{"id":29289,"date":"2026-03-27T11:20:22","date_gmt":"2026-03-27T08:20:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=29289"},"modified":"2026-03-27T11:23:57","modified_gmt":"2026-03-27T08:23:57","slug":"posta-redactiei-manosfera-e-viata-mea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-manosfera-e-viata-mea\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Manosfera e via\u021ba mea"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE SITE. (Nu, nu \u00eemi trimite un roman fluviu s\u0103-mi scrii la final c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eentre noi.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103, contra cost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Scrisorica de azi zice a\u0219a. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Inainte&nbsp;sa-ti&nbsp;scriu email-ul&nbsp;asta sunt sigur ca-mi bat &#8220;degetele&#8221; degeaba pentru nu o sa intelegi nimic.&nbsp;Nici nu cred ca o sa vrei sa intelegi asa ceva.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Incep&nbsp;cu o chestie: se face misto de &#8220;alpha&#8221; . Bun cum vreti sa fie barbatii? Beta? Prosti?<br>Nu vrei ca femeie sa ai un &#8220;alpha&#8221; langa tine. Vrei un papalapte? Ce vreti mah ca femei? A?<br>Asta inseamna sa ai habar de manosfera. Sa te dezvolti ca individ.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Am 40 de ani sunt barbat si am cautat si eu informatii despre subiectele astea de 10 ani.<br>Nici tu si nici multi altii nu aveti habar de chestiile astea mai deloc.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sustineti ca sunteti in tema dar sunteti pe langa subiect total.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Multi sunteti blocati in gandire. Nu stiu , poate ai IQ destul de mare dar nu te informezi.<br>Zici ca ai habar de manosfera de prin 2012-2015.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ok ai auzit de Rollo Tomassi? Are 6 carti scrise are 57 de ani, e&nbsp;casatorit de peste 30 ani, are si o fata care s-a casatorit si ea. E indragostit&nbsp;de nevastasa , si nevastasa de el.<\/strong><br><strong>Asculta vreo 10-20 de podcasturi de la el si o sa vezi care-i treaba.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Asta a avut site-ul de prin 2011 si e pe youtube de prin 2016-2017.<br>E greu subiectul asta pentru femei pentru faptul ca spun anumite lucruri care nu sunt pe placul femeilor dar sunt adevarate.<br>E greu sa-i&nbsp;explici unei femei cum e sa fi barbat si prin ce treci in viata.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Si mai sunt cativa care sunt parte din manosfera care explica lucrurile nu doar se dau smecheri&nbsp;cu&nbsp;Bugatti, si Lamborghini.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ceea ce ai vazut tu si altii cu&nbsp;Documentarul ala al lui Louis Theroux e o nimica toata.<br>Pe Louis Theroux nu-l intereseaza&nbsp;sa afle adevarul, ala e ca Dan Diaconescu la noi.<br>Cauta&nbsp;senzationalul si sa incerce sa-i faca de ras pe altii.<\/strong><br><strong>Documentarul ala e ca o comedie.<\/strong><br><strong>E o porcarie&nbsp;ce au facut acolo. Pana&nbsp;si poza care a pus-o ca-l strange de gat manosfera si barbatul alpha. E manipulare. Nu e despre adevar, nu e despre o dezbatere, nu e despre nimic.<br>HSTIkkyTokky habar nu avea lumea de el. A aparut&nbsp;si el de vreo 2 &#8211; 3 ani.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>TOTI&nbsp;DIN MANOSFERA AU PRELUAT&nbsp;INFORMATIILE&nbsp;DE LA ROLLO&nbsp;SI&nbsp;SI-AU&nbsp;FACUT&nbsp;VIATASI&nbsp;STILUL&nbsp;ASA&nbsp;CUM AU VRUT EI.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Manosfera si red pill-ul nu sunt rele.&nbsp;<\/strong><strong>Manosfera iti&nbsp;spune o chestie buna si reala: barbatii si femeile sunt diferiti, dar NE COMPLETAM UNII PE ALTII&nbsp;SI&nbsp;SUNTEM MAI BINE IMPREUNA&nbsp;DECAT SEPARATI.<br><\/strong><br><strong>Manosfera nu e Andrew Tate. Andrew Tate a devenit cunoscut in 2018-2019 cand&nbsp;fracsu Tristan Tate s-a combinat cu Bianca Dragusanu.<br><\/strong><strong><br>Te fac sa fi peste media populatiei, sau sa incerci sa devi asa.<br>Sa&nbsp;ai bani, sa ai fizicul aranjat, sa intelegi femeile, sa te intelegi pe tine ca barbat.<br>Sa&nbsp;ai knowledge in pana mea.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Eu te intreb o chestie: ce vrei tu ca femeie? Un barbat prost si neinformat, un frustrat care sa nu aiba habar sa vorbeasca cu tine&#8230;sau un barbat smecher, destept si sexy care sa aiba habar de cum merg lucrurile? A? Duceti-va si stati cu prosti de barbati daca asta vreti.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Manosfera e pentru barbati destepti&nbsp;care citesc, invata&nbsp;se dezvolta ca nu te invata&nbsp;nimeni din burta mamei cum sa fi mai departe in viata. Ori inveti ori ramai prost.