de diferen\u021ba de v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u0219i de faptul c\u0103, la 21 de ani, vrei s\u0103 fii \u00eenconjurat de gagicu\u021be dulci de 20. \u0218i c\u0103, mai mult ca sigur, nu pot s\u0103-i ofer lucrurile de care are nevoie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 o \u00eentrebare pe care r\u00e2ile nu \u0219i-o pun niciodat\u0103 este: ce ai de oferit? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i atunci, \u00eel las pe om \u00een pace, \u0219i m\u0103 mul\u021bumesc s\u0103 m\u0103 uit cu admira\u021bie la poze, \u00een timp ce \u00eemi v\u0103d de via\u021ba mea \u0219i tr\u0103iesc din plin fiecare zi, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 investesc energie negativ\u0103 \u00een faptul c\u0103 acest b\u0103iat nu e interesat de mine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i sunt un om mai fericit dec\u00e2t toate r\u00e2ile care \u00ee\u0219i petrec 7 ore delir\u00e2nd furios ce \u00eemi fac \u0219i ce \u00eemi dreg \u00een c\u00e2te 40 de mesaje sau mailuri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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