{"id":29269,"date":"2026-03-22T12:45:43","date_gmt":"2026-03-22T09:45:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=29269"},"modified":"2026-03-22T12:45:47","modified_gmt":"2026-03-22T09:45:47","slug":"despre-feminism-si-s-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-feminism-si-s-work\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre feminism \u0219i s… work"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Zilele astea, a ap\u0103rut un proiect de lege care ar legaliza \u0219i reglementa activit\u0103\u021bile de budoar – \u0219i av\u00e2nd \u00een vedere c\u0103 Rom\u00e2nia e Thailanda Europei, legea asta e mai mult dec\u00e2t necesar\u0103. A avut loc \u0219i un protest al unui grup de s… workers, deranjate – pe bun\u0103 dreptate, dac\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreba\u021bi pe mine – c\u0103 nu au fost invitate la consult\u0103ri legate de legea care le va defini activitatea. Societatea noastr\u0103 mioritic\u0103 mai are mult\u0103 bere de b\u0103ut p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een\u021belege c\u0103 oamenii care ofer\u0103 acest tip de servicii sunt oameni, ca oricare al\u021bii, c\u0103 nevoile lor conteaz\u0103, a\u0219a cum conteaz\u0103 nevoile oric\u0103rui grup profesional, \u0219i c\u0103 nu po\u021bi face legi dup\u0103 cum te taie capul, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerci m\u0103car s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi realitatea de pe teren. Pentru c\u0103 nicio categorie de popula\u021bie nu e mai vulnerabil\u0103, mai abuzat\u0103 \u0219i mai marginalizat\u0103 dec\u00e2t aceasta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am asistat \u0219i la discu\u021bii online cu activiste feministe care se delimitau sc\u00e2rbite de s… work. \u0218i nu la modul \u201deu nu a\u0219 face asta niciodat\u0103\u201d, ceea ce e de \u00een\u021beles. Nici s… workeri\u021ba nu ar face asta niciodat\u0103, dac\u0103 nu ar \u00eempinge-o situa\u021bia material\u0103 disperat\u0103. Se delimitau la modul: \u201dEu sunt feminist\u0103 doar pentru femei cinstite, nu pentru epave\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ceea ce, din punctul meu de vedere, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti feminist\u0103 deloc. E extrem de u\u0219or s\u0103 sus\u021bii din vorbe pe cineva care n-are nevoie de nimic \u0219i se descurc\u0103 de minune singur \u0219i mult mai greu s\u0103 sus\u021bii cu fapte \u0219i cu bun\u0103tate pe cineva aflat \u00eentr-o situa\u021bie limit\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar feminismul a ap\u0103rut taman datorit\u0103 femeilor aflate \u00een situa\u021bii limit\u0103. Care nu mai tolerau abuzul, umilin\u021ba, insultele, violen\u021ba domestic\u0103 etc. etc. Femeile mul\u021bumite de situa\u021bia lor nu au nevoie de revolu\u021bie, ele au deja tot ce le trebuie. Dac\u0103 feminismul are un rost \u0219i un rol, e \u00een primul r\u00e2nd acela de a lupta pentru femei umilite, marginalizate, abuzate. Pentru cele care nu sunt \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103. Pentru cele exploatate \u0219i manipulate. S\u0103 spui c\u0103 feminismul t\u0103u nu include aten\u021bia fa\u021b\u0103 de s work \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu \u00ee\u021bi pas\u0103 de fapt de femei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu e \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor faptul c\u0103 s work e cea mai veche meserie din lume. Dintotdeauna, nevoia de s f\u0103r\u0103 obliga\u021bii a fost mai mare dec\u00e2t disponibilitatea de a te co\u021b\u0103i cu unul care nu te ia de nevast\u0103 dup\u0103. \u0218i acest dezechilibru a fost reglat de femei dispuse s\u0103 ofere acest serviciu contra cost. \u0218i e mai s\u0103n\u0103tos a\u0219a, dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi fie fric\u0103 s\u0103 ie\u0219i pe strad\u0103 din cauza netufu\u021bilor care se bag\u0103 \u00een seam\u0103 cu tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i \u00eenc\u0103 o opinie personal\u0103 controversat\u0103: voi respecta \u00eentotdeauna un b\u0103rbat care pl\u0103te\u0219te o fat\u0103, \u00een loc s\u0103 o mint\u0103 la infinit c\u0103 divor\u021beaz\u0103 pentru ea \u0219i s\u0103 o plimbe cu speran\u021be. Starea emo\u021bional\u0103 a unei lucr\u0103toare sexuale e mult mai bun\u0103 dec\u00e2t aceea a unei am\u0103r\u00e2te care pierde timp cu unul ce-i tot promite diverse \u0219i mai trece pe la ea pentru una scurt\u0103 periodic. Prima \u00ee\u0219i face treaba, \u00ee\u0219i ia banii \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i vede de via\u021ba ei; a doua \u00ee\u0219i irose\u0219te timpul a\u0219tept\u00e2nd ca, la un moment dat, Gogu s-o ia \u00een serios. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219adar, da, c\u00e2t timp nevoia de s… f\u0103r\u0103 obliga\u021bii e mai mare dec\u00e2t oferta de s… f\u0103r\u0103 obliga\u021bii, va exista \u00eentotdeauna s… work, indiferent dac\u0103 ne place ideea sau nu. A\u0219a cum, c\u00e2t timp va exista veceu, vor exista vidanje, \u0219i dac\u0103 interzici vidanjele, ri\u0219ti s\u0103 \u021bi se umple casa cu kkt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prin urmare, dac\u0103 tot sunt necesare, e cazul s\u0103 nu le mai facem \u021binta violen\u021bei \u0219i a abuzurilor de toate tipurile, \u0219i nici s\u0103 \u00eenchidem ochii c\u00e2nd acestea se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Femeile intr\u0103 \u00een s… work pe dou\u0103 c\u0103i: din proprie ini\u021biativ\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd decid c\u0103 vor \u0219i le place s\u0103 fac\u0103 asta, \u0219i devin principalii beneficiari ai banilor astfel c\u00e2\u0219tiga\u021bi, ceea ce mie mi se pare c\u0103 e singurul mod \u00een care ar trebui s\u0103 se desf\u0103\u0219oare lucrurile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau, mai tragic, racolate de la v\u00e2rste foarte fragede de re\u021bele de proxene\u021bi care le priveaz\u0103 de libertate, le confisc\u0103 documentele \u0219i le for\u021beaz\u0103 la acte degradante, jecm\u0103nindu-le de banii rezulta\u021bi din munca lor, folosindu-se de ele ca de simple obiecte. \u0218i nu ai cum s\u0103 pretinzi c\u0103 e\u0219ti feminist\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 nu-\u021bi pese c\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce e mai tragic e c\u0103 mul\u021bi astfel de proxene\u021bi se v\u0103d pe ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i ca pe \u201db\u0103rba\u021bi tradi\u021bionali\u201d, care au \u201dvalori clasice\u201d. Aceste valori nu \u00eei \u00eempiedic\u0103 s\u0103 racoleze \u0219i s\u0103 exploateze tinere f\u0103r\u0103 op\u021biuni, s\u0103 le \u021bin\u0103 \u00een condi\u021bii subumane \u0219i s\u0103 profite porcin de banii astfel c\u00e2\u0219tiga\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2t timp exist\u0103 astfel de fenomene, e de datoria feminismului s\u0103 militeze pentru legi fair care s\u0103 asigure protec\u021bia femeilor \u0219i, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, mai presus de toate, asigurarea c\u0103 sunt acolo din propria lor voin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 se bucur\u0103 \u00een mod real de propriile c\u00e2\u0219tiguri. Adic\u0103, cele mai bune \u0219i umane condi\u021bii pentru contextul specific. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i da, proxenetismul ar trebui scos \u00een afara legii cu totul. Pentru ca singurul mod \u00een care s\u0103 po\u021bi profita de pe urma pr0st!tu\u021biei e prin propriul corp. Dac\u0103 gigelul \u201dtradi\u021bional\u201d mai vrea bani din s… work, s\u0103 \u0219tie c\u0103 singura op\u021biune e s\u0103 ias\u0103 el personal la produs. S\u0103 vedem atunci cum \u00eei evolueaz\u0103 bull$hitul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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