{"id":29085,"date":"2026-01-31T14:37:04","date_gmt":"2026-01-31T11:37:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=29085"},"modified":"2026-01-31T14:59:47","modified_gmt":"2026-01-31T11:59:47","slug":"pillion-granita-milimetrica-dintre-intimitate-si-abuz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/pillion-granita-milimetrica-dintre-intimitate-si-abuz\/","title":{"rendered":"Pillion: grani\u021ba milimetric\u0103 dintre intimitate \u0219i abuz"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Am vrut s\u0103 v\u0103d Pillion<\/strong>, pentru c\u0103 1. familia Skarsg\u00e5rd, cu mic cu mare, mi se pare o combina\u021bie aproape ireal\u0103 de frumuse\u021be, carism\u0103 \u0219i talent \u0219i n-a\u0219 rata nimic creat de ei 2. da, m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 mult\u0103 nuditate din partea lui Alexander, mul\u021bumesc mult \u0219i 3. \u00eentotdeauna mi-a pl\u0103cut s\u0103 domin. BDSM e eliberator pentru aceia dintre noi care nu se reg\u0103sesc \u00een dinamica tradi\u021bional\u0103, \u0219i c\u00e2nd descoperi c\u0103 exist\u0103 r\u0103spunsuri pentru nevoile tale neobi\u0219nuite, \u00een\u021belegi c\u0103 n-a fost nimic niciodat\u0103 \u00een neregul\u0103 cu tine, problema e cu societatea care vrea s\u0103 te \u00eendese \u00eentr-un cli\u0219eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pillion<\/strong> nu e o poveste de dragoste. E at\u00e2t de lipsit de dragoste, \u00eenc\u00e2t mi-am amintit de bancul \u0103la: \u201dTu e\u0219ti homofob, de ce militezi pentru c\u0103s\u0103toria gay?\u201d \u201dVreau ca \u0219i gay-ii s\u0103 fie neferici\u021bi ca mine \u0219i nevast\u0103-mea\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pillion<\/strong> e adaptarea lui Box Hill<\/strong>, un roman al autorului britanic Adam Mars-Jones, care a inten\u021bionat s\u0103 livreze o parabol\u0103 a lipsei respectului de sine \u0219i a fund\u0103turilor \u00een care te poate duce disperarea de a pl\u0103cea cuiva cu tot dinadinsul. Eroul romanului e un adolescent; din motive legale, realizatorii filmului au schimbat v\u00e2rsta personajului, transform\u00e2ndu-l \u00eentr-un tip de 30 de ani infantil care \u00eenc\u0103 locuie\u0219te cu p\u0103rin\u021bii, se comport\u0103 ca un copil \u0219i nu \u0219tie ce vrea de la via\u021ba lui. Cumva, aceast\u0103 schimbare e mai de impact, pentru c\u0103 nu mai avem un agresor \u0219i o victim\u0103, ci un las\u0103-m\u0103-s\u0103-te-las disperat \u0219i un narcisist care abuzeaz\u0103 de disperarea celuilalt p\u00e2n\u0103 la ultima pic\u0103tur\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Colin, interpretat de Harry Melling, e mediocru din toate punctele de vedere \u0219i blocat \u00eentr-o interminabil\u0103 adolescen\u021b\u0103. Are un job mediocru, nu are via\u021b\u0103 personal\u0103, p\u0103rin\u021bii \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103-i g\u0103seasc\u0103 un b\u0103rbat, pentru c\u0103 au o acceptare necondi\u021bionat\u0103 a faptului c\u0103 e gay, dar \u00eent\u00e2lnirea e plictisitoare \u0219i monoton\u0103, pentru c\u0103 \u00eensu\u0219i Colin e plictisitor \u0219i monoton. Nu \u0219tie ce vrea, e prea politicos s\u0103 spun\u0103 \u201dnu\u201d \u0219i prea blazat s\u0103 spun\u0103 \u201dda\u201d. E mas\u0103 amorf\u0103 de plictiseal\u0103 \u0219i mediocritate. C\u00e2nt\u0103 \u00eentr-un cvartet de bar cu taic\u0103-su, dar \u0219i c\u00e2ntatul \u0103la e generic, lipsit de orice personalitate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00centr-o sear\u0103, c\u00e2nd st\u0103 \u0219i casc\u0103 gura la ni\u0219te snacks, i se posteaz\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 un zeu blond viking superb \u0219i fascinant, care, duh, e Alexander Skarsg\u00e5rd. Acesta cump\u0103r\u0103 toate snacksurile \u0219i i le \u00eempinge \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 cu un gest teatral, \u00een timp ce \u00eei d\u0103 num\u0103rul de telefon pe o carte po\u0219tal\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru prima oar\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba lui, Colin e profund zguduit. Un b\u0103rbat frumos ca un vis, care ia decizii ferme \u0219i bru\u0219te \u0219i care vrea s\u0103-l vad\u0103? OMG. OMG. OMG. