{"id":4925,"date":"2012-02-23T09:55:48","date_gmt":"2012-02-23T09:55:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/?p=4925"},"modified":"2012-02-23T09:55:48","modified_gmt":"2012-02-23T09:55:48","slug":"antecedente-de-familie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/antecedente-de-familie\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Antecedente de familie&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Asta-i o postare care porne\u015fte de la un schimb de replici de la articolul anterior. Zic a\u015fa replicile:<\/p>\n<ul id=\"commentlist\">\n<li id=\"comment-46076\">\n<div>\n<div><cite>neax<\/cite><br \/>\n<small><a title=\"\" href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/2012\/02\/22\/despre-determinism-cu-mihai-smarandache\/#comment-46076\">februarie 23rd, 2012 at 5:31 am<\/a>\u00a0|\u00a0<a title=\"Editeaz\u0103 comentariul\" href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/wp-admin\/comment.php?action=editcomment&amp;c=46076\">modific\u0103<\/a><\/small><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Ghear\u0103, acel Galgotiu are antecedente \u00een familie, \u015ftii principiul c\u0103 omul e vinovat pentru p\u0103catele fra\u0163ilor s\u0103i. Frac-su a fost director la o fabric\u0103 sub Cea\u015fc\u0103, \u00ee\u015fi schimbase motorul de la ma\u015fin\u0103 cu unul diesel ca s\u0103 poat\u0103 fura motorin\u0103 de la camioanele fabricii.<br \/>\n\u015ei, \u00een plan personal, chiar \u0103sta a fost regizor supt Cea\u015fc\u0103.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><a href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/2012\/02\/22\/despre-determinism-cu-mihai-smarandache\/?replytocom=46076#respond\">R\u0103spunde<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<ul>\n<li id=\"comment-46077\">\n<div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/1.gravatar.com\/avatar\/72045b83f34bb82cea1f7233bf59d81b?s=32&amp;d=wavatar&amp;r=G\" alt=\"\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" \/><cite><a href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/\" rel=\"external nofollow\">Lorena Lupu<\/a><\/cite><br \/>\n<small><a title=\"\" href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/2012\/02\/22\/despre-determinism-cu-mihai-smarandache\/#comment-46077\">februarie 23rd, 2012 at 6:09 am<\/a>\u00a0|\u00a0<a title=\"Editeaz\u0103 comentariul\" href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/wp-admin\/comment.php?action=editcomment&amp;c=46077\">modific\u0103<\/a><\/small><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>asta e ca \u015fi cum s\u0103racu\u2019 frati-miu, om serios, la casa lui, ar fi vinovat de toate excesele mele. oh, c\u2019mon.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><a href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/2012\/02\/22\/despre-determinism-cu-mihai-smarandache\/?replytocom=46077#respond\">R\u0103spunde<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<ul>\n<li id=\"comment-46078\">\n<div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/1.gravatar.com\/avatar\/dfde34192be898ada084f9dada1530c8?s=32&amp;d=wavatar&amp;r=G\" alt=\"\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" \/><cite><a href=\"http:\/\/nedormitul.wordpress.com\/\" rel=\"external nofollow\">nedormitul<\/a><\/cite><br \/>\n<small><a title=\"\" href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/2012\/02\/22\/despre-determinism-cu-mihai-smarandache\/#comment-46078\">februarie 23rd, 2012 at 7:47 am<\/a>\u00a0|\u00a0<a title=\"Editeaz\u0103 comentariul\" href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/wp-admin\/comment.php?action=editcomment&amp;c=46078\">modific\u0103<\/a><\/small><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Dac\u0103 sor\u0103-mea ar avea nevoie s\u0103 se degreveze \u00een Ziua Judec\u0103\u0163ii, s\u0103 \u015ftii c\u0103 eu a\u015f s\u0103ri s-o ajut. C\u0103 eu a\u015fa am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at \u2013 citez: \u201cs\u0103 v-ajuta\u0163i, m\u0103mic\u0103, \u00eentre voi, c\u0103 nimeni \u2013 NIMENI \u2013 nu te ajut\u0103 cum te ajut\u0103 un frate\u201d.