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ok zici tu si altii ca nu e buna manosfera. Bun &#8211; oferiti soluti, zi-mi ce altceva sa invat , zi-mi de la cine sa invat.<\/strong><br><strong><br>Nimeni nu o sa ofere raspunsuri pentru intrebarea&nbsp;asta.<br>Ii&nbsp;doare in&nbsp;cot pe toti, vor doar sa scoata ochii ca vai invata barbatii&nbsp;si adolescenti&nbsp;chestii nasoale.<br><br>Bai esti&nbsp;femeie. Esti&nbsp;deacord ca si femeile fac lucruri de cacat? Si femeile sunt oameni deci sunt si ele defecte, au si ele probleme. Nimeni nu-i perfect.<br><br>Tu crezi ca lucrurile astea au aparut&nbsp;degeaba? Sunt prosti oamenii astia din Manosfera? Sunt inculti? Au IQ-ul scazut?<br><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ce mama naibi frate. Sunt oamenii desptepti&nbsp;care se chinuie sa-i&nbsp;informeze pe altii referitor la ceea ce se intampla.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Myron Gaines,&nbsp;ala de la fresh and fit a adus peste 2000 de femei in podcasturile lui.<br>Se duce si face debate-uri&nbsp;prin universitati&nbsp;in America.<\/strong><br><strong>E prost ala?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nici nu stiti&nbsp;ce se intampla in societati.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(Men\u021biune: nu am intervenit \u00een gramatica \u0219i punctua\u021bia mailului, le-am l\u0103sat cum le-a a\u0219ternut autorul, c\u0103 tot spune el c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 fie b\u0103rbat de\u0219tept.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Drag\u0103 X., <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ce \u00eemi poveste\u0219ti tu acolo despre teoriile manosferei versus cum v\u0103 purta\u021bi online \u0219i offline \u00eemi sun\u0103 ca diferen\u021ba dintre cuv\u00e2nt\u0103rile glorioase ale lui Putin despre \u021bar\u0103 \u0219i popor versus bombardamente \u0219i crime pe c\u00e2mpul de lupt\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201d<strong>Teorie: B\u0103rba\u021bii \u0219i femeile sunt diferi\u021bi, dar se completeaz\u0103\u201d se traduce, \u00een execi\u021biu practic, prin gigei pis\u0103logi, agresivi, misecuveni\u0219ti, care latr\u0103 ordine la tine \u0219i fac pe \u0219efii, chit c\u0103 nu \u00ee\u021bi pl\u0103tesc salariu. Gigei care caut\u0103 s\u0103 aga\u021be de zici c\u0103 te-au g\u0103sit pe trotuar, dar tot ei vor femei virgine, \u0219i-\u0219i permit compara\u021biile alea odioase cu ma\u0219ini vechi, de parc\u0103 femeia ar fi un obiect. Gigei care nu \u00een\u021beleg un \u201dnu\u201d. Cum a zis-o \u0103la din documentar, \u0219i care e realitatea vie\u021bii multor gigei: \u201dDac\u0103 t\u00e2rfa merge la club f\u0103r\u0103 permisiunea mea, \u00eei distrug via\u021ba\u201d. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Cum feminismul nu \u00eendeamn\u0103 pe nicio  femeie s\u0103 devin\u0103 at\u00e2t de abuziv\u0103 cu voi, cel mult s\u0103 ia m\u0103suri c\u00e2nd nu \u00een\u021belege\u021bi nici cu desene s\u0103 get lost, nu prea v\u0103d cum le po\u021bi compara. Feminismul a ap\u0103rut pentru c\u0103 femeile s-au s\u0103turat s\u0103 fie menajere moca \u0219i aparate de \u00eempins copii. Se refer\u0103 la alegeri legate de propria via\u021b\u0103, nu de moduri \u00een care \u00eei po\u021bi chinui \u0219i stresa pe al\u021bii. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nu am v\u0103zut feministe h\u0103r\u021buind un b\u0103rbat a\u0219a cum h\u0103r\u021buiesc incelii o femeie pe care li se pune pata.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Dac\u0103 manosfera era despre cum s\u0103 fi\u021bi mai buni \u0219i mai de\u0219tep\u021bi, poate c\u0103 la ora asta scriai corect gramatical, pentru \u00eenceput. \u0218i poate c\u0103 nu \u021bi se p\u0103rea c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103-mi faci program de lecturi \u0219i podcasturi moca, lu\u00e2nd \u00een considerare c\u0103 1. Nu mi-ai propus un buget aferent pentru timpul \u0219i efortul meu \u0219i 2. Nu te v\u0103d f\u0103c\u00e2nd acela\u0219i efort de documentare privitor la feminism.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00censeamn\u0103 \u201dmai bun\u201d faptul c\u0103 te po\u021bi oplo\u0219i \u00een capul str\u0103inilor s\u0103 le pretinzi chestii ca \u0219i cum \u021bi le-ar datora, cu aceast\u0103 a\u0219teptare sub\u00een\u021beleas\u0103 de gratuitate care, pe mine personal, m\u0103 umple de to\u021bi dracii?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00censeamn\u0103 \u201dmai bun\u201d faptul c\u0103 trata\u021bi femeile ca \u0219i cum erau obiecte cump\u0103rate deja, pe care le folose\u0219ti cum ai tu chef, \u00een ideea c\u0103, dac\u0103 le iei suficient de tare, unele se panicheaz\u0103 \u0219i nu apuc\u0103 s\u0103 opun\u0103 rezisten\u021b\u0103?