Eu m\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103gostesc foarte rar. Sunt un om lucid \u015fi predispus spre ironie, cu imunitate la vr\u0103jeal\u0103 ieftin\u0103 \u015fi cu o \u00eenclina\u0163ie spre analiza vorbe vs. fapte.<\/p>\n
Dar, c\u00e2nd m\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103gostesc, primul impuls este s\u0103-i descop\u0103r dorin\u0163ele \u015fi pl\u0103cerile omului de care m\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103gostesc, \u015fi s\u0103 fac lucruri care s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103 acestor dorin\u0163e \u015fi pl\u0103ceri. Bine, eu sunt, printre altele un bun ascult\u0103tor. De-aia-mi ies mereu interviuri glorioase, \u015fi pariez c\u0103 dac\u0103 a\u015f intervieva-o pe Inna, a\u0163i r\u0103m\u00e2ne cu to\u0163i mira\u0163i de c\u00e2t e de inteligent\u0103 \u015fi mi\u015fto femeia, de fapt.<\/p>\n
Ca om care \u015ftie s\u0103 vad\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 asculte, m-au enervat \u00eentotdeauna oamenii surzi. Nu m\u0103 refer la cei cu dizabilit\u0103\u0163i de auz. Ci la \u0103ia care se bat cu c\u0103r\u0103mida-n piept c\u0103 se cac\u0103 r\u00e2uri de tare ce te iubesc, dar nu reu\u015fesc s\u0103 aud\u0103 lucrurile pe care \u0163i le dore\u015fti tu. Care zic “dadada”, “bine\u00een\u0163eles”, \u015fi le turuie pe ale lor. Ce iubesc ei, de fapt? Pe tine, persoana, sau propriile vorbe siropoase \u015fi aptitudinea de a le rosti bombastic?<\/p>\n
Pe unii surzi \u00eei po\u0163i scoate rapid din circuitul t\u0103u: “Drag\u0103 Vasile, nu cred c\u0103 suntem compatibili. Unul dintre noi are prea mult\u0103 cear\u0103 \u00een urechi.” Mai grav e cu rudele care se dau extrem de iubitoare, dar numai la nivel declarativ. Cum po\u0163i pretinde c\u0103 \u0163ii la un om, c\u00e2nd te doare \u00een str\u0103fundurile absconse \u015fi inexpugnabile ale pulii de lucrurile care \u00eei plac, de lucrurile de care are nevoie \u015fi de lucrurile la care viseaz\u0103?<\/p>\n
M\u0103 \u00eentreb cum sunt cl\u0103di\u0163i pe interior oamenii care fac asta. Ce iubesc ei de fapt, c\u00e2nd afirm\u0103 c\u0103 iubesc.<\/p>\n
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