\u00cen ultima vreme, o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de coc\u0103l\u0103rime, alc\u0103tuit\u0103 din specimene care mai de care mai ratate, mai complexate \u015fi mai labile, se \u00eenghesuie s\u0103-mi cer\u015feasc\u0103 aten\u0163ia. Iar eu nu \u00een\u0163eleg de ce. <\/p>\n
Eu, s\u0103 fiu altcineva, nu m-a\u015f strofoca s\u0103-i cer\u015fesc aten\u0163ia persoanei care ar fi eu. Nu sunt o celebritate, nu sunt o frumuse\u0163e \u015fi nu am de oferit nimic, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 primesc ceva cel pu\u0163in echitabil \u00een schimb. \u015ei un am\u0103nunt important: c\u00e2t\u0103 vreme tu e\u015fti cer\u015fetorul de aten\u0163ie, eu decid ce e echitabil pentru mine, nu tu. Tu po\u0163i doar s\u0103 propui, eu aleg, pentru c\u0103 tu e\u015fti \u00een pozi\u0163ia cer\u015fetorului. Ceea ce e ingrat, recunosc. Prin urmare, dec\u00e2t s\u0103-mi cer\u015fesc mie aten\u0163ia, mai bine m-a\u015f duce lini\u015ftit \u00eentr-un bar, a\u015f combina trei adolescente, le-a\u015f \u00eemb\u0103ta \u015fi le-a\u015f fute. Ar fi o \u00eendeletnicire de o mie de ori mai pl\u0103cut\u0103, cu rezultate mai rapide \u015fi mai evidente. Dar a\u015fa sunt eu, g\u00e2ndesc eficient. <\/p>\n
Evident, coc\u0103l\u0103rimea n-ar fi suficient de cocalar\u0103 dac\u0103 nu \u015fi-ar masca cer\u015fetoria de aten\u0163ie \u00een insulte. Nu e mai pu\u0163in cer\u015fetorie, \u00eemi pare r\u0103u. Cer\u015fetorul \u015fi cocalarul urm\u0103resc acela\u015fi lucru – s\u0103 ia ceva de la tine, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 dea ceva \u00een schimb – folosindu-se de metode emo\u0163ionale. Pe termen lung, at\u00e2t cer\u015fetorul, c\u00e2t \u015fi cocalarul se umilesc de unii singuri. Pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 nu po\u0163i exista dec\u00e2t prin raportare la mine, e semn c\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fti degeaba. <\/p>\n
Apoi, revenind la eficien\u0163\u0103, stimate cer\u015fetor de aten\u0163ie: ai \u00eencercat s\u0103-mi cer\u015fe\u015fti aten\u0163ia prin coc\u0103l\u0103real\u0103, n-a mers. Dac\u0103 speri c\u0103 solu\u0163ia e “\u015fi mai mult\u0103 coc\u0103l\u0103real\u0103”, “mult mai mult\u0103 coc\u0103l\u0103real\u0103”, respectiv “\u00eengrozitor de mult\u0103 coc\u0103l\u0103real\u0103”, cred c\u0103 nu avem nevoie de argumente suplimentare \u015fi putem da verdictul: e\u015fti prost de bubui. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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