{"id":29550,"date":"2026-06-10T11:05:08","date_gmt":"2026-06-10T08:05:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=29550"},"modified":"2026-06-10T11:19:32","modified_gmt":"2026-06-10T08:19:32","slug":"toti-avem-de-invatat-de-la-oleksandra-paskal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/toti-avem-de-invatat-de-la-oleksandra-paskal\/","title":{"rendered":"To\u021bi avem de \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat de la Oleksandra Paskal"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u00cen via\u021ba mea real\u0103, am tehnici imbatabile de distan\u021bare fa\u021b\u0103 de v\u0103ic\u0103ritorii \u0219i bocitorii profesioni\u0219ti, pentru c\u0103 ultimul om pe care am fost dispus\u0103 s\u0103-l ascult c\u0103ut\u00e2nd un motiv de dram\u0103 \u0219i nemul\u021bumire chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd totul mergea minunat a fost mama. Da, sunt oameni care par s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i investeasc\u0103 toat\u0103 energia \u00een \u201dce subiect de repro\u0219uri g\u0103sim \u0219i azi?\u201d Dac\u0103 nu e ceva nou, sigur e ceva de acum 10 sau 20 de ani. De parc\u0103 le-ar fi team\u0103 c\u0103, \u00een ziua \u00een care se declar\u0103 a fi ok, p\u0103\u021besc ca Faust: vine Mefistofel \u0219i \u00eei duce \u00een iad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar online, nu ai cum s\u0103-i evi\u021bi. M\u0103 rog, ai avea cum, dac\u0103 le dai block pe band\u0103 rulant\u0103; dar nu am at\u00e2ta ambi\u021bie. Oameni s\u0103n\u0103to\u0219i, adeseori \u00een situa\u021bii financiare decente, adeseori \u00een joburi ok, adeseori \u00een rela\u021bii cu parteneri c\u0103rora nu ai ce s\u0103 le repro\u0219ezi, caut\u0103 motive stupide de v\u0103ic\u0103real\u0103 pentru c\u0103, aparent, un exerci\u021biu de recuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 de tipul \u201emul\u021bumesc, Dumnezeule, c\u0103 mi-ai pus la dispozi\u021bie toate instrumentele necesare pentru a pescui, \u0219i nu am nevoie s\u0103-mi aduci pe\u0219tele pe tav\u0103, mi-l aduc eu\u201d e tare dificil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen contrast cu to\u021bi ace\u0219ti adul\u021bi care \u00ee\u0219i irosesc via\u021ba v\u0103ic\u0103rindu-se, e un copil ca Oleksandra Paskal. O mic\u0103 gimnast\u0103 din Ucraina, extrem de talentat\u0103. Dar, cum Ucraina e atacat\u0103 criminal \u0219i abuziv de rusia, spa\u021biul \u00een care se antrena Oleksandra s-a nimerit printre \u021bintele bombardate de Putin \u00een Odessa, iar feti\u021ba \u0219i-a pierdut un picior. Povestea s-ar fi putut opri aici. Dar Oleksandra a hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 mearg\u0103 mai departe. Cu o protez\u0103 \u00een locul piciorului lips\u0103, a continuat s\u0103 participe la campionate \u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i adjudece medalii. \u00cen interviuri, spune c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te s\u0103 ajung\u0103 campioan\u0103 olimpic\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, un copil mutilat de r\u0103zboi refuz\u0103 s\u0103 lase agresorului ultimul cuv\u00e2nt \u00een privin\u021ba viitorului s\u0103u. Acesta e genul de om pe care \u00eel admir. Genul de om care lupt\u0103 pentru viitor, pentru c\u0103 a se retrage s\u0103-\u0219i ling\u0103 r\u0103nile \u00een pe\u0219ter\u0103 i se pare nedemn. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De c\u00e2te ori \u00eemi apare Oleksandra pe feed, pe social media, \u00eei trimit o inimioar\u0103 \u0219i un g\u00e2nd plin de iubire, \u00eenso\u021bit de regret c\u0103 nu am ce face mai mult pentru ea. Un copil de nou\u0103 ani, mai \u00een\u021belept \u0219i mai temerar dec\u00e2t o mas\u0103 amorf\u0103 de adul\u021bi cu setarea bocet, mi se pare o lec\u021bie ambulant\u0103 pentru noi to\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Via\u021ba nu e dreapt\u0103. Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 s\u0103 iei \u021beap\u0103 de unde te a\u0219teptai mai pu\u021bin. Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 s\u0103 investe\u0219ti \u00een oameni care te dezam\u0103gesc. Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ca omul cel mai competent s\u0103 fie cel lovit de tun, pentru c\u0103 unde e poten\u021bial mult, e invidie cel pu\u021bin la fel de mult\u0103. Dar un copil de 9 ani ne \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 pe to\u021bi ce e cu adev\u0103rat important: arta de a c\u0103dea \u00een picioare. Chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd unul dintre ele e o protez\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd \u00eencepe o nou\u0103 zi, iar tu deschizi gura s\u0103 te mai vaie\u021bi de ceva, g\u00e2nde\u0219te-te c\u0103 undeva, \u00eentr-o \u021bar\u0103 \u00een care ziua de m\u00e2ine nu e sigur\u0103, un copil de 9 ani cu un picior lips\u0103 e deja \u00eentr-un antrenament epuizant, de minimum dou\u0103 ore. \u0218i c\u0103 via\u021ba nu-\u021bi datoreaz\u0103 perfec\u021biune, a\u0219a cum nici tu nu oferi perfec\u021biune nim\u0103nui. Ba a\u0219 completa: v\u0103ic\u0103re\u021bii sunt cei ce nu iau \u00een calcul niciodat\u0103 varianta de a oferi ceva cuiva. Ei trebuie doar s\u0103 primeasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 fac\u0103 nazuri legate de ceea ce primesc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da\u021bi follow Oleksandrei Paskal. Urm\u0103ri\u021bi un copil care, dac\u0103 nu are undi\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 pescuiasc\u0103, \u00ee\u0219i face. Fiecare medalie a ei presupune efort de nedescris. \u0218i totu\u0219i, fata merge \u00eenainte. Dac\u0103 nu consideri c\u0103 ai ceva de \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat de la ea, nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103-\u021bi spun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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