Eu caut amici\u0163ii cu oameni cu care pot comunica \u015fi pe care s\u0103-i respect, caut s\u0103 fac lucruri care s\u0103 \u00eensemne ceva pentru mine \u015fi, dac\u0103 se poate, pentru al\u0163ii, caut s\u0103-mi umplu via\u0163a cu lucruri care s\u0103 o fac\u0103 mai frumoas\u0103.<\/p>\n
De aceea, nu voi \u00een\u0163elege niciodat\u0103 genul de om care spune:<\/p>\n
-\u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103m\u00e2ntul rom\u00e2nesc este de c\u0103cat – dar nu-\u015fi abandoneaz\u0103 studiile.<\/p>\n
-prietenii mei sunt de c\u0103cat – dar nu caut\u0103 oameni mai buni.<\/p>\n
-tipa pe care o fut e de c\u0103cat – dar insist\u0103 s\u0103 vrea s\u0103 o fut\u0103.<\/p>\n
-chestiile pe care le citesc sunt de c\u0103cat – dar nu alege s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 ceva mai adecvat preferin\u0163elor lui.<\/p>\n
-jobul meu e de c\u0103cat – dar nu caut\u0103 altul.<\/p>\n
Dup\u0103 o lung\u0103 muial\u0103 privat\u0103 cu \u00eenc\u0103 un hater, am dedus ceva fenomenal: genul \u0103sta de om se hr\u0103ne\u015fte din aparentul sentiment de superioritate pe care \u00eel are fa\u0163\u0103 de chestiile de c\u0103cat cu care insist\u0103 s\u0103 se \u00eenconjoare. \u015ei care, poate, nu-s deloc de c\u0103cat, dar el le-a lipit eticheta \u015fi o apas\u0103 din toate puterile, astup\u00e2nd ochi \u015fi urechi, pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103-i iei sentimentul de superioritate, via\u0163a lui \u00eenceteaz\u0103 s\u0103 aib\u0103 sens.<\/p>\n
Genul \u0103sta de om are impresia c\u0103 orice form\u0103 de respect fa\u0163\u0103 de o alt\u0103 persoan\u0103 \u00eei ia lui o anumit\u0103 cantitate din respectul de sine. Dac\u0103 \u00eel cred pe X. bun, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 eu scad pu\u0163in \u00een propriii mei ochi, deci trebuie s\u0103 insist c\u0103 X e prost, \u015fi atunci, tot respectul pe care i l-a\u015f fi dat lui X \u00eemi revine mie.<\/p>\n
Nu, prostule, respectul nu e un kilogram de br\u00e2nz\u0103, s\u0103 trebuiasc\u0103 dr\u0103muit ca s\u0103-\u0163i r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 \u0163ie c\u00e2t mai mult, Respectul e ca o investi\u0163ie: cu c\u00e2t oferi mai mult, cu at\u00e2t, paradoxal, la sf\u00e2r\u015fitul perioadei, ob\u0163ii mai mult.<\/p>\n
Iar acel sentiment autoindus de superioritate? E exact sentimentul de superioritate al rasi\u015ftilor, homofobilor, xenofobilor \u015fi al tuturor “i\u015ftilor” \u015fi “fobilor” din lume.<\/p>\n
“Ur\u0103sc X, deci exist. Dispre\u0163uiesc X, deci exist.”<\/p>\n
Dac\u0103 existen\u0163a ta nu are sens dec\u00e2t raportat\u0103 la ceea ce ur\u0103\u015fti \u015fi dispre\u0163uie\u015fti, e\u015fti degeaba.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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