{"id":3471,"date":"2011-03-28T12:47:34","date_gmt":"2011-03-28T09:47:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/?p=3471"},"modified":"2011-03-28T12:47:34","modified_gmt":"2011-03-28T09:47:34","slug":"si-postare-feminista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/si-postare-feminista\/","title":{"rendered":"…\u015fi postare feminist\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00cen c\u0103tune \u015fi ora\u015fe cu IQ mediu subunitar din Rom\u00e2nia, ca \u015fi pe bloguri de labe triste<\/a> (o, da, am f\u0103cut o pasiune pentru acesta, \u00eemi doresc s\u0103-l fac vedet\u0103), problema vizavi de existen\u0163a unei femei se pune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n

Nu e\u0219ti \u00een stare s\u0103 faci o ciorb\u0103, o m\u0103m\u0103lig\u0103, s\u0103 calci o c\u0103me\u0219\u0103, s\u0103 dai drumu la ma\u0219ina de sp\u0103lat f\u0103r\u0103 android 2.2 \u0219i taciscrin. Cum pula mea crezi c\u0103 faptul c\u0103 sugi pula bine \u0219i te fu\u021bi \u00een cur ca o birj\u0103 va schimba faptul c\u0103 e\u0219ti o rapandul\u0103 absolut inutil\u0103?!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

R\u0103spuns: C\u00e2nd cumperi o unealt\u0103, e \u00een regul\u0103 s\u0103 fie unealt\u0103. De-aia dai bani pe ea. Vine cu garan\u0163ie, func\u0163iile a, b, c, rate x, y, z, etc.<\/p>\n

Dar o femeie nu e o unealt\u0103 – \u015fi e m\u00e2rl\u0103nesc s\u0103 o tratezi ca atare. \u015etiu, 80% din poporul rom\u00e2n o face. Pin urmare, 80% din poporul rom\u00e2n sunt m\u00e2rlani. Singura femeie din lume pe care X e \u00eendrept\u0103\u0163it s-o \u00eentrebe dac\u0103 \u015ftie s\u0103 fac\u0103 ciorb\u0103 e propria lui buc\u0103t\u0103reas\u0103 pl\u0103tit\u0103, la angajare. Singura femeie pe care X. e \u00eendrept\u0103\u0163it s-o \u00eentrebe dac\u0103 \u015ftie s\u0103 calce o c\u0103me\u015f\u0103 este propria lui menajer\u0103, la angajare.<\/p>\n

Nu, iubita cuiva nu e nici buc\u0103t\u0103reasa, nici menajera lui. Dac\u0103 X vrea m\u0103m\u0103lig\u0103, are \u015fi el dou\u0103 m\u00e2ini – e liber s\u0103 \u015fi-o fac\u0103. Dac\u0103 X. vrea c\u0103me\u015f\u0103 c\u0103lcat\u0103, idem. Modul unora de a-\u015fi trata iubitele ca pe menajere gratis mi se pare o form\u0103 de “s-a-nt\u00e2lnit ho\u0163ul cu proasta”. \u015ei se impune bine\u00een\u0163eles \u00eentrebarea: DAR TU CE OFERI?<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 tipa alege s\u0103 fie casnic\u0103 \u015fi s-o \u0163ii tu, da, ai tot dreptul s\u0103 \u00eei ceri menaj contra faptul c\u0103 o \u0163ii. Dar dac\u0103 ea c\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103 cam de 3 ori c\u00e2t tine? Sau cam de 5 ori? C\u00e2nd am\u00e2ndoi au venituri \u015fi contribuie financiar la \u00eentre\u0163inerea c\u0103minului, preten\u0163iile de genul “Noi ce m\u00e2nc\u0103m azi?” “\u00cemi calci \u015fi mie o c\u0103ma\u015f\u0103?” \u015fi “Vreau ciorapi cura\u0163i” se trateaz\u0103 cu r\u0103spunsurile: “P\u0103i, spune tu, c\u0103 \u0163ie \u0163i-e foame!” “Ai \u015fi tu dou\u0103 m\u00e2ini!” \u015fi “Spal\u0103-\u0163i sau cump\u0103r\u0103-\u0163i”. Exact \u00een aceast\u0103 ordine.<\/p>\n

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Bun. Acum, \u00eentrebarea e a\u015fa: Ce drept are un X. s\u0103 \u00eentrebe o femeie str\u0103in\u0103 – una care CHIAR NU ARE NICI O OBLIGA\u0162IE S\u0102-I DEA SOCOTEAL\u0102 – dac\u0103 \u015ftie s\u0103 frece podele \u015fi s\u0103 desfunde bude?<\/p>\n

E ca \u015fi cum s-ar duce o fat\u0103 la banc\u0103, \u015fi s-ar apuca s\u0103-l \u00eentrebe pe tipul de la ghi\u015feu, care n-are nici o treab\u0103 cu ea: Auzi, dar tu freci podele? Dai cu aspiratorul? Sau pe cardiolog. Sau pe dentist. Sau chiar pe pizza delivery boy. Tot at\u00e2\u0163ia oameni cu care nu ai dec\u00e2t o leg\u0103tur\u0103 superficial\u0103. DE CE TE-AR FUTE GRIJA CE FAC EI ACAS\u0102? E obr\u0103znicie cras\u0103.<\/p>\n

Ce drept are X s\u0103 judece o femeie str\u0103in\u0103 dup\u0103 acest tip de “utilitate”? Cine \u00eel judec\u0103 pe directorul unei b\u0103nci, pe medicul de familie sau pe contabilul unei firme dup\u0103 acest tip de utilitate? Evident, nimeni. C\u0103 nu pentru asta sunt ei f\u0103cu\u0163i. Chestia e valabil\u0103 \u015fi dac\u0103 directorul \/ medicul \/ whatever e femeie.<\/p>\n

Eu, una, o s\u0103 resping din start b\u0103rba\u0163ii care m\u0103 vor “util\u0103”. S\u0103-\u015fi angajeze servitori. Nu-s “util\u0103” \u00een acest sens \u015fi nici nu \u00eemi doresc s\u0103 fiu. Eu \u00eemi fac bine treburile pentru care sunt pl\u0103tit\u0103 – \u00eemi doresc s\u0103 fiu util\u0103 acolo \u015fi chiar sunt. Iar dac\u0103 sunt pl\u0103tit\u0103, am cu ce s\u0103 pl\u0103tesc pe al\u0163ii, s\u0103 fie ei utili din acest punct de vedere. PENTRU C\u0102 POT. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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