{"id":29400,"date":"2026-04-25T12:30:43","date_gmt":"2026-04-25T09:30:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=29400"},"modified":"2026-04-25T12:30:47","modified_gmt":"2026-04-25T09:30:47","slug":"despre-looksmaxxing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-looksmaxxing\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre looksmaxxing"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ideea de a fi de o frumuse\u021be care s\u0103 sparg\u0103 ochii trec\u0103torilor nu e nou\u0103. \u00cen anii 90 – 2000, noi, fetele, eram obiectul unei pis\u0103logeli interminabile media, s\u0103 fim boln\u0103vicios de slabe, c\u0103 asta e sexy. \u00cemi amintesc diete const\u00e2nd dintr-un morcov diminea\u021ba, un ou fiert la pr\u00e2nz \u0219i ur\u0103ri de bine seara, iar c\u00e2nd citesc t\u00e2mpenia cu \u201dnu m\u00e2nca dup\u0103 6 seara\u201d, mi se declan\u0219eaz\u0103 triggerul tuturor traumelor. Mie dup\u0103 6 seara mi se face prima foame serioas\u0103 a zilei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, presiunea asta cu ar\u0103tatul conform anumitor norme e pe b\u0103ie\u021bi, \u0219i, exact cum \u00een anii 90 – 2000, presiunea \u00eenfomet\u0103rii o exercitau alte femei, c\u0103 dac\u0103 un b\u0103iat te pl\u0103cea, te pl\u0103cea exact cum erai, azi, frecu\u0219ul la icre e exercitat de colegii lor inceli, pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 o fat\u0103 te place, te place exact cum e\u0219ti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 o var\u0103 de foame \u0219i singur\u0103tate, \u00eemi amintesc c\u0103 am sc\u0103pat \u00een m\u00e2ncare ca vaca-n lanul de porumb. Am pus instant vreo cinci kilograme, dar mi-am reg\u0103sit veselia \u0219i \u00een exact o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, un b\u0103iat simpatic a \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 invite \u00een ora\u0219. Eu nu mai \u00een\u021belegeam nimic: P\u0103i nu trebuie s\u0103 fii slab\u0103 s\u0103 te plac\u0103 cineva? Apoi, am \u00een\u021beles: Nu. Oamenilor li se f\u00e2lf\u00e2ie cum ar\u0103\u021bi. (Except\u00e2nd b\u00e2rfitorii, care tr\u0103iesc din a toca m\u0103runt pe toat\u0103 lumea.) Oamenii apreciaz\u0103 umorul \u0219i buna dispozi\u021bie. F\u0103-i s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103 \u0219i te vor lua \u00een bra\u021be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anumite practici de looksmaxxing sunt din categoria igien\u0103 elementar\u0103 \u0219i via\u021ba la ora\u0219. Fii curat. \u00cengrijit. Tuns sau aranjat ok, \u00eembr\u0103cat decent, prezentabil. Astea sunt importante nu doar pentru a ag\u0103\u021ba femei, ci pentru a ob\u021bine un job, a porni un business sau a te integra \u00een societate. \u00cen mod ideal, p\u0103rin\u021bii te \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 toate astea, sau dac\u0103 ai p\u0103rin\u021bi needuca\u021bi sau neglijen\u021bi, care nu practic\u0103 nici ei aceste reguli \u0219i nu au ce s\u0103 te \u00eenve\u021be, se nimere\u0219te o vecin\u0103 amabil\u0103, o coleg\u0103, un prieten bun \u0219i te ajut\u0103 ei. De aceea, eu nu a\u0219 include aceste practici \u00een looksmaxxing, c\u0103 nu au ap\u0103rut o dat\u0103 cu primul incel care a zbierat \u00een neant \u201dNu po\u021bi s\u0103 ffw\u021bi dac\u0103 ar\u0103\u021bi ca sc\u0103pat din tomberon.\u201d Oamenii civiliza\u021bi s-au \u00eengrijit cu mult \u00eenainte \u0219i se vor \u00eengriji mult dup\u0103 ce trendul mitoc\u0103niei v\u00e2ndute drept masculinitate feroce dispare \u00een groapa de gunoi a istoriei, unde \u00eei e locul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi, vin alea aberante. S\u0103-\u021bi ba\u021bi oasele fe\u021bei cu un ciocan, s\u0103 cape\u021bi tr\u0103s\u0103turi mai cizelate. S\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi lunge\u0219ti picioarele s\u0103 devii mai \u00eenalt. Chit c\u0103 nici o fat\u0103 nu \u00ee\u0219i descrie b\u0103rbatul viselor drept cocost\u00e2rcul Vasile. S\u0103 iei steroizi cu kilogramul, s\u0103 devii o mas\u0103 amorf\u0103 de carne. Chit c\u0103, dac\u0103 ne uit\u0103m de cine sunt \u00eenconjura\u021bi musculo\u0219ii, vedem numai b\u0103ie\u021bi. \u00cen timp ce fetele graviteaz\u0103 natural spre influencerii soft, care vorbesc despre subiecte interesante \u0219i pentru ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ca regul\u0103 general\u0103 a frumuse\u021bii, c\u00e2nd o procedur\u0103 sun\u0103 nes\u0103n\u0103tos, mai bine spui stop \u0219i te concentrezi pe lucruri pe care le po\u021bi face cu calit\u0103\u021bile pe care le ai acum. \u0218i da, dac\u0103 \u0219tiam asta la 16 ani, c\u00e2nd nu dormeam nop\u021bile de foame \u0219i m\u0103 \u021bineam de pere\u021bi a doua zi, a\u0219 fi avut o adolescen\u021b\u0103 fericit\u0103. E amuzant c\u00e2nd lumea te b\u0103nuie\u0219te c\u0103 te droghezi \u0219i tu de fapt e\u0219ti doar torturat de subnutri\u021bie cronic\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Repet: dac\u0103 o femeie te place, te place exact cum e\u0219ti. Dac\u0103 nu te place, nu te va pl\u0103cea nici cu oasele sf\u0103r\u00e2mate sau c\u0103lare pe picioroange nedeta\u0219abile. Cunosc b\u0103rba\u021bi scunzi fermec\u0103tori care au iubite fotomodele \u0219i b\u0103rba\u021bi \u00eenal\u021bi, perfec\u021bi pe h\u00e2rtie, dar cu personalit\u0103\u021bi at\u00e2t de oribile, \u00eenc\u00e2t te redirec\u021bioneaz\u0103 instant spre ultima superofert\u0103 de vibratoare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i culmea: C\u00e2te un de-\u0103sta se treze\u0219te c\u0103 \u021bip\u0103 pe social media ta: C\u00e2te nu facem pentru voi, ne lungim \u0219i picioarele!!! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru mine garantat nu, c\u0103 eu nu \u021bi-a\u0219 cere s\u0103 te mutilezi. O faci pentru aprobarea tovar\u0103\u0219ilor t\u0103i inceli. Nu \u00eemi scoate mie ochii cu ceva ce nu am cerut \u0219i nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103. Scoate-mi-i c\u00e2nd obiectiv faci ceva pentru mine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Concluzia acestui articol: Ne concentr\u0103m prea mult pe imagine \u0219i prea pu\u021bin pe cine suntem noi ca oameni. Fii cu adev\u0103rat bun \u00eentr-un domeniu, fii simpatic \u0219i glume\u021b \u00een via\u021ba privat\u0103 \u0219i oamenii se vor orienta natural spre tine. E singura lec\u021bie de atractivitate de care ai nevoie. Cu pl\u0103cere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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