{"id":29634,"date":"2026-07-09T11:40:56","date_gmt":"2026-07-09T08:40:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=29634"},"modified":"2026-07-09T11:43:08","modified_gmt":"2026-07-09T08:43:08","slug":"grijosxualul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/grijosxualul\/","title":{"rendered":"Grijos*xualul"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ieri seara, o tanti se n\u0103pustise pe profilul unei amice din list\u0103. Feminist\u0103, singur\u0103 \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 copii. De cum am scris asta, deja v\u0103d cum zece gigei sar instant s\u0103 rag\u0103 a ur\u0103, pentru c\u0103 sintagma \u201efeminist\u0103, singur\u0103 \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 copii\u201d e ca turnesolul: \u00ee\u021bi indic\u0103 exact nivelul de prostie al comentatorului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Singurul r\u0103spuns ra\u021bional la \u201efeminist\u0103, singur\u0103 \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 copii\u201d ar fi \u201de un om adult, liber, care tr\u0103ie\u0219te a\u0219a cum dore\u0219te\u201d. Orice alt comentariu, \u00een special cele negative, \u00ee\u021bi spun c\u0103 b\u0103g\u0103torul \u00een seam\u0103 nu \u00eentrune\u0219te num\u0103rul de neuroni necesar pentru a \u00een\u021belege unde se termin\u0103 libertatea lui \u0219i unde \u00eencepe a altuia. \u0218i \u00ee\u021bi mai spun c\u0103 b\u0103g\u0103torul \u00een seam\u0103 sufer\u0103 de o condi\u021bie care afecteaz\u0103 via\u021ba celor din jur aproape la fel de mult cum o afecteaz\u0103 pe a lui: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E grijosexual. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 grijosexual? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Grijosexualul e persoana care \u00eentre\u021bine o rela\u021bie intempestiv\u0103 de amor cu grija, \u00een special fa\u021b\u0103 de treburi care nu \u00eel privesc \u0219i care nu necesit\u0103 inputul lui \/ ei. Ca de exemplu, vie\u021bile private ale altora. \u00cen special c\u00e2nd acei al\u021bii sunt ferici\u021bi \u0219i nu au nevoie de nimic. Nu o s\u0103 vezi niciodat\u0103 grijosexualul ar\u0103t\u00e2nd preocupare fa\u021b\u0103 de subiecte care presupun grij\u0103 real\u0103 \u0219i munc\u0103: animale abandonate, b\u0103tr\u00e2ni, copii neglija\u021bi, femei b\u0103tute. Adic\u0103 fiin\u021be care au \u00een mod real nevoie de ajutor material, concret.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Grija grijosexualului nu e femeia b\u0103tut\u0103 zilnic de un urangutan, cu trei copii care s-au dus fl\u0103m\u00e2nzi la \u0219coal\u0103. Grija grijosexualului e feminista f\u0103r\u0103 copii, care tr\u0103ie\u0219te singur\u0103 \u0219i nu are un gigel pe cap care s\u0103 mugeasc\u0103 la ea \u201dCalc\u0103, f\u0103, \u0219i mie o c\u0103ma\u0219\u0103.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0103 revin la punctul ini\u021bial al discu\u021biei: o tanti o b\u00e2r\u00e2ia la cap pe amica mea feminist\u0103, cum c\u0103 de ce mai tr\u0103ie\u0219te dac\u0103 nu are copii \u0219i etc. Asta la c\u00e2teva zile cu filmarea aia viral\u0103 cu alt\u0103 tanti url\u00e2nd la copil de zici c\u0103 tocmai se exorciza Satana din ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dintre o femeie care \u00ee\u0219i evalueaz\u0103 lucid resursele materiale \u0219i mintale \u0219i decide c\u0103 un copil nu e un proiect realist pe care s\u0103-l poat\u0103 duce, \u0219i una care s-a apucat de \u00eempuiat iresponsabil \u0219i abia cu copilul al\u0103turi a realizat c\u0103 e cople\u0219it\u0103 de situa\u021bie, prin urmare se r\u0103zbun\u0103 pe bietul copil, traumatiz\u00e2ndu-l pe via\u021b\u0103, grijosexualitatea ta e atras\u0103 cu n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103i de persoana care NU are o problem\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bizar, nu? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu s\u0103 fiu prim ministru pentru o zi, a\u0219 incrimina grijosexualitatea. Nu grav, c\u0103 ar fi \u00eenchisorile din Rom\u00e2nia pline, la c\u00e2t\u0103 futere inutil\u0103 de grij\u0103 ne caracterizeaz\u0103 ca na\u021bie. Te treze\u0219ti coment\u00e2nd via\u021ba privat\u0103 a altuia f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te \u00eentrebe nimeni nimic? 200 de lei amend\u0103. Te pogori pe social media unei femei \u0219i \u00eencepi s\u0103 ba\u021bi c\u00e2mpii \u00een necuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 de cauz\u0103 despre ce \u00eei place de fapt, chit c\u0103 nu o cuno\u0219ti? 400 de lei amend\u0103, c\u0103 mai e \u0219i componenta de h\u0103r\u021buire sexual\u0103. Sume mici, dar se adun\u0103. Ia s\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 grijosexualii de c\u00e2te ori latr\u0103 la o femeie nec\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103 c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 caute \u0219i ea pe unul, sau la una f\u0103r\u0103 copii c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 se apuce de f\u0103tat, \u0219i s\u0103 vezi ce rapid \u00eei p\u0103r\u0103se\u0219te grija, nici m\u0103car bilet de adio nu le las\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi place ceea ce cite\u0219ti, inspir\u0103-m\u0103 cu o cafea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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