Am nevoie de un sfat matur de la o fat\u0103 care le spune direct, iar tu e\u0219ti omul ideal pentru asta. \u0218i se \u0219i potrive\u0219te de Valentine, deci e bine. \ud83d\ude42 <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Problema e c\u0103 de vreo dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni avem un coleg nou la birou. E frumu\u0219el foc, inteligent \u0219i politicos, \u0219i m\u0103 pomenesc c\u0103 inventez toate motivele din univers s\u0103 \u00eei cer ajutorul cu c\u00e2te ceva, s\u0103 \u00eel implic \u00een discu\u021bii \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eei cer p\u0103reri. Nu m\u0103 pot ab\u021bine s\u0103 nu fac glume cu dublu \u00een\u021beles, iar el r\u0103spunde \u00eentr-un mod foarte dr\u0103gu\u021b \u0219i simpatic. \u00cemi dau seama c\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc la el \u0219i \u00een timpul liber, \u0219i c\u0103 \u00eencep s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103gostesc a\u0219a pu\u021bin… pu\u021bin mai mult. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar cum omul nu pare s\u0103 ini\u021bieze nimic, \u00een afar\u0103 de glumi\u021be \u0219i b\u00e2rfe simpatice, m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 pentru el, totul e doar vibe de la birou \u0219i at\u00e2t. \u0218i mi-e fric\u0103 s\u0103 nu pic de proast\u0103. Tu ce ai face? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Cu drag, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Mul\u021bumesc de \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219are, oric\u00e2nd e loc de c\u00e2te una, \u00een special c\u00e2nd e cu inten\u021bii pure. Fa\u021b\u0103 de mine, c\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de bietul b\u0103iat v\u0103d c\u0103 ai cele mai impure inten\u021bii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sunt dou\u0103 categorii de pove\u0219ti de amor care se pot termina foarte prost: aventurile cu partener c\u0103s\u0103torit \u0219i cele de la locul de munc\u0103. \u00cen primul caz, b\u0103rba\u021bii au o art\u0103 s\u0103 te fac\u0103 pe tine s\u0103 crezi c\u0103 so\u021bia e o scorpie, iar pe so\u021bie, c\u0103 tu e\u0219ti o c**v\u0103 oarecare, \u0219i pe am\u00e2ndou\u0103, c\u0103 el e 100% inocent, \u0219i opinia public\u0103 misogin\u0103 va b\u0103l\u0103c\u0103ri tot femeile din poveste, pentru c\u0103 boys will be boys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cele de la locul de munc\u0103 pot ajunge gluma curent\u0103 a biroului, iar dac\u0103 treaba nu merge \u0219i v\u0103 desp\u0103r\u021bi\u021bi, minimum unul o s\u0103 fie r\u0103nit, dac\u0103 e \u0219i prost, o s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 se r\u0103zbune cu microagresiuni care creeaz\u0103 tensiune inutil\u0103 \u0219i afecteaz\u0103 randamentul profesional. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pe de alt\u0103 parte, cunosc \u0219i situa\u021bii cu oameni care s-au cunoscut la job, au ajuns s\u0103 se c\u0103s\u0103toreasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 aib\u0103 copii. \u00cen fond, c\u00e2nd petreci opt ore cu cineva, nu e de mirare c\u0103 \u00eei dedici mai mult\u0103 aten\u021bie dec\u00e2t cuiva pe care \u00eel vezi o dat\u0103 pe lun\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n E bine s\u0103 \u0219tii, totodat\u0103 c\u0103 persoanele cu \u0219apte ani de acas\u0103 sunt fermec\u0103toare \u0219i politicoase ca masc\u0103 social\u0103. Eu nu a\u0219 confunda asta cu personalitatea real\u0103 a omului. A\u0219teapt\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eel cuno\u0219ti mai bine, vezi ce se ascunde sub farmecul de suprafa\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Iar legat de adev\u0103ratele inten\u021bii, e simplu: \u201dMircea, am auzit c\u0103 s-a deschis un bar nou \u00een centru, vrei s\u0103 mergem s\u0103 test\u0103m cocteilurile vineri seara?\u201d Pe un ton inocent, s\u0103 ai unde s\u0103 dai \u00eend\u0103r\u0103t dac\u0103 te refuz\u0103. Subliniez: e un loc de munc\u0103, nu vrei s\u0103 creezi tensiune de prost gust. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 te refuz\u0103, ai un r\u0103spuns. Dac\u0103 accept\u0103, baft\u0103 mai departe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Admit: eu a\u0219 am\u00e2na pu\u021bin o astfel de invita\u021bie \u0219i l-a\u0219 l\u0103sa s\u0103 se desf\u0103\u0219oare, s\u0103 dea jos din proprie ini\u021biativ\u0103 masca social\u0103. Pentru c\u0103, exact cum am spus: o poveste de la birou poate crea o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de complica\u021bii \u0219i de situa\u021bii jenante. Multe scandaluri ar fi fost ucise \u00een fa\u0219\u0103 dac\u0103 femeia nu s-ar fi gr\u0103bit s\u0103 ia interesul respectivului fa\u021b\u0103 de ea drept adev\u0103rata lui personalitate \u0219i nu ar fi s\u0103rit cu capul \u00eenainte \u00een necuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 de cauz\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n R\u00e2zi \u00een continuare, glume\u0219te, fii simpatic\u0103 \u0219i bucur\u0103-te de senza\u021bia crushului. Dar nu uita c\u0103 de acolo \u00ee\u021bi iei salariul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00ce\u021bi place s\u0103 cite\u0219ti aceste articole? Po\u021bi ajuta \u00een mod direct la scrierea lor. Iat\u0103 cum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":14729,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29145","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Love-Letter.jpg?fit=900%2C675&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29145","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29145"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29145\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29146,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29145\/revisions\/29146"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14729"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29145"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29145"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29145"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&ssl=1\")
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