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00censeamn\u0103 \u201dmai bun\u201d faptul c\u0103 omenia \u0219i polite\u021bea dispar f\u0103r\u0103 urme?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>I don&#8217;t think so.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>C\u0103 ai nimerit un red pill cu o so\u021bie co-dependent\u0103? OK, bravo. A\u0219a, dac\u0103 dau o strigare, nimeresc \u0219i eu un sclav online \u0219i pot construi o rela\u021bie \u00een care \u00eel pun s\u0103 frece buda cu peria de din\u021bi zi de zi. Preten\u021bia ridicol\u0103 e ca noi, restul, femeilor, s\u0103 ne purt\u0103m ca nevasta \u0103luia, sau dac\u0103 nu, vedem noi pe dracu.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>C\u0103 un alt red pill a adus femei \u00een podcastul lui? Le alegea g\u00e2sculi\u021be analfabete \u0219i scopul prezen\u021bei era b\u0103taia de joc. Evita femeile cu minimum un neuron func\u021bional ca pe cium\u0103, deci, de ce e cazul s\u0103 m\u0103 bucur eu c\u0103 a adus \u0103la femei \u00een podcast? Eu refuzam prezen\u021ba \u00een astfel de podcast.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0218i admit, nu \u00een\u021beleg nevoia asta, s\u0103 te \u00eenve\u021be cineva ceva. N-ai avut p\u0103rin\u021bi \u0219i profesori? Dup\u0103 cum scrii \u00een limba rom\u00e2n\u0103, am zice c\u0103 nu prea. De ce nu se lipe\u0219te nimic util \u0219i constructiv de voi, dar cum v\u0103 zice unul online c\u0103 femeile exist\u0103 pentru a fi luate, brusc vi se \u00eenvigoreaz\u0103 aten\u021bia ca ghioceii prim\u0103vara?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0218i legat de ce b\u0103rba\u021bi vrem l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi: nu exist\u0103 un singur tip de b\u0103rbat pe care s\u0103-l vrea toate femeile, pentru c\u0103 femeile sunt diferite. Ca dovad\u0103, exist\u0103 \u0219i fraiere cu care vr\u0103jeala red pill func\u021bioneaz\u0103, chit c\u0103 astea sunt cele care, la 40 de ani, au un divor\u021b ur\u00e2t \u0219i pl\u00e2ng c\u0103 \u0219i-au tufut cu un nemernic cei mai frumo\u0219i ani ai tinere\u021bii. Treaba lor.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Din punctul meu de vedere, prima condi\u021bie s\u0103 nu resping instant un b\u0103rbat este ca nivelul de utilitate s\u0103 dep\u0103\u0219easc\u0103 nivelul de deranj. Dac\u0103 face mult t\u0103r\u0103boi neproductiv, as incels tend to do, dar nu \u00eel v\u0103d f\u0103c\u00e2nd nimic folositor, \u0103la \u00ee\u0219i va lua un block mai prompt dec\u00e2t viteza sunetului. A doua condi\u021bie: s\u0103 v\u0103d respect fa\u021b\u0103 de femei. Sigur, nu ai cum s\u0103 le respec\u021bi pe toate, sunt destule femei absolut detestabile, dar m\u0103car s\u0103 porneasc\u0103 de la premisa de respect. \u00cen rest, \u021bine de chimie personal\u0103 \u0219i compatibilitate uman\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Eu sunt un om fericit cu propria singur\u0103tate. Nu a\u0219 schimba-o dec\u00e2t pe o via\u021b\u0103 semnificativ mai bun\u0103. \u00cen niciun caz pentru a deveni vreodat\u0103 sluga nepl\u0103tit\u0103 a unui gher\u021boi care crede c\u0103 de\u021binerea unui cucurigu \u00eel calific\u0103 s\u0103 latre ordine la mine. \u0218i \u0219tiu, red pill-ii t\u0103i numesc asta \u201dhipergamie\u201d \u0219i \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 o traduc\u0103 drept ceva r\u0103u, \u00een timp ce ei fug\u0103resc fotomodele, \u0219i aia din diverse motive nu e \u201dhipergamie\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Pentru c\u0103 \u201db\u0103rba\u021bii \u0219i femeile sunt diferi\u021bi\u201d nu e dec\u00e2t o justificare pentru duble standarde.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Lorena.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ce\u021bi place s\u0103 cite\u0219ti aceste articole? Po\u021bi ajuta \u00een mod direct la scrierea lor. Iat\u0103 cum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":29290,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29289","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/pexels-photo-35310052.jpeg?fit=1880%2C1253&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29289","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29289"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29289\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29294,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29289\/revisions\/29294"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29290"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29289"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29289"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29289"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}