{"id":29700,"date":"2026-08-10T14:00:11","date_gmt":"2026-08-10T11:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=29700"},"modified":"2026-08-10T14:22:36","modified_gmt":"2026-08-10T11:22:36","slug":"nu-mai-glorificati-snuciderea-va-rog-mult","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/nu-mai-glorificati-snuciderea-va-rog-mult\/","title":{"rendered":"Nu mai glorifica\u021bi s*nuciderea, v\u0103 rog mult"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u00cen acest sf\u00e2r\u0219it de s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, o fat\u0103 \u0219i-a pus cap\u0103t zilelor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O fat\u0103 care aparent avea tot ce \u00ee\u0219i dorea. Era inteligent\u0103 \u0219i puternic\u0103. Era un om bun, lucra la o mul\u021bime de proiecte sociale, ajuta nenum\u0103ra\u021bi oameni. Era competent\u0103, avea o reputa\u021bie profesional\u0103 excelent\u0103, mereu dornic\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be, mereu deschis\u0103 la nou, mereu responsabil\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi, brusc, pac. Ceva nea\u0219teptat s-a fr\u00e2nt. \u0218i.. totul s-a terminat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Reac\u021bia fireasc\u0103, uman\u0103 e s\u0103 pl\u00e2ngi. S\u0103 pl\u00e2ngi pentru o via\u021b\u0103 t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 care s-a terminat abrupt, pentru lumea care a r\u0103mas un loc mai s\u0103rac, pentru familia \u0219i prietenii neconsola\u021bi, pentru tot binele pe care acel om \u00eel mai putea face. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau dac\u0103 nu l-ai cunoscut suficient de bine s\u0103 ai lacrimi, m\u0103car s\u0103 regre\u021bi un om bun, inteligent \u0219i cu poten\u021bial. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0103 regre\u021bi c\u0103, poate, ajutorul era la \u00eendem\u00e2na ta, \u0219i n-ai \u0219tiut c\u0103 e necesar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar au ap\u0103rut al\u021bi comentatori. Binevoitori \u0219i ei. \u00cemi place s\u0103 merg pe prezum\u021bia de bun\u0103voin\u021b\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 mi se dovede\u0219te negru pe alb contrariul. \u0218i ace\u0219ti comentatori vin cu o t\u00e2mpenie pe care n-am mai auzit-o de c\u00e2nd aveam 15 ani \u0219i era Emil Cioran la mare mod\u0103 printre pu\u021boaice proaste cum eram eu la v\u00e2rsta aia: Sinuciderea \u00eenseamn\u0103 puterea de a decide tu sf\u00e2r\u0219itul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nivelul de cringe pe care \u00eel simt c\u00e2nd citesc asta e dublat doar de panic\u0103: dac\u0103 comentariul \u0103sta idiot e citit de cineva cu tendin\u021be suicidare \u0219i \u00eei d\u0103 br\u00e2nci s\u0103-\u0219i pun\u0103 cap\u0103t zilelor? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u0103 rog eu frumos, nu mai glorifica\u021bi sinuciderea. Nu e nimic eroic \u00een a \u00eencheia socotelile cu via\u021ba. Niciodat\u0103. \u00eentr-o lupt\u0103, n-o s\u0103 spui \u201eCe eroic a fugit Vasile, nu \u00eel ajungeai nici cu supersonicul\u201d. Eroic e s\u0103 rezi\u0219ti, s\u0103 cau\u021bi solu\u021bii, s\u0103 hang in there, s\u0103 lup\u021bi cu tine, s\u0103 mergi la medic \u0219i la psihiatru. De ce la medic? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La un moment dat, am avut c\u00e2teva zile de depresie \u00eengrozitoare \u0219i de sl\u0103biciune de m\u0103 \u021bineam de pere\u021bi. Pl\u00e2ngeam din nimic, pl\u00e2ngeam nonstop, nu m\u00e2ncam pentru c\u0103 nu g\u0103seam \u00een mine puterea de a m\u0103 duce p\u00e2n\u0103 la Mega din col\u021b. M-a dus o prieten\u0103 la medic, apoi la analize. Aveam o lips\u0103 mare de potasiu, dublat\u0103 de o lips\u0103 de magneziu. Medicul mi-a dat suplimentele aferente \u0219i, dup\u0103 numai c\u00e2teva zile, mi-au revenit energia \u0219i vitalitatea. Dau acest exemplu s\u0103 dovedesc c\u0103, uneori, disperarea profund\u0103 e un simptom al unei probleme fizice tratabile \u0219i eroismul e \u00een a cere ajutor \u0219i a ac\u021biona. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sinuciderea NU e o solu\u021bie. Via\u021ba e cel mai valoros lucru. A noastr\u0103 \u0219i a celor din jur. \u0218i nu din motive religioase, ci, practic: c\u00e2t timp respiri, exist\u0103 o posibil\u0103 lumin\u0103 la cap\u0103tul tunelului \u0219i meri\u021bi o \u0219ans\u0103 s\u0103 ajungi acolo. C\u00e2t timp exist\u0103 o zi de m\u00e2ine, exist\u0103 speran\u021ba de mai bine. Toate problemele pe care le-ai putea avea au rezolv\u0103ri, mai pu\u021bin bolile incurabile, dar \u0219i acolo, medicina face progrese impresionante. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu mai glorifica\u021bi sinuciderea. Nu e nimic minunat, nu e un act de vitejie, nu e un act de fabulo\u0219enie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u0103im vremuri grele, prin urmare, o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de oameni afla\u021bi \u00een situa\u021bii disperate financiar sau uman cocheteaz\u0103 cu ideea. Nu fi\u021bi voi autorul moral al unor gesturi f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eentoarcere, prin t\u00e2mpeniile pe care le scrie\u021bi pe net. Tu \u00eemi scrii c\u0103 \u201da ales s\u0103 moar\u0103 \u0219i a f\u0103cut ce a ales, bravo ei\u201d, \u0219i un adolescent ne\u00een\u021beles sc\u0103pat de p\u0103rin\u021bi pe social media face exact asta. Cum te ui\u021bi \u00een oglind\u0103 a doua zi? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i mai e un lucru. Persoana are o familie. Cum se simt mama, tat\u0103l, cei apropia\u021bi c\u00e2nd citesc despre copilul lor pierdut c\u0103 \u201da ales s\u0103 moar\u0103 \u0219i a f\u0103cut ce a ales\u201d? Ave\u021bi mare noroc c\u0103 nu sunt eu mama. Eu s\u0103 citesc asta despre copilul meu? V-a\u0219 pizdui p\u00e2n\u0103 a\u021bi anula abonamentul la internet cu totul. \u021aine\u021bi cont \u0219i de sentimentele altora c\u00e2nd scrie\u021bi t\u00e2mpenii. E greu, dar nu imposibil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trebuie s\u0103 ne sus\u021binem moral unii pe al\u021bii, s\u0103 c\u0103ut\u0103m ajutor. Trebuie s\u0103 cultiv\u0103m sentimente de comunitate, s\u0103 ne pese de cei din jur, s\u0103 cre\u0103m un mindset colectiv bazat pe speran\u021b\u0103 \u0219i pe optimism. Chiar dac\u0103 suntem \u00een recesiune economic\u0103 \u0219i criz\u0103 politic\u0103: trebuie s\u0103 credem \u00een ziua de m\u00e2ine. \u0218i s\u0103 nu uit\u0103m s\u0103 ne \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219\u0103m, m\u0103car virtual, familia \u0219i prietenii. \u0218i, desigur, m\u00e2\u021ba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi place ceea ce cite\u0219ti, inspir\u0103-m\u0103 cu o cafea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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