{"id":29266,"date":"2026-03-21T12:06:13","date_gmt":"2026-03-21T09:06:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=29266"},"modified":"2026-03-21T12:06:16","modified_gmt":"2026-03-21T09:06:16","slug":"pe-cine-ajuta-de-fapt-manosfera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/pe-cine-ajuta-de-fapt-manosfera\/","title":{"rendered":"Pe cine ajut\u0103 de fapt manosfera?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Am devenit con\u0219tient\u0103 de apari\u021bia manosferei cam prin 2012, cu urm\u0103torul comportament: b\u0103rba\u021bi necunoscu\u021bi care tratau social media ca pe un imens app de ag\u0103\u021bat \u0219i se b\u0103gau \u00een seam\u0103 cu mesaje private libidinoase \u0219i agresiv sexuale, chit c\u0103 nimic din interac\u021biunea precedent\u0103 (\u00een caz c\u0103 ar fi existat) nu justifica atare abordare. Dac\u0103 \u00eei ignorai, te \u00eenjurau c\u0103 lor nu le d\u0103 nimeni seen. Dac\u0103 le explicai frumos c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti \u00een c\u0103utare, se libidino\u0219eau \u0219i mai agresiv. Dac\u0103 te enervai \u0219i \u00eei b\u0103gai \u00een mor\u021bii lor, se v\u0103ic\u0103reau c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti o doamn\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 \u201dai energie masculin\u0103\u201d, \u0219i c\u0103 \u201dnu vei g\u0103si niciodat\u0103 pe cineva care s\u0103 te iubeasc\u0103\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu erau un gigel-doi care se purtau a\u0219a, ci sute pe zi. Cred c\u0103 2012 &#8211; 2015 au fost anii c\u00e2nd manosfera avea leverage \u00een online, \u00eenainte ca b\u0103rba\u021bii normali s\u0103 se trezeasc\u0103 la a) realitatea faptului c\u0103 acest stil func\u021bioneaz\u0103 doar cu naive \u0219i speriate, \u0219i, \u00een rest, poate duce u\u0219or la o pl\u00e2ngere la poli\u021bie b) realitatea faptului c\u0103 majoritatea influencerilor care \u201d\u00eei \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 cum s\u0103 fie b\u0103rba\u021bi\u201d le iau doar banii, prin \u201dacademii de masculinitate\u201d sau \u201dscheme de investi\u021bii\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Documentarul lui Louis Theroux, de pe Netflix, intr\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba c\u00e2torva astfel de influenceri. Un mod extrem de u\u0219or de a face bani online e s\u0103 creezi content care incit\u0103 la ur\u0103 \u00eempotriva femeilor pentru c\u0103, a\u0219a cum o spune un combatant pe acolo \u201dfemeile se nasc valoroase, prin frumuse\u021bea lor, dar b\u0103rba\u021bilor nu le d\u0103 nimeni nimic\u201d. A\u0219adar, originea manosferei vine din invidia pe care a resim\u021bit-o gigel c\u00e2nd colega lui de la \u0219coal\u0103 a fost complimentat\u0103 \u0219i el nu? Wow. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Evident, cum \u0219tie orice femeie, valoarea pe care \u021bi-o confer\u0103 frumuse\u021bea e cea mai eluziv\u0103. Cum zice combatantul: \u201do femeie e invitat\u0103 \u00eentr-o croazier\u0103 pentru c\u0103 e frumoas\u0103, un b\u0103rbat nu\u201d. Da, dar invita\u021bia aia vine mereu cu a\u0219teptarea c\u0103 tu o s\u0103 faci diverse. Dac\u0103 o femeie vrea s\u0103 se duc\u0103 \u00eentr-o croazier\u0103 ca simplu turist lini\u0219tit, pl\u0103te\u0219te exact ca un b\u0103rbat. \u0218i uneori, cum am ar\u0103tat \u00een <a href=\"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/femei-evitati-agentia-hai-sa-socializam\/\"><strong>acest articol<\/strong><\/a>, femeia pl\u0103te\u0219te exact ca un b\u0103rbat, dar e h\u0103r\u021buit\u0103 oricum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ce te surprinde \u00een interac\u021biunile lui Louis Theroux cu influencerii alpha male e nivelul de suspiciune cu care ace\u0219tia \u00eel trateaz\u0103 de la bun \u00eenceput. \u201dO s\u0103 m\u0103 f**i, nu-i a\u0219a?\u201d, \u00eentreab\u0103 HSTIkkyTokky, un \u0219mechera\u0219 care, \u00een acel moment, fugise din Marea Britanie s\u0103 nu fie arestat de poli\u021bie pentru p\u0103r\u0103sirea scenei unui accident. \u201dM\u0103 ur\u0103\u0219ti, nu-i a\u0219a?\u201d, \u00eentreab\u0103 unul mai matur, cu ifose de om de afaceri, dup\u0103 ce-i prezint\u0103 conceptul de monogamie unilateral\u0103, \u00een care el \u00ee\u0219i \u00een\u0219al\u0103 iubita cu cine are chef, \u0219i totodat\u0103 se a\u0219teapt\u0103 la fidelitate absolut\u0103 din partea ei, pentru c\u0103 \u201dfemeile care iubesc un b\u0103rbat nu vor s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 cu al\u021bii.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201dMa\u0219ina de sp\u0103lat vase\u201d, \u00ee\u0219i prezint\u0103 HS iubita, o feti\u021b\u0103 numai piele \u0219i os, folosit\u0103 pe post de trofeu pentru gigeii online, impresiona\u021bi de bun\u0103ciunile de care se \u00eenconjoar\u0103 idolul lor. Cum feti\u021ba nu d\u0103 pe dinafar\u0103 de inteligen\u021b\u0103, \u00eei \u0219i tr\u0103deaz\u0103 prompt narativa: \u201dCe \u00ee\u021bi place la el?