{"id":29471,"date":"2026-05-20T12:30:45","date_gmt":"2026-05-20T09:30:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=29471"},"modified":"2026-05-20T12:30:48","modified_gmt":"2026-05-20T09:30:48","slug":"nu-mai-acuzati-victima","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/nu-mai-acuzati-victima\/","title":{"rendered":"Nu mai acuza\u0163i victima!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ieri, s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat un episod care mi-a trezit instant cele mai oribile amintiri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00centr-un liceu din Vaslui, un cadru didactic h\u0103r\u0163uia o elev\u0103. Minor\u0103. 15 ani. \u015ei da, am sec\u0163iunea de comentarii plin\u0103 de gigei care rag \u00een cor \u201eFemeile pot spune ce vor ele, de unde \u0219tim c\u0103 este adev\u0103rat??\u201d, dar \u00een acest caz, exist\u0103 film\u0103rile de pe camerele de supraveghere care confirm\u0103 adev\u0103rul copilei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O societate normal\u0103 \u0219i civilizat\u0103 ar avea un singur r\u0103spuns: condamnarea pe loc a pedofilului. Nu inocen\u021ba copiilor e cea pe care o invoc\u0103m de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd vine vorba de drepturile LGBT sau de educa\u021bia sexual\u0103 \u00een \u0219coli? \u201dCum o s\u0103-i explic copilului meu c\u0103 a\u0219a \u0219i pe dincolo?\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ei, bine, inocen\u021ba asta a copilului devine instant irelevant\u0103 c\u00e2nd copilul e fat\u0103 \u0219i h\u0103r\u021buitorul e b\u0103rbat cu func\u021bie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen ap\u0103rarea pedofilului a s\u0103rit instant un func\u021bionar public. Persoan\u0103 care \u00ee\u0219i ia salariul din impozitele mele \u0219i ale tale. David Ionu\u021b Popa, consilierul \u00eens\u0103rcinat cu comunicarea public\u0103 a pre\u0219edintelui Consiliului Jude\u021bean Vaslui. Acesta a pretins c\u0103 profesorul, FILMAT PE CAMERE C\u0102 PIP\u0102IA ELEVA \u00ceNFRICO\u0218AT\u0102, este \u201dun model pentru \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m\u00e2nt\u201d, iar copilul de 15 ani trebuie h\u0103r\u021buit, umilit, c\u0103utat la \u201dmoralitate\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219adar, indiferent ce face, un pedofil \u00een func\u021bie este \u0219i r\u0103m\u00e2ne un model, coco\u021bat pe un piedestal situat pe deasupra oric\u0103ror discu\u021bii morale, iar victima – fat\u0103, pentru simplul fapt c\u0103 e fat\u0103, trebuie tratat\u0103 ca o lucr\u0103toare sexual\u0103 prins\u0103 \u00een flagrant, strict pentru c\u0103 nu a tolerat abuzul cu capul plecat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Asta, dragii mei, e mentalitatea tradi\u021bional\u0103. Ipocrit\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een m\u0103duva oaselor, tic\u0103loas\u0103 \u0219i strig\u0103toare la cer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu curcubeul m-a f\u0103cut progresist\u0103, nu faptul c\u0103 europenii pl\u0103tesc un angajat rom\u00e2n mai bine dec\u00e2t patronii rom\u00e2ni \u0219i \u00eel trateaz\u0103 mult, mult mai uman, ci tic\u0103lo\u0219ia \u0219i ipocrizia societ\u0103\u021bii tradi\u021bionale. Cea \u00een care un b\u0103rbat \u00een func\u021bie r\u0103m\u00e2ne un model, chiar dac\u0103 libidino\u0219enia lui e filmat\u0103 pe camer\u0103, iar un copil – fat\u0103 devine \u021binta oprobriului public pentru c\u0103 n-a t\u0103cut, de\u0219i, \u00een aceast\u0103 situa\u021bie, ea e vizibil victima. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i apar toate acele discu\u021bii idioate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce por\u021bi haine mulate? Pentru c\u0103 a\u0219a \u00eemi exprim personalitatea. NICI O LEG\u0102TUR\u0102 CU TINE, NU M\u0102 INTERESEZI. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce te machiezi? Pentru c\u0103 a\u0219a \u00eemi exprim personalitatea. NICI O LEG\u0102TUR\u0102 CU TINE, NU M\u0102 INTERESEZI. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce nu umbli pe strad\u0103 \u00eempachetat\u0103 \u00eentr-un lin\u021boliu ca mumiile, s\u0103 te asiguri c\u0103 niciun bou idiot nu decide azi c\u0103 e\u0219ti material de una scurt\u0103? Pentru c\u0103 nu am de ce s\u0103 m\u0103 mic\u0219orez \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 neg pe mine s\u0103 \u00eei dau boului idiot mai mult\u0103 importan\u021b\u0103 dec\u00e2t am eu \u00een propria mea via\u021b\u0103. \u0218i eu, \u0219i boul idiot pl\u0103tim 10% impozit pe venit. De ce eu sunt cet\u0103\u021bean de rang secund? