{"id":29216,"date":"2026-03-04T11:40:45","date_gmt":"2026-03-04T08:40:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=29216"},"modified":"2026-03-04T11:40:49","modified_gmt":"2026-03-04T08:40:49","slug":"sincer-bravo-mara-banica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/sincer-bravo-mara-banica\/","title":{"rendered":"Sincer, bravo, Mara B\u0103nic\u0103!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Mara B\u0103nic\u0103 e o jurnalist\u0103 ajuns\u0103 influencer cu prezen\u021be \u00een emisiuni mondene \u0219i un num\u0103r mare de fani \u0219i, evident, de hateri \u00een online. Mult hate primit de ea e abuz verbal pe linia \u201dnu te ui\u021bi, f\u0103, la tine cum ar\u0103\u021bi\u201d sau \u201dla v\u00e2rsta ta, ar trebui s\u0103 por\u021bi batic \u0219i s\u0103 pupi moa\u0219te ca hobby, nu s\u0103 fii div\u0103 pe net\u201d. Cu alte cuvinte, shaming ageist \u0219i insulte legate de aspectul fizic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e2rsta altuia \u0219i aspectul lui fizic te privesc \u00eentr-un singur caz: dac\u0103 acel altul e sub geamul t\u0103u \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi c\u00e2nt\u0103 o serenad\u0103 \u00een genunchi. Atunci da, e important pentru tine s\u0103 apuce s\u0103 o termine f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ai de chemat o ambulan\u021b\u0103 c\u0103 i-a cedat \u0219oldul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar dac\u0103 acel altul nu te v\u00e2neaz\u0103 activ, mai mult, nu are nicio treab\u0103 intim\u0103 cu tine \u0219i nici nu dore\u0219te, nici v\u00e2rsta, nici lookul nu conteaz\u0103. Eu, de exemplu, am a\u0219a o tenta\u021bie s\u0103 fac glume despre Mihai Tr\u0103istariu, de diminea\u021ba p\u00e2n\u0103 seara. Dar m\u0103 ab\u021bin, fix pe considerentele precizate aici. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mara B\u0103nic\u0103 a g\u0103sit modalitatea perfect\u0103 de a le da peste nas acestor hateri: screenshot cu insulta, \u00eenso\u021bit\u0103 de poza individului sau a individei \u0219i o replic\u0103 pe m\u0103sur\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219a descoperi c\u0103 mul\u021bi care latr\u0103 lookul altuia sunt ur\u00e2\u021bi ca cer\u0219itul \u00een locuri publice \u0219i mul\u021bi care latr\u0103 v\u00e2rsta sunt babe \u0219tirbe \u0219i hodorogi h\u00e2r\u0219\u00e2i\u021bi. \u0218i \u00een timp ce Mara B\u0103nic\u0103 arat\u0103 superb la cei aproape 50 de ani ai ei – arat\u0103 superb stop, dar cum contextul discutat este v\u00e2rsta, facem aceast\u0103 corela\u021bie aici – haterii ei au fost ro\u0219i intens de moliile timpului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar v\u0103d mereu \u00een sec\u021biunea ei de comentarii o categorie pe care mie \u00eemi place s-o denumesc \u201davocatul prostului\u201d. Ce face avocatul prostului? Vine prostul, te insult\u0103. Tu \u00eei dai o replic\u0103 ustur\u0103toare. Avocatul prostului se apuc\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi fac\u0103 shaming \u021bie pentru replica ustur\u0103toare, \u00een timp ce prostului \u00eei d\u0103 ceea ce numim \u201dprost pass\u201d – \u201ds\u0103racul, el e prost \u0219i are voie\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aha, deci dac\u0103 el e prost, poate abuza verbal pe oricine, dar dac\u0103 eu, conform teoriei tale, nu sunt proast\u0103, trebuie s\u0103 \u00eencasez cu stoicism abuzul \u0219i s\u0103-mi pun \u0219i cenu\u0219\u0103 \u00een cap, \u00een semn de inteligen\u021b\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vestea bun\u0103 e c\u0103 dac\u0103 prostul nu prime\u0219te replic\u0103, se simte \u00eencurajat s\u0103 latre mai mult \u0219i mai toxic. Dac\u0103 prime\u0219te prost pass de la avocatul prostului, se simte \u00eencurajat s\u0103 latre mai mult \u0219i mai toxic. Dac\u0103 \u00eei pui oglinda \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2nd te insult\u0103, tinde s\u0103 se lase p\u0103guba\u0219 \u0219i s\u0103 plece. Spun c\u0103 tinde, pentru c\u0103 mai exist\u0103 \u0219i prostul-r\u00e2ie, care nu se las\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 dosar penal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu \u00eei explic o singur\u0103 dat\u0103 avocatului prostului c\u0103 mi se pare extrem de injust s\u0103 acorzi prost pass lui X \u0219i standarde \u00eenalte de exigen\u021b\u0103 lui Y, \u0219i s\u0103 aplice acelea\u0219i a\u0219tept\u0103ri tuturor. Dac\u0103 limbajul inadecvat \u0219i insultele sunt problema, \u00eencepe prin a freca la icre prostul, c\u0103 el a ini\u021biat interac\u021biunea \u0219i el i-a dat tonul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar dac\u0103 prostul are voie, c\u0103 e prost, am rug\u0103mintea s\u0103-mi acorzi \u0219i mie prost pass, c\u0103 nu am nici m\u0103car o und\u0103 vag\u0103 de chef s\u0103 m\u0103 conformez unor standarde de exigen\u021b\u0103 pe care nu le aplici tuturor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 avocatul prostului nu prinde ideea \u0219i continu\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 \u0219coleasc\u0103 pe un ton superior, \u00eei dau block, c\u0103 via\u021ba e prea scurt\u0103 pentru duble standarde. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De aceea v\u0103 invit pe to\u021bi cei pe care v-a g\u0103sit brusc milostenia cre\u0219tineasc\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de bie\u021bii hateri ai Marei B\u0103nic\u0103 s\u0103 medita\u021bi lung dac\u0103 e cazul de prost pass. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un individ sau o individ\u0103 se treze\u0219te de diminea\u021b\u0103 \u0219i alege s\u0103 fie sc\u00e2rbos cu o alt\u0103 fiin\u021b\u0103, doar pentru c\u0103 netul e gratuit. \u0218i \u021bie \u021bi se pare c\u0103 acesta merit\u0103 oblojit, \u00een timp ce fiin\u021ba care se ap\u0103r\u0103 trebuie pis\u0103logit\u0103 pentru c\u0103 s-a ap\u0103rat? Pe bune?? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce unii au prost pass \u0219i al\u021bii trebuie mereu s\u0103 demonstreze virtute?? \u0218i pe ce criterii? Doar pentru c\u0103 are mai mul\u021bi followeri \u0219i pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i monetizeaz\u0103 con\u021binutul? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0103i, instrumentul de monetization al lui Facebook e public. L-ai putea folosi \u0219i tu, dac\u0103 con\u021binutul t\u0103u are suficient impact, s\u0103 ajung\u0103 la un num\u0103r semnificant de persoane. De unde mentalitatea asta, c\u0103 dac\u0103 unul are impact, brusc avem carte blanche s\u0103 l\u0103tr\u0103m la el sau ea tot ce ne trece prin cap? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mara B\u0103nic\u0103, mul\u021bumesc pentru post\u0103rile \u00een care expui rata\u021bii cu patru bur\u021bi \u0219i trei b\u0103rbii c\u0103rora li se pare c\u0103 ai c**rul cam mare. M\u0103 r\u0103core\u0219ti din baierele sufletului. A\u0219a simt \u0219i ei m\u0103car o dat\u0103 cum e s\u0103 \u00eencasezi o umilin\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00ce\u021bi place s\u0103 cite\u0219ti aceste articole? Po\u021bi ajuta \u00een mod direct la scrierea lor. Iat\u0103 cum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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