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Date-ul nu decurge cum se a\u0219teptase. \u00cen loc s\u0103 \u00eel scoat\u0103 la un suc, Ray (abia acum afl\u0103m cum \u00eel cheam\u0103 pe zeul blond) \u00eel duce \u00eentr-o alee l\u0103turalnic\u0103, \u00ee\u0219i desface \u0219li\u021bul \u0219i \u00eei d\u0103 o m**e 100% neprotocolar\u0103, cu un deep throat de care Colin nu e preg\u0103tit. \u0218i pentru c\u0103 nu e preg\u0103tit, \u00eel \u0219i pune s\u0103-i ling\u0103 cizmele. Iar Colin se execut\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 cr\u00e2cneasc\u0103. Nu doar c\u0103 nu se \u00eempotrive\u0219te, ci descoper\u0103 o pl\u0103cere de a fi exploatat \u00een acest mod.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 ce m**a se termin\u0103, Ray \u00ee\u0219i \u00eenchide \u0219li\u021bul \u0219i dispare \u00een noapte. Colin e devastat. S\u0103 \u021bii \u00een gur\u0103 p**a b\u0103rbatului perfect \u0219i s\u0103 plece imediat dup\u0103 e o tragedie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar evident c\u0103 Ray reapare, pentru c\u0103 e un narcisist \u0219i g\u0103se\u0219te satisfac\u021bie narcisist\u0103 \u00een a-l abuza pe Colin, \u0219i excita\u021bie \u00een faptul c\u0103 lui Colin \u00eei place s\u0103 fie abuzat. \u201dCe m\u0103 fac cu tine?\u201d \u201dTot ce vrei\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sun\u0103 romantic, dar e un imens pericol acolo. O rela\u021bie BDSM s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 e un dialog: exist\u0103 limite ale abuzului, pentru c\u0103 un dominator nu uit\u0103 nicio secund\u0103 c\u0103 submisivul e totu\u0219i un om, iar submisivul are safewords la dispozi\u021bie, s\u0103 opreasc\u0103 abuzul c\u00e2nd \u00eenceteaz\u0103 s\u0103 mai fie fun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201dTot ce vrei\u201d e o afirma\u021bie periculoas\u0103. S\u0103 renun\u021bi la orice limit\u0103 e ca \u0219i cum te arunci \u00een fa\u021ba trenului \u0219i speri s\u0103 nu te calce. Dar \u201dtot ce vrei\u201d e afirma\u021bia de care un narcisist precum Ray are nevoie, s\u0103 fac\u0103 din Colin sclavul absolut, pe care \u00eel pune s\u0103 fac\u0103 toate treburile din cas\u0103, s\u0103 doarm\u0103 pe jos \u0219i, pe scurt, \u00eel trateaz\u0103 mult mai umilitor dec\u00e2t pe c\u00e2inele personal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 Skarsg\u00e5rd nu avea acea frumuse\u021be divin\u0103, irezistibil\u0103, care radiaz\u0103 din ecran \u0219i te d\u0103 pe spate cu picioarele larg desf\u0103cute, reac\u021bia fireasc\u0103 ar fi fost \u201ecine plm te crezi\u201d. De la un nivel de abuz, reac\u021bia ta ca om din public, chiar cu kinkuri BDSM, e tot \u201ecine plm te crezi\u201d. Pentru c\u0103 Ray uit\u0103 c\u0103 BDSM e un roleplay, \u0219i \u00eel transform\u0103 \u00eentr-o interminabil\u0103 tortur\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar – \u0219i aici o s\u0103 fiu cinic\u0103 – aparent de aceast\u0103 tortur\u0103 are Colin nevoie pentru a ajunge s\u0103 se \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 pe sine, s\u0103-\u0219i defineasc\u0103 limitele \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 asumat \u0219i cu ini\u021biativ\u0103 personal\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu voi spoileri continuarea, de\u0219i mi-ar fi pl\u0103cut s\u0103 analizez personajele p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t – deja v\u0103d trei assholi r\u0103gind \u00een sec\u021biunea de comentarii c\u0103 am spoilerit c\u00e2te ceva, \u0219i \u0219ti\u021bi ceva, nu v\u0103 pune nimeni s\u0103 citi\u021bi, deci, suge\u021bi-mi-o cum i-o sugea Colin lui Ray – dar recomand c\u0103lduros filmul tuturor persoanelor care nu \u0219tiu s\u0103-\u0219i negocieze limitele personale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen cinematografe din 9 februarie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00ce\u021bi place s\u0103 cite\u0219ti aceste articole? Po\u021bi ajuta \u00een mod direct la scrierea lor. Iat\u0103 cum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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