\u0102sta e primul sfat care \u0163i se d\u0103 dup\u0103 ce e\u015fti admis la UNATC, sec\u0163ia Actorie. Pe de o parte, \u0163i se d\u0103 foarte t\u00e2rziu. Pe de alta, \u0163i se d\u0103 foarte devreme. \u015ei nu \u00een ultimul r\u00e2nd, \u00een momentul \u00een care \u0163i se d\u0103, adeseori nu \u00een\u0163elegi nimic din el. <\/p>\n
De ce foarte t\u00e2rziu?<\/p>\n
Pentru c\u0103 se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla s\u0103 vii dup\u0103 18 ani de \u00eenfruntat p\u0103rin\u0163i cretini care au \u00eencercat s\u0103 fac\u0103 din tine altcineva. \u015ei atunci se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla s\u0103 nu \u015ftii nici tu foarte clar cine e acest “tu \u00eensu\u0163i”. OK, o idee vag\u0103 ai tu, pe baza instinctelor, dar adeseori, acest “tu \u00eensu\u0163i” e a\u015fa, ceva extrem de abstract. Sau ceva de care \u0163i-e uneori team\u0103, \u015fi atunci fugi de acest “tu \u00eensu\u0163i”. <\/p>\n
De aceea e important s\u0103-\u0163i apropii oameni. Oameni care s\u0103 nu fie din categoria curling\u0103i: “oh, tot ce faci tu pute a aur fin, maiestuoaso” dar nici din categoria “meschini-cu-penis-de-3-cm-care-nu-se-pot-valida-dec\u00e2t-strivindu-i-pe-cei-din-jur”: “Tot ce faci tu suge!” Primii risc\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i cer\u015feasc\u0103 at\u00e2t de tare aten\u0163ia \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103-\u0163i dea o imagine fals\u0103 asupra a ceea ce faci; ultimii sunt oameni care au probleme grave cu ei \u00een\u015fi\u015fi \u015fi le descarc\u0103 \u015fi asupra celor din imediata lor apropiere. Oameni care s\u0103 vad\u0103 \u00een tine o individualitate, nu o unealt\u0103, \u015fi s\u0103 te trateze ca atare. S\u0103-\u0163i spun\u0103 unde gre\u015fe\u015fti, dar s\u0103-\u0163i recunoasc\u0103 juste\u0163ea anumitor ac\u0163iuni. \u015ei, mai ales, oameni care s\u0103 nu se r\u0103zbune pe tine pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti “tu \u00eensu\u0163i”. <\/p>\n
De ce prea devreme?<\/p>\n
Pentru c\u0103 “tu \u00eensu\u0163i” evolueaz\u0103 \u00een timp. Descoperi lucruri care te reprezint\u0103, pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce experimentezi. Descoperi calit\u0103\u0163i, defecte, moduri de a face lucruri la care nu te-ai fi g\u00e2ndit, dar care \u00ee\u0163i dezvolt\u0103 orizonturile, \u015fi f\u0103c\u00e2nd un snop de chestii, c\u00e2t mai diferite cu putin\u0163\u0103, descoperi c\u00e2teva tr\u0103s\u0103turi pe care toate acestea le au \u00een comun \u015fi care dau amprenta ta personal\u0103. \u0102la e\u015fti “tu \u00eensu\u0163i”. <\/p>\n
De ce nu \u00een\u0163elegi nimic?<\/p>\n
Pentru c\u0103, adeseori, “tu \u00eensu\u0163i” e cu totul altfel dec\u00e2t credeai tu la \u00eenceput. Important e s\u0103 te \u00eemprietene\u015fti pe parcurs cu “tu \u00eensu\u0163i” \u015fi s\u0103-l iei a\u015fa cum e. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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