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am avut at\u00e2tea situa\u021bii de h\u0103r\u021buire agresiv\u0103 \u0219i insuportabil\u0103. \u0218i m\u0103 cunoa\u0219te\u021bi, eu nu sunt genul care se joac\u0103 cu emo\u021biile altora, \u0219i le promite c\u0103 \u201dpoate\u201d. Eu sunt genul foarte sincer, care \u00ee\u021bi spune clar c\u0103 nu e interesat \u0219i c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 cau\u021bi altceva. \u0218i totu\u0219i, am avut at\u00e2tea situa\u021bii cu dobitoci care nu \u00een\u021belegeau nici de-al naibii c\u0103 NU \u00eenseamn\u0103 NU \u0219i punct. \u0218i at\u00e2\u021bia al\u021bi dobitoci care \u00eemi luau mie la purecat p\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i modul \u00een care respiram, s\u0103 caute justificare pentru h\u0103r\u021buirea primilor dobitoci, \u00een loc s\u0103 \u00eencaseze adev\u0103rul a\u0219a cum e el, c\u0103 dobitocul h\u0103r\u021buia de animal idiot \u0219i bou ce e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219a am ajuns s\u0103 dispre\u021buiesc profund no\u021biunea de moralitate. Pentru c\u0103 e frustrant c\u00e2t de selectiv se aplic\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eram autoare tineric\u0103 \u0219i da, ghinion, frumu\u0219ic\u0103. At\u00e2\u021bia idio\u021bi care nu parcurseser\u0103 m\u0103car o fraz\u0103 dintr-un text al meu schel\u0103l\u0103iau de zor: Asta nu \u0219tie s\u0103 scrie, e doar o g\u00e2sculi\u021b\u0103 frumu\u0219ic\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 uitam \u00eentr-o zi pe social media. O postare a unui fotograf b\u0103rbat care \u00ee\u0219i anun\u021ba expozi\u021bia de nuduri feminine. Pentru care pun pariu c\u0103 nu-\u0219i pl\u0103tise modelele dec\u00e2t \u00een promisiuni de \u201dexpunere\u201d \u0219i \u201dglorie\u201d, dar cerea relaxat 500 de euro pe \u0219edin\u021b\u0103 foto c\u00e2nd i se solicitau lui serviciile. Comentarii: felicit\u0103ri, ce frumos, omaga, e\u0219ti un adev\u0103rat maestru, blabla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2teva post\u0103ri mai la vale, o div\u0103 de instagram postase o imagine cu sine \u00een lenjerie. \u00cen fond, subiectul era acela\u0219i. Corpul femeii. Cu mica diferen\u021b\u0103 c\u0103 diva de Instagram \u00ee\u0219i exploata propriul corp, nu pe al altora. Comentarii: Pi\u021bipoanco! Pe cine crezi c\u0103 impresionezi? Fac pariu c\u0103 e\u0219ti o c***\u0103. C\u00e2t ceri pe o m**e? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu alte cuvinte, pe unul \u0219i acela\u0219i con\u021binut, b\u0103rbatul era un model al muncii socialiste, demn de aplauze \u0219i admira\u021bie, iar femeia, o \u021bint\u0103 a huiduielii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Infinite astfel de ipostaze m-au f\u0103cut s\u0103 lep\u0103d orice \u00eencredere \u00een moralitatea tradi\u021bional\u0103, creat\u0103 doar pentru a justifica toate tic\u0103lo\u0219iile b\u0103rbatului \u0219i pentru a deconstrui nonstop femeia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 se d\u0103 un bou idiot la tine, tu e\u0219ti de vin\u0103. De ce nu por\u021bi burka, de ce nu por\u021bi public pancart\u0103 cu \u201dNU M\u0102 FUT\u201d, de ce nu \u00ee\u021bi arzi s\u00e2nii cu pietre \u00eencinse cum face nu \u0219tiu care trib african \u00een \u00eencercarea de a evita violul. Iar dac\u0103 por\u021bi burka \u0219i etc, \u201duite, ce nebune \u0219i crizate sunt feministele astea\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Revenind la subiectul zilei: un cadru didactic pedofil a molestat o copil\u0103. Minorii nu sunt capabili s\u0103 exprime consim\u021b\u0103m\u00e2nt, se consider\u0103 c\u0103 nu au discern\u0103m\u00e2nt. Deci era gre\u0219it s\u0103 o ating\u0103 chiar dac\u0103 minora se arunca pe el ca pe trambulin\u0103. Dar minora protesta vizibil, a \u0219i sunat la 112 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i exprime opozi\u021bia fa\u021b\u0103 de ceea ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un func\u021bionar public a ie\u0219it pe social media s\u0103 declare c\u0103 pedofilul e un model \u0219i c\u0103 victima copil trebuie h\u0103r\u021buit\u0103 \u0219i umilit\u0103. C\u0103 e imoral\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cum o s\u0103 explic copiilor mei c\u0103 nu curcubeul atenteaz\u0103 la inocen\u021ba lor, ci b\u0103rbatul libidinos cu ifose de respectabilitate, care \u00ee\u0219i folose\u0219te func\u021bia pe post de scut \u0219i piedestal \u00eempotriva responsabilit\u0103\u021bii? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi place ceea ce cite\u0219ti, inspir\u0103-m\u0103 cu o cafea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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