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><a href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/2012\/02\/22\/despre-determinism-cu-mihai-smarandache\/?replytocom=46078#respond\">R\u0103spunde<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li id=\"comment-46079\">\n<div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/0.gravatar.com\/avatar\/65d57d247590ab41e6ef680918dea76a?s=32&amp;d=wavatar&amp;r=G\" alt=\"\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" \/><cite>neax<\/cite><br \/>\n<small><a title=\"\" href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/2012\/02\/22\/despre-determinism-cu-mihai-smarandache\/#comment-46079\">februarie 23rd, 2012 at 8:50 am<\/a>\u00a0|\u00a0<a title=\"Editeaz\u0103 comentariul\" href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/wp-admin\/comment.php?action=editcomment&amp;c=46079\">modific\u0103<\/a><\/small><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Da, Nedo, cred c\u0103 fura motorin\u0103 \u015fi pentru regizor.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><a href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/2012\/02\/22\/despre-determinism-cu-mihai-smarandache\/?replytocom=46079#respond\">R\u0103spunde<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Ok. Deci, eu habar nu am care-i situa\u0163ia \u00een familia Galgo\u0163iu \u015fi nici nu m\u0103 macin\u0103 \u00a0vreo curiozitate \u00een privin\u0163a asta. Dar vreau s\u0103 protestez \u00eempotriva g\u00e2ndirii generalizate de genul &#8220;frati-su era, deci el este&#8221;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>1. Eu am un frate. Fratele \u0103sta al meu a trecut prin \u015fcoal\u0103 ca ra\u0163a prin ap\u0103, datorit\u0103 mie &#8211; &#8220;dac\u0103 sor\u0103-sa e o centaureas\u0103, clar \u015fi el e&#8221;. Realitatea e c\u0103 frati-miu e un tip mai degrab\u0103 modest, lini\u015ftit,c\u0103s\u0103torit de la 27 de ani &#8211; v\u00e2rsta la care eu \u00eenc\u0103 sugeam v\u00e2rtos din biberon &#8211; cu un job de distribuitor de produse alimentare, cu ma\u015fin\u0103 mi\u015fto, cu planuri clare de viitor: \u00een x luni str\u00e2ngem bani de cas\u0103, apoi anul viitor pe vremea asta ne apuc\u0103m de proiectul &#8220;Primul nostru copil&#8221;.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Cine m-ar judeca pe mine dup\u0103 frati-miu ar putea presupune c\u0103-s o secretar\u0103 sobr\u0103, serioas\u0103, cu program de la 9 la 5, cu trei copii \u015fi cu o bibliotec\u0103 de c\u0103r\u0163i de re\u0163ete. Cine l-ar judeca pe frati-miu dup\u0103 mine, s-ar a\u015ftepta s\u0103 fie un huligan orgolios, pus mereu pe \u015fotii, be\u0163ivan \u015fi mare devorator de prosp\u0103turi.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u015ei nu e.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>2. &#8220;X are bog\u0103ta\u015fi \u00een familie, deci \u00eei merge minunat&#8221;.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Realitatea: nu ajunge s\u0103 ai bog\u0103ta\u015fi \u00een familie, mai trebuie ca bog\u0103ta\u015fii respectivi s\u0103 fie darnici. Dar, de obicei, bog\u0103ta\u015fii din toate familiile sunt at\u00e2t de profund sictiri\u0163i de rudele am\u0103r\u0103\u015ftene, \u00eenc\u00e2t, dac\u0103 treci printr-o simpl\u0103 vizit\u0103 de cafea, te trateaz\u0103 ca pe un cer\u015fetor. Asta p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd ajungi scriitor cvasi-notoriu \u015fi apoi intr\u0103 \u00een func\u0163iune snobismul familial &#8211; dar nu te mai duci tu, c\u0103 m\u00e2ndria nu-\u0163i permite s\u0103 ui\u0163i de b\u0103\u015finile anterioare.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Eu \u00eei \u00een\u0163eleg \u015fi pe respectivii bog\u0103ta\u015fi &#8211; oamenii care vin doar s\u0103 cear\u0103 \u015fi pe care \u00eei doare \u00een cur de ceea ce-\u0163i dore\u015fti sunt iritan\u0163i. Omul munce\u015fte pentru sine, nu pentru to\u0163i incapabilii cu care are ghinionul s\u0103 poarte nume de familie comun. Dar,tocmai de aceea, stima\u0163i \u00a0colaboratori \u015fi auditori, \u00eenceta\u0163i s\u0103 face\u0163i presupuneri bazate pe &#8220;antecedente de familie&#8221;. Dac\u0103 v\u0103 uita\u0163i la tata, a\u0163i zice c\u0103-s o cartofoare f\u0103r\u0103 perspectiv\u0103. \u015ei nu-s. Dac\u0103 v\u0103 uita\u0163i la mama, a\u0163i zice c\u0103-s o nevast\u0103 pis\u0103loag\u0103, cu aptitudini de home economics. Nu-s. \u00a0Poate c\u0103 nu-s nici una dintre toate acestea tocmai pentru c\u0103 m-a oripilat perspectiva. Caz \u00een care antecedentele de familie func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 taman invers dec\u00e2t v-a\u0163i a\u015ftepta.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Asta-i o postare care porne\u015fte de la un schimb de replici de la articolul anterior. 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