Nu \u00eemi mai cer\u015fi aten\u0163ia cu remarci caustice, observa\u0163ii de doi bani, futere m\u0103runt\u0103 \u015fi stresant\u0103 la icre \u015fi alte c\u0103caturi de acela\u015fi gen. Prin asta nu demonstrezi dec\u00e2t c\u0103 n-ai coloan\u0103 vertebral\u0103 \u015fi consecven\u0163\u0103, c\u0103 nu \u00ee\u0163i respec\u0163i nici m\u0103car propriile afirma\u0163ii, dar\u0103mite pe ale altora, \u015fi, \u00een general, c\u0103 e\u015fti un gunoi cu ochi.<\/p>\n
Pe mine isteria melodramatic\u0103 nu m\u0103 impresioneaz\u0103. Dac\u0103 m\u0103 amenin\u0163i c\u0103 te sp\u00e2nzuri, \u00ee\u0163i aduc eu s\u0103punul. Dac\u0103 m\u0103 amenin\u0163i c\u0103 nu m\u0103 mai suni, \u00ee\u0163i pun eu num\u0103rul pe “block list”-ul telefonului, s\u0103 nu m\u0103 po\u0163i suna nici c\u00e2nd o s\u0103 vrei cu tot dinadinsul. Dac\u0103 m\u0103 amenin\u0163i c\u0103 \u00eemi faci nu-\u015ftiu-ce, \u00ee\u0163i fac eu \u0163ie nu-\u015ftiu-ce, ca s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i ar\u0103t \u00eentr-un fel sau altul c\u0103 amenin\u0163\u0103rile de orice tip nu izbutesc dec\u00e2t s\u0103 scoat\u0103 to\u0163i dracii din mine.<\/p>\n
Nici demonstra\u0163iile de for\u0163\u0103 \/ arogan\u0163\u0103 \/ coaie nu m\u0103 impresioneaz\u0103. For\u0163\u0103 \/ arogan\u0163\u0103 \/ coaie afi\u015feaz\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea – de la ultimul sp\u0103rg\u0103tor de semin\u0163e din col\u0163ul blocului p\u00e2n\u0103 la \u00eenaltul demnitar care doarme \u00een plen \u015fi-i curge bala \u00een col\u0163ul gurii. Adev\u0103rata personalitate nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 for\u0163\u0103 \/ arogan\u0163\u0103 \/ coaie, ci o viziune original\u0103 asupra vie\u0163ii \u015fi un mod de a rela\u0163iona care surprinde \u00een mod pl\u0103cut \u015fi – NOTA BENE – nu agaseaz\u0103. M-ai agasat? Din punctul meu de vedere, ai murit.<\/p>\n
Eu nu am nevoie de tine. De fapt, dac\u0103 stau bine s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc, nu am nevoie de nimeni. Iubesc singur\u0103tatea, iar dac\u0103 nu sunt \u00een compania unor oameni care s\u0103 \u00eemi plac\u0103 \u00een mod real, m\u0103 simt stresat\u0103 \u015fi obosit\u0103. \u00cen via\u0163a mea nu am avut o rela\u0163ie de genul: “hai s\u0103 fiu cu X. doar ca s\u0103 nu fiu singur\u0103.” Dimpotriv\u0103: “Dec\u00e2t s\u0103 fiu cu X., care nu m\u0103 atrage \/ nu \u0163ine cont de dorin\u0163ele mele \/ nu \u00ee\u015fi respect\u0103 cuv\u00e2ntul dat \/ nu face \/ nu drege, prefer singur\u0103tatea.” P\u00e2n\u0103 acum, a fost o politic\u0103 pe care n-am regretat-o nici o clip\u0103. \u015ei ceva \u00eemi spune c\u0103 n-o voi regreta nici de acum \u00eencolo.<\/p>\n
Nimeni nu e de ne\u00eenlocuit. \u00centotdeauna exist\u0103 cineva mai bun, cineva mai atent, cineva mai afectuos, cineva mai fermec\u0103tor, cineva mai CINEVA. Lumea e plin\u0103 de oameni singuri care sunt impresiona\u0163i c\u00e2nd dau de comunicare adev\u0103rat\u0103 \u015fi care o pot recompensa mai bine dec\u00e2t o faci tu. Prin urmare, e\u015fti u\u015for de eliminat din via\u0163a mea, la orice or\u0103 din zi \u015fi din noapte. Nu for\u0163a nota, nu \u00eencerca marea cu degetul. Nu \u00eemi spune lucruri pe care s-ar putea s\u0103 le regre\u0163i mai t\u00e2rziu – GARANTAT \u0162I LE VOI SCOATE PE NAS. \ud83d\ude08<\/p>\n
\u00centre timp, primul lucru pe care \u00eel po\u0163i face: \u0163ine-te de cuv\u00e2nt \u015fi car\u0103-te dracului. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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