Boala perfec\u0163iunii este o boal\u0103 extrem de rar\u0103. Atinge 0,5% din popula\u0163ie, ba uneori nici at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n
Superficialii ar putea spune c\u0103 \u00een zonele cu sisteme gre\u015fite ale valorilor (gen ze American dream, bani & du\u015fmani, etc.), boala perfec\u0163iunii e chiar mai rar\u0103 dec\u00e2t \u00een cele eco-demo-psiho-socio-friendly. Dar nu e a\u015fa. Pentru c\u0103 \u00een cazul oamenilor superficiali, eco-demo-etc.-prietenia este o simpl\u0103 lozinc\u0103. Ei sunt a\u015fa pentru c\u0103 li s-a zis c\u0103 a\u015fa e bine, dar nu au o motiva\u0163ie profund\u0103 pentru asta – ceea ce \u00eei face egali cu pro\u015ftii care v\u00e2neaz\u0103 cas\u0103 \u00een Pipera, ca s\u0103 se pl\u00e2ng\u0103 pe urm\u0103 c\u0103 au ap\u0103 maro \u015fi net din p\u0103r\u0163i.<\/p>\n
De aceea, nu pot iubi cu adev\u0103rat \u015fi nu m\u0103 pot sim\u0163i cu adev\u0103rat liber\u0103 dec\u00e2t atunci c\u00e2nd vorbesc cu un alt om bolnav de perfec\u0163iune. Abia \u0103la te poate \u00een\u0163elege de ce suferi, pentru c\u0103 are exact acelea\u015fi simptome. C\u0103 perfec\u0163iunea lui e mai alb\u0103, mai neagr\u0103, mai moale sau mai tare dec\u00e2t a ta – prea pu\u0163in conteaz\u0103. Dimpotriv\u0103, asta face ca perfec\u0163iunea celuilalt s\u0103 fie numai a lui, a\u015fa cum perfec\u0163iunea ta nu poate fi dec\u00e2t a ta. Nu ai cum s\u0103 invidiezi un frate bolnav de perfec\u0163iune – exact din aceste motive. C\u0103 nu alerga\u0163i pe aceea\u015fi band\u0103, deci \u00eenc\u0103pe\u0163i.<\/p>\n
Oamenii pe care perfec\u0163iunea nu i-a durut niciodat\u0103 sunt \u0103ia cu “merge \u015fi-a\u015fa”. \u00cei vom numi “nep\u0103s\u0103tori de perfec\u0163iune”. Un bolnav de perfec\u0163iune nu se va \u00een\u0163elege niciodat\u0103 cu un “nep\u0103s\u0103tor de perfec\u0163iune” pentru c\u0103 \u0103la nu vrea nimic \u00een plus de la sine. \u0102la va \u00eencerca mereu s\u0103 te trag\u0103 \u00een jos, s\u0103-\u0163i taie din aripi, “de ce faci aia, de ce faci ailalt\u0103, ce rost are s\u0103 faci aia, c\u0103 oricum nu vei ajunge \u0102LA, ce rost are s\u0103 vrei aia c\u0103 oricum blabla”. Tu vei \u00eencerca s\u0103-i deschizi ochii: “De ce NU faci aia, de ce NU faci ailalt\u0103, ce rost are s\u0103 NU faci aia, c\u0103 nu vei ajunge \u0102LA, dar vei ajunge un TU mai bun, blabla”. \u015ei ve\u0163i vorbi singuri, fiecare \u00een parte. Ceea ce na\u015fte nemul\u0163umiri.<\/p>\n
Prin urmare: Cu “nep\u0103s\u0103torii de perfec\u0163iune” po\u0163i avea conversa\u0163ii plicticoase sau superficiale, po\u0163i bea o cafea, po\u0163i, la o adic\u0103, pierde pu\u0163in timp. Dar o \u00eent\u00e2lnire \u00een adev\u0103ratul sens al cuv\u00e2ntului – m\u0103 refer la \u00eent\u00e2lnirea real\u0103 a spiritului – nu o po\u0163i avea dec\u00e2t cu un om care este la fel de bolnav de perfec\u0163iune ca \u015fi tine. \u0102la \u00ee\u0163i poate fi prieten \u00eentr-un fel \u00een care “nep\u0103s\u0103torii de perfec\u0163iune” nu vor fi niciodat\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 e f\u0103urit din acela\u015fi material – magnetul de perfec\u0163iune.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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