{"id":29171,"date":"2026-02-20T14:28:18","date_gmt":"2026-02-20T11:28:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=29171"},"modified":"2026-02-20T17:02:22","modified_gmt":"2026-02-20T14:02:22","slug":"reality-check-misoginismul-internalizat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/reality-check-misoginismul-internalizat\/","title":{"rendered":"Reality Check: misoginismul internalizat"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>La vremea ei, emisiunea America&#8217;s Next Top Model p\u0103rea o platform\u0103 revolu\u021bionar\u0103, ce putea lansa carierele frumuse\u021bilor cu vise de fotomodele. Era impresionant pentru acea vreme faptul c\u0103 juratul principal \u0219i liderul emisiunii era o femeie, \u0219i c\u0103 era afro-american\u0103, iar cei doi jura\u021bi secundari, Jay Manuel \u0219i MissJ Alexander, erau doi b\u0103rba\u021bi gay asuma\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mii de fete frumoase, gata s\u0103 fac\u0103 orice pentru visul de vedet\u0103, s-au n\u0103pustit s\u0103 \u00eenha\u021be oportunitatea, iar publicul lacom de nuri feminini a devorat showul, episod cu episod. Numai c\u0103, din p\u0103cate, controversele legate de modul \u00een care erau tratate concurentele au \u00eenceput s\u0103 se strecoare de sub pre\u0219, iar docuseria <strong>Reality Check <\/strong>de pe Netflix le compileaz\u0103 pe toate \u00eentr-o poveste revelatorie: orice industrie bazat\u0103 pe frumuse\u021be feminin\u0103 e plin\u0103 de rechini fioro\u0219i \u0219i pe abuz interminabil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unele detalii, ca de exemplu body shamingul interminabil, sunt deja cunoscute. Anii 90 \u0219i 2000 vor c\u0103ra mereu dup\u0103 ei mo\u0219tenirea anorexiei impuse \u0219i a \u00eenfomet\u0103rii promovate ca stil de via\u021b\u0103. N-am \u00een\u021beles niciodat\u0103 cine a decis s\u0103 nu po\u021bi fi model dec\u00e2t dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi zdr\u0103ng\u0103ne oasele, mai ales c\u0103 pia\u021ba are consumatori de toate v\u00e2rstele \u0219i greut\u0103\u021bile, \u0219i tehnic, to\u021bi ace\u0219tia ar trebui reprezenta\u021bi, dar efectul a fost un bullying interminabil \u0219i \u00eenfior\u0103tor de toxic legat de aspectul fizic, bullying pe care unii \u00eel mai practic\u0103 \u0219i azi. \u00cen compara\u021bie, <strong>RuPaul&#8217;s Drag Race<\/strong>, echivalentul pentru drag queens, a avut \u00eentotdeauna grij\u0103 s\u0103 introduc\u0103 \u00een distribu\u021bie \u0219i big girls (plus size) \u0219i s\u0103 le celebreze pentru corpul lor, pentru c\u0103, reamintim: toate categoriile de consumator merit\u0103 reprezentare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ce mai reiese destul  de evident e o mentalitate de care m-am izbit \u0219i eu frecvent \u00een carier\u0103: ca femeie, a\u0219tept\u0103rile unora sunt s\u0103 tolerezi orice tip de abuz cu gra\u021bie \u0219i un z\u00e2mbet. De cum \u00eencerci s\u0103 setezi o limit\u0103, \u021bi se aplic\u0103 instant eticheta de \u201ddificil\u0103\u201d \u0219i de \u201dimposibil\u0103\u201d. \u0218i urmeaz\u0103 sabotajul pe fa\u021b\u0103. \u0218edin\u021be foto din care e selectat\u0103 \u00een mod special cea mai proast\u0103 poz\u0103, pentru a elimina concurenta. Umiliri, jigniri, zbierete. Dificult\u0103\u021bi create doar pentru a te face de rahat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sigur, aceste manevre se practic\u0103 \u0219i acum \u00een emisiunile de tip reality, pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 totul merge bine \u0219i toat\u0103 lumea se \u00een\u021belege, povestea devine plictisitoare. Dar abuzul din ANTM era flagrant, la cote neegalate de niciun alt ahow tv. \u0218i asta pentru c\u0103 fetele tinere sunt o categorie extrem de vulnerabil\u0103 \u0219i de influen\u021babil\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unele episoade, ca agresiunea s*xual\u0103 suferit\u0103 de o concurent\u0103 care se \u00eemb\u0103tase rang\u0103 \u0219i era \u00een imposibilitate de a se ap\u0103ra &#8211; iar echipa a continuat s\u0103 filmeze, \u00een loc s\u0103 intervin\u0103 &#8211; vor r\u0103m\u00e2ne o pat\u0103 neagr\u0103 \u00een istoria showului. Altele &#8211; Tyra r\u0103gind furioas\u0103 la o candidat\u0103 care nu p\u0103rea c\u0103 sufer\u0103 suficient \u00een momentul elimin\u0103rii &#8211; sunt doar penibile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Modele obligate s\u0103 se tund\u0103 pentru un shooting, eliminate c\u0103 nu le st\u0103tea bine tunsoarea &#8211; pe care tot stili\u0219tii showului au f\u0103cut-o. Modele obligate s\u0103 participe la \u0219edin\u021be foto controversate, inclusiv \u00een calitate de victime ale unor crime. Modele obligate s\u0103 dea mii de dolari din banii lor la dentist, s\u0103 astupe o strung\u0103rea\u021b\u0103, chit c\u0103 sunt destule vedete cu strung\u0103rea\u021b\u0103 \u00een business. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar m\u0103car n-a fost totul degeaba, ANTM le-a garantat o carier\u0103 \u00een modelling, nu? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ei, bine, nu. Pentru c\u0103 Tyra, etichetat\u0103 la r\u00e2ndul ei ca \u201edificil\u0103\u201d \u0219i \u201dimposibil\u0103\u201d, avea propriii ei du\u0219mani \u00een lumea modei, iar ei au extins aceast\u0103 r\u0103fuial\u0103 \u0219i la adresa fetelor venite din emisiunea ei, pentru simpla participare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Urm\u0103rind documentarul, remarci un singur lucru: nimeni nu ajunge s\u0103 sufere de misoginism internalizat ca o femeie supus\u0103 zi de zi misoginismului f\u0103\u021bi\u0219, \u00eentr-o industrie dominat\u0103 de rechini. Tyra \u0219i-a luat bagajul de traume \u0219i l-a azv\u00e2rlit cu sete peste feti\u021bele nevinovate venite s\u0103 se impun\u0103 ca regine ale frumuse\u021bii. Le-a umilit, pentru c\u0103 a fost umilit\u0103, a zbierat la ele pentru c\u0103 s-a zbierat la ea, le-a sabotat pentru c\u0103 a fost sabotat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>ANTM e practic o poveste a victimei care ajunge agresor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poate mai facem o serie, promite Tyra la finalul interviului. \u0218i singurul t\u0103u g\u00e2nd ca spectator este: \u201dTe rog, nuuuuu. Ai nenorocit destui oameni p\u00e2n\u0103 acum.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00ce\u021bi place s\u0103 cite\u0219ti aceste articole? Po\u021bi ajuta \u00een mod direct la scrierea lor. Iat\u0103 cum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>La vremea ei, emisiunea America&#8217;s Next Top Model p\u0103rea o platform\u0103 revolu\u021bionar\u0103, ce putea lansa carierele frumuse\u021bilor cu vise de fotomodele. 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