{"id":3540,"date":"2011-04-13T11:33:43","date_gmt":"2011-04-13T08:33:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/?p=3540"},"modified":"2011-04-13T11:33:43","modified_gmt":"2011-04-13T08:33:43","slug":"a-tu-sau-a-nu-tu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/a-tu-sau-a-nu-tu\/","title":{"rendered":"A &quot;tu&quot; sau a nu &quot;tu&quot;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u015etiu, asta e epoca \u00een care to\u0163i o fac cu to\u0163i, indiferent de ASL (age, sex, location, pentru cei care n-au prins str\u0103mo\u015fescul MIRC). \u015ei totu\u015fi: eu, dac\u0103 intru \u00een contact cu cineva \u015fi \u0103la \u00eemi vorbe\u015fte cu &#8220;dvs.&#8221;, m\u0103 simpt. Nu de alta, dar mi se pare o gher\u0163oial\u0103 hidoas\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencalci distan\u0163a impus\u0103 de cel\u0103lalt \u015fi s\u0103-l ba\u0163i pe burt\u0103 c\u0103 a\u015fa vrea pula ta bengoas\u0103 de f\u0103c\u0103tor de umbr\u0103 p\u0103m\u00e2ntului degeaba.<\/p>\n<p>Tocmai de aceea, una dintre cele mai grave erori, care \u00ee\u0163i asigur\u0103 flit definitiv din partea mea, este ca eu s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i vorbesc cu &#8220;dvs&#8221; \u015fi tu s\u0103 te faci c\u0103 nu auzi \u015fi s\u0103 insi\u015fti s\u0103 mi te adresezi la pertu. &#8220;Dvs.&#8221; din partea mea nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u00e2tu\u015fi de pu\u0163in respect.  \u00censeamn\u0103, \u00een traducere liber\u0103: &#8220;Stai acolo unde e\u015fti, nu veni mai aproape, nu, nu ne batem pe burt\u0103, nu ne tragem de must\u0103\u0163i, nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 ne \u00eemprietenim, s\u0103 ne facem vizite de curtoazie \u015fi s\u0103 ne c\u0103ut\u0103m reciproc de purici&#8221;. Eu nu sunt omul pe care s\u0103-l &#8220;cucere\u015fti&#8221; \u00eenc\u0103lc\u00e2ndu-i voin\u0163a sau demonstr\u00e2ndu-i c\u0103 e un c\u0103cat. Dimpotriv\u0103. C\u00e2nd nu pricepi aluzia, sau o ignori, e semn c\u0103 undeva, pe parcursul drumului, te a\u015fteapt\u0103 statuia maiestuoas\u0103 a unei mui gigantice. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u015etiu, asta e epoca \u00een care to\u0163i o fac cu to\u0163i, indiferent de ASL (age, sex, location, pentru cei care n-au prins str\u0103mo\u015fescul MIRC).&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3540","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3540","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3540"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3540\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3540"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3540"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3540"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}