{"id":5313,"date":"2012-06-03T21:31:20","date_gmt":"2012-06-03T21:31:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/?p=5313"},"modified":"2012-06-03T21:31:20","modified_gmt":"2012-06-03T21:31:20","slug":"capacitatea-de-a-asculta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/capacitatea-de-a-asculta\/","title":{"rendered":"Capacitatea de a asculta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Unul dintre motivele pentru care fac interviuri bune este, pur \u015fi simplu, faptul c\u0103 \u00eel ascult pe om. E simplu. Stau \u015fi \u00eel ascult. Chiar dac\u0103 e plicticos ca o or\u0103 de chimie anorganic\u0103, stau, m\u0103 uit \u00een ochii lui, receptez ce are de transmis \u015fi g\u0103sesc modalit\u0103\u0163i de a-i desc\u0103tu\u015fa personalitatea. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;C\u0103cat, ce mare lucru, s\u0103 ascul\u0163i?&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>P\u0103i e mare, coane Iorgule. Sunt oameni absolut inteligen\u0163i, spirituali, de \u00eencredere, dr\u0103gu\u0163i, dar incapabili s\u0103 asculte. Pur \u015fi simplu, sunt mereu pe emisie \u015fi niciodat\u0103 pe recep\u0163ie. \u015ei chiar dac\u0103 au sim\u0163ul umorului, chiar dac\u0103-s simpatici, de la un punct \u00eencolo ajungi s\u0103-\u0163i dore\u015fti sincer s\u0103 le administrezi bocanci \u00een muian. <\/p>\n<p>B\u0103i, frate, folose\u015fte ni\u015fte empatie! Vii s\u0103-mi spui megapovestea serii. Pot \u015fi eu s\u0103 te \u00eentrerup cu c\u0103caturi pe l\u00e2ng\u0103, s\u0103 m\u0103 scarpin ad\u00e2nc \u00een curu-mi \u015fi s\u0103 fac o mie de alte chestii disturbatorii. Uneori, te ascult din polite\u0163e, iar tu nu remarci c\u0103 e din polite\u0163e, pentru c\u0103 sunt at\u00e2t de atent\u0103. OK, nu cer nim\u0103nui s\u0103 m\u0103 asculte din polite\u0163e, pentru c\u0103 eu \u015ftiu s\u0103 povestesc amuzant, dar d\u0103 \u015fi tu urechile pe ON. <\/p>\n<p>Cet\u0103\u0163eni, adev\u0103r v\u0103 zic vou\u0103, \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a\u0163i s\u0103 asculta\u0163i. Degeaba sunte\u0163i oameni mi\u015fto, cu umor \u015fi farmec. C\u00e2nd cel\u0103lalt se prinde c\u0103 nu da\u0163i doi bani pe prezen\u0163a lui \u00een conversa\u0163ie, \u00ee\u015fi va petrece tot restul serii imagin\u00e2ndu-\u015fi moduri creative de a v\u0103 str\u00e2nge de bereg\u0103\u0163i. \u015ei nu vre\u0163i asta. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Unul dintre motivele pentru care fac interviuri bune este, pur \u015fi simplu, faptul c\u0103 \u00eel ascult pe om. E simplu. Stau \u015fi \u00eel ascult.&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5313","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5313","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5313"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5313\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5313"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5313"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5313"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}