Gher\u0163oiul de periferie are dou\u0103 set\u0103ri de atitudine: “s\u0103rum\u00e2na boierule” \u015fi “te sparg, s\u0103 moar\u0103 mama”. <\/p>\n
“S\u0103rum\u00e2na boierule” presupune s\u0103 ia \u00een fiecare zi minim o \u015fpag\u0103 de pe urma ta sau s\u0103-l ai la m\u00e2n\u0103 cu ceva, de obicei suficient de grav \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 ri\u015fte \u00eenchisoarea. De aceea, el \u00ee\u015fi va trata \u015fi familia, prietenii, apropia\u0163ii \u015fi \u00eendep\u0103rta\u0163ii cu “te sparg, s\u0103 moar\u0103 mama”. Pretinde ca numai el s\u0103 aib\u0103 dreptul la cuv\u00e2nt, ca numai el s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce prima lingur\u0103 de ciorb\u0103, ca numai el s\u0103 \u0163in\u0103 telecomanda – apoi se mir\u0103 de ce-l \u00een\u015feal\u0103 nevasta \u015fi de ce \u00eel p\u0103r\u0103sesc copiii. \u015ei nu se prinde c\u0103 el a fost de vin\u0103 – “nevasta e curv\u0103, copiii sunt golani”. <\/p>\n
Pentru c\u0103 modelul nu are dec\u00e2t dou\u0103 set\u0103ri, pentru el “nu accept atitudine de m\u00e2rlan” \u00eenseamn\u0103 automat “vreau temenele”. Nici m\u0103car nu e vina lui. E vina Creatorului, care l-a dotat doar cu dou\u0103 set\u0103ri, e vina celor din jur, care n-au \u00eencercat s\u0103-i deschid\u0103 ochii, e vina societ\u0103\u0163ii care i-a dat \u015fp\u0103gi, intimidat\u0103 de “te sparg, s\u0103 moar\u0103 mama”. <\/p>\n
\u015ei degeaba-i spui: “Gogule, vezi c\u0103 asta te tr\u0103deaz\u0103 c\u0103 e\u015fti gher\u0163oi de periferie \u015fi meri\u0163i tratat ca gher\u0163oi de periferie. Update your settings, pentru c\u0103 nici un om cu IQ m\u0103car mediu nu te va tolera a\u015fa. Modul t\u0103u de a fiin\u0163a jigne\u015fte orice form\u0103 de demnitate uman\u0103”. Gher\u0163oiul de periferie n-are, \u00een niciuna dintre set\u0103rile sale, processing ability. Aptitudinea de a recepta \u015fi de a procesa informa\u0163ia, that is. Nici “s\u0103rum\u00e2na boierule” nu presupune vreo form\u0103 de aten\u0163ie, de curtoazie real\u0103 sau de respect – e “tuz’ gura m\u0103-tii, te crezi tu \u015fmecher, dar te fac eu pe la spate!” Simpl\u0103 slug\u0103rnicie c\u0103ptu\u015fit\u0103 cu ranchiun\u0103 bine disimulat\u0103. <\/p>\n
De aceea, rog gher\u0163oii de periferie s\u0103 se retrag\u0103 singuri. Pot s\u0103-i umilesc la infinit \u015fi s\u0103-i jignesc a\u015fa cum nimeni nu i-a mai jignit p\u00e2n\u0103 acum; pot s\u0103 intru \u00een “Mircea Badea mode” \u015fi s\u0103 le povestesc detaliat ce fac cu mamele lor moarte; pot livra zilnic basculante de mui. Dar nu mai am chef.
\nPot s\u0103-i banez, iar ei, ca ni\u015fte oameni f\u0103r\u0103 demnitate, s\u0103-\u015fi ia alte nickuri \u015fi alte proxy-uri \u015fi s\u0103 se dea drept al\u0163ii, iar \u015fi iar. Dar nu mai am chef. <\/p>\n
Am chef de comunicare normal\u0103. De oamenii care mi-au comentat la ultimele dou\u0103 post\u0103ri, \u015fi care t\u0103ceau p\u00e2n\u0103 acum. Am chef de oameni care s\u0103 fie aten\u0163i la ceea ce li se r\u0103spunde \u015fi care s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 impresia c\u0103 e “\u015fmecherie” s\u0103 ignori argumente \u015fi s\u0103 faci pe interesantul. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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