\u201d \u201dBanii lui\u201d, r\u0103spunde ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apropo de banii lui, ce au \u00een comun to\u021bi influencerii manosferei e opulen\u021ba pe care o servesc publicului. Destina\u021bii exotice, ma\u0219ini scumpe, haine de firm\u0103, apartamente exorbitante. \u0218i, desigur, modele de Onlyfans frumoase \u0219i apetisante, pe care declar\u0103 c\u0103 le dispre\u021buiesc, dar totodat\u0103, sunt singurele femei al\u0103turi de care se afi\u0219eaz\u0103. Un intervievat are agen\u021bie cu care manageriaz\u0103 modele de Onlyfans, dar spune c\u0103 \u0219i-ar dezmo\u0219teni fiica, dac\u0103 ar face Onlyfans. Faptul c\u0103 dispre\u021buie\u0219te femeile \u201du\u0219oare\u201d nu \u00eel \u00eempiedic\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 bani pe urma lor, \u0219i nici nu \u00eel motiveaz\u0103 s\u0103 se \u00eenconjoare cu mironosi\u021be virtuoase. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E interesant\u0103 interac\u021biunea lui Theroux cu iubitele acestor alpha males \u0219i cu mama unuia dintre ei. Mam\u0103 care a avut dou\u0103 joburi, ani \u00een \u0219ir, s\u0103 finan\u021beze studiile odorului care, \u00een prezent, \u00eempr\u0103\u0219tie online ur\u0103 la adresa femeilor \u0219i mentalitatea c\u0103 femeile nu ar trebui s\u0103 aib\u0103 drepturi. Mama admite c\u0103 nu \u00eei urm\u0103re\u0219te contentul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iubitele au acela\u0219i argument: \u201dC\u00e2nd e doar cu mine, nu se poart\u0103 a\u0219a. Face asta doar pentru clout.\u201d (= aten\u021bie online.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poate cea mai iritant\u0103 preten\u021bie a acestor specimene e c\u0103 ei ar iubi femeile. \u201dIubesc femeile, poate chiar prea mult, de aia \u0219tiu ce e bine pentru ele\u201d. (S\u0103 le ataci agresiv, s\u0103 le \u021bii la crati\u021b\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 latri ordine la ele. S\u0103 le insul\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 cau\u021bi s\u0103 le umile\u0219ti online. S\u0103 le racolezi, s\u0103 le pui s\u0103-\u021bi produc\u0103 bani cu corpurile lor, \u00een timp ce tu te declari superior moral \u0219i profund sc\u00e2rbit.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Documentarul lui Louis Theroux nu spune nimic nou despre manosfer\u0103. S\u0103 citez o mem\u0103 din anii 2010: We been knew. Dar \u00ee\u021bi arat\u0103 destul de elocvent ce sunt \u00een fond aceste specimene: escroci m\u0103run\u021bi, care se folosesc de frustr\u0103rile mul\u021bimii pentru a face bani. Narativa \u201d\u00cen loc s\u0103 fii sclav \u00een Matrix, investe\u0219te cu mine \u0219i hai s\u0103 fim milionari\u201d i-a divor\u021bat pe mul\u021bi naivi de banii lor. Pilula aia ro\u0219ie cu care se laud\u0103 ei te treze\u0219te doar la realitatea propriei prostii, \u0219i asta se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 de cele mai multe ori c\u00e2nd nu mai po\u021bi repara nimic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar to\u021bi ace\u0219ti l\u0103b\u0103rici jalnici nu ajungeau influenceri f\u0103r\u0103 hoardele de b\u0103rba\u021bi care ur\u0103sc femeile \u0219i g\u0103sesc pl\u0103cere \u00een a le vedea umilite, \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 misoginismul internalizat al femeilor care accept\u0103 s\u0103 se asocieze cu ei. Ei sunt simple simptome. Boala e la nivel de societate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00ce\u021bi place s\u0103 cite\u0219ti aceste articole? Po\u021bi ajuta \u00een mod direct la scrierea lor. Iat\u0103 cum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am devenit con\u0219tient\u0103 de apari\u021bia manosferei cam prin 2012, cu urm\u0103torul comportament: b\u0103rba\u021bi necunoscu\u021bi care tratau social media ca pe un imens app de&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":29267,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29266","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/manosphere-.jpeg?fit=1280%2C720&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29266","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29266"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29266\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29268,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29266\/revisions\/29268"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29267"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29266"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29266"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29266"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}