{"id":4805,"date":"2012-01-30T20:24:12","date_gmt":"2012-01-30T20:24:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/?p=4805"},"modified":"2012-01-30T20:24:12","modified_gmt":"2012-01-30T20:24:12","slug":"da-cum-zici-tu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/da-cum-zici-tu\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Da, cum zici tu&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>E o chestie pe care n-o s-o \u00een\u0163eleg niciodat\u0103 \u00een via\u0163\u0103. De unde porne\u015fte, de ce func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 a\u015fa cum func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 \u015fi ce vor oamenii care o practic\u0103. Chestia asta este slug\u0103rnicia.<\/p>\n<p>Prin asta, nu m\u0103 refer la diploma\u0163ie. Da, sunt situa\u0163ii \u00een care, av\u00e2nd \u00een vedere ceea ce le datorezi unor oameni, le mai treci cu vederea ni\u015fte c\u0103caturi \u015fi nu-i bagi \u00een vulve materne, de\u015fi tot sufletul t\u0103u implor\u0103 s\u0103 o faci. Dar iei \u00een considerare o list\u0103 de fapte trecute ale lor \u015fi la\u015fi de la tine. Sau pui o problem\u0103 cu ceva mai mult\u0103 fine\u0163e dec\u00e2t ai pune-o fa\u0163\u0103 de un c\u0103cat cu ochi oarecare, pe care-l desconsideri sau care \u0163i-e indiferent.<\/p>\n<p>Ceea ce \u00eens\u0103 nu \u00een\u0163eleg neam sunt plec\u0103ciunile f\u0103r\u0103 discern\u0103m\u00e2nt. Fa\u0163\u0103 de oameni c\u0103rora nu le datorezi nimic. Plec\u0103ciunile umile, supuse, f\u0103r\u0103 a judeca premisele unei situa\u0163ii, limbile \u00een cur date \u00een virtutea iner\u0163iei.<\/p>\n<p>Ce urm\u0103resc oamenii cu asta? Respectul celui lins? Gre\u015fit. Nici un obiect al limbilor \u00een cur nu te va respecta, dac\u0103 descoper\u0103 c\u0103-l lingi f\u0103r\u0103 discern\u0103m\u00e2nt, fie var\u0103, fie iarn\u0103, fie cu rost, fie f\u0103r\u0103. Se va folosi de tine c\u00e2t te guduri pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 el, s\u0103-i pui gratis diacritice \u00een textele primite f\u0103r\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103-i aduci beri de la col\u0163. \u00cen rest, \u00ee\u015fi va \u015fterge cizmele de tine de c\u00e2te ori va considera c\u0103 e nevoie.<\/p>\n<p>Respectul celor de pe margine? Ghinion. Curling\u0103ul nu provoac\u0103 dec\u00e2t hohote de r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n<p>Statistic, cel care alege s\u0103 ling\u0103 cur necondi\u0163ionat \u00een societate este o persoan\u0103 irecuperabil proast\u0103. O persoan\u0103 pre\u015f, incapabil\u0103 s\u0103 observe nuan\u0163e. Ocazional, se va r\u0103scula; dar \u015fi r\u0103scularea lui va fi aidoma linsului, total ilogic\u0103 \u015fi nejustificat\u0103 \u00eentr-un sistem de cauze-efecte. Iar r\u0103scularea lui se va l\u0103sa de obicei cu ploaie de flegme. Curling\u0103ul se va chirci iar la forma lui ini\u0163ial\u0103, umil\u0103 \u015fi preaplecat\u0103. \u015ei va \u00eencepe din nou s\u0103 ling\u0103 s\u00e2rguincios cur.<\/p>\n<p>Fra\u0163ii mei, adev\u0103r v\u0103 zic vou\u0103: p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu ve\u0163i g\u00e2ndi cu propriul creier, nu v\u0103 va respecta nimeni. Societatea nu v\u0103 d\u0103 lucrurile pe care le cer\u015fi\u0163i, ci pe acelea pe care le cere\u0163i demn, ar\u0103t\u00e2nd: am de oferit \u00een schimb asta, asta \u015fi asta. Sigur, \u015fi societatea e curv\u0103, va \u00eencerca s\u0103 negocieze, s\u0103 ofere mai pu\u0163in dec\u00e2t da\u0163i voi. Fi\u0163i fermi. \u015eI, MAI ALES, PUNE\u0162I NAIBII CREIERUL \u0102LA \u00ceN FUNC\u0162IUNE. A\u0163i fi mira\u0163i s\u0103 descoperi\u0163i c\u00e2t e de util, de fapt.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E o chestie pe care n-o s-o \u00een\u0163eleg niciodat\u0103 \u00een via\u0163\u0103. 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