{"id":5663,"date":"2012-09-28T16:54:02","date_gmt":"2012-09-28T16:54:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/?p=5663"},"modified":"2012-09-28T16:54:02","modified_gmt":"2012-09-28T16:54:02","slug":"ideea-de-exclusivitate-mi-se-pare-stupida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/ideea-de-exclusivitate-mi-se-pare-stupida\/","title":{"rendered":"Ideea de exclusivitate mi se pare stupid\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>E la mod\u0103, \u00een lumea presei scrise, s\u0103 ceri &#8220;exclusivitate&#8221;. Pe mine, personal, nu m-a interesat asta niciodat\u0103. \u015ei iat\u0103 de ce:<\/p>\n<p>Noi, oamenii, dorim s\u0103 posed\u0103m exclusiv numai lucrurile de care suntem nesiguri. Numai femeile grav complexate vor s\u0103 fie singurele din via\u0163a unui b\u0103rbat. Numai b\u0103rba\u0163ii cu penisuri mici \u015fi ejacul\u0103ri premature vor s\u0103 fie singurii din via\u0163a unei femei. Eu, dimpotriv\u0103, le-am recomandat tuturor cu care m-am aflat \u00een rela\u0163ii mai personale: &#8220;Nu v\u0103 ab\u0163ine\u0163i, oameni buni, de la nimic. Dec\u00e2t s\u0103 v\u0103 uita\u0163i cu ciud\u0103 la mine cum glumesc \u015fi cu X, \u015fi cu Y, \u015fi cu Z, mai bine face\u0163i acela\u015fi lucru, \u015fi, dac\u0103 e ceva profund \u00eentre noi, supravie\u0163uie\u015fte oricum. Unde apar constr\u00e2ngerile, relaxarea dispare, unde dispare relaxarea, dispare \u015fi pl\u0103cerea, \u015fi unde pl\u0103cere nu e, nu mai are rost s\u0103 pierzi vremea&#8221;. De aceea cred foarte tare \u00een libertate. \u015ei cred c\u0103 oamenii nu se pot bucura cu adev\u0103rat unul de cel\u0103lalt dec\u00e2t \u00een libertate perfect\u0103. \u015ei am aceast\u0103 relaxare pentru c\u0103 ce scot eu din oameni nu scoate nimeni altcineva. <\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>Bun. Similar st\u0103 treaba \u015fi \u00een pres\u0103. Niciodat\u0103, oric\u00e2t de &#8220;top mag&#8221; sau &#8220;fi\u0163uica pielii pulii&#8221; ar fi fost revista la care lucram, nu am \u00eencercat &#8211; eu &#8211; s\u0103 negociez exclusivitatea. Pentru c\u0103, oricum, aveam exclusivitatea pe con\u0163inut. \u015ei, ca \u015fi \u00een dragoste, ce scot eu din oameni nu scoate nimeni altcineva. De aceea, dac\u0103 vre\u0163i s\u0103-i intervieva\u0163i pe cei pe care-i intervievez eu, v\u0103 rog, sim\u0163i\u0163i-v\u0103 liberi s\u0103 o face\u0163i. Nu mi-e fric\u0103 de compara\u0163ie. <\/p>\n<p>Argument: au f\u0103cut \u015fi cei de la ELLE interviu cu Cristian Mungiu. Sim\u0163i\u0163i-v\u0103 liberi, oricare dintre voi, s\u0103 citi\u0163i cele dou\u0103 interviuri. \u015ei ve\u0163i \u00een\u0163elege de ce mi se f\u00e2lf\u00e2ie glorios de no\u0163iunea de exclusivitate. \ud83d\ude00 \ud83d\ude00 <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E la mod\u0103, \u00een lumea presei scrise, s\u0103 ceri &#8220;exclusivitate&#8221;. Pe mine, personal, nu m-a interesat asta niciodat\u0103. \u015ei iat\u0103 de ce: Noi, oamenii,&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5663","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5663","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5663"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5663\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5663"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5663"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5663"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}