Mi-e pu\u0163in ciudat s\u0103 m\u0103 raportez la o zi care s\u0103rb\u0103tore\u015fte femeia din mine. Asta pentru c\u0103, tot timpul, asist sau uneori m\u0103 \u015fi confrunt cu atitudini legate de care am o singur\u0103 \u00eentrebare. Mereu aceea\u015fi: “Dac\u0103 ai avea \u00een fa\u0163a ta un b\u0103rbat, \u0163i-ai permite s\u0103-i faci \/ spui chestia asta?”<\/p>\n
Ca femeie \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, porne\u015fti mereu de la prezum\u0163ia adversarului c\u0103 e\u015fti vag mai t\u00e2mpit\u0103, mai proast\u0103, mai fraier\u0103, \u015fi ai de demonstrat triplu, \u00eenainte s\u0103 fii acceptat\u0103 drept ceea ce e\u015fti. Ca femeie \u00een Rom\u00e2nia ai de r\u0103spuns la prejudec\u0103\u0163i, la m\u00e2rl\u0103nii, la idei fixe, la instruc\u0163iuni retardate: “Ar trebui s\u0103 intri \u015fi tu \u00een r\u00e2ndul lumii, s\u0103-\u0163i faci un rost!”, la descuraj\u0103ri: “De ce-\u0163i trebuie \u0163ie s\u0103 faci \u015eI chestia asta!”, la injurii, la negocieri financiare mult mai brutale: “\u00cen fond, e doar o pizd\u0103, nu? Dac\u0103 o iei mai tare, o sperii, sigur!” \u015fi, nu \u00een ultimul r\u00e2nd, la cele mai grave cazuri de “capra vecinului” din istorie. Dac\u0103 un b\u0103rbat care exceleaz\u0103 \u00eentr-un domeniu oftic\u0103 pe mul\u0163i, o femeie care exceleaz\u0103 va avea cea mai oribil\u0103 ga\u015fc\u0103 de hateri, at\u00e2t b\u0103rba\u0163i, c\u00e2t \u015fi femei. \u00cenc\u0103 n-am v\u0103zut femei invidioase pe succesul unor b\u0103rba\u0163i, dar b\u0103rba\u0163i invidio\u015fi pe succesul unei femei – g\u00e2rl\u0103. Se nume\u015fte Conjura\u0163ia complexa\u0163ilor.<\/p>\n
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M\u0103 ierta\u0163i dac\u0103, \u00een condi\u0163iile astea, nu mi se pare c\u0103 un buchet de ghiocei o dat\u0103 pe an e o compensa\u0163ie just\u0103. A\u015f prefera s\u0103 nu-l primesc, dar s\u0103 v\u0103d femei tratate echitabil tot restul anului. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Mi-e pu\u0163in ciudat s\u0103 m\u0103 raportez la o zi care s\u0103rb\u0103tore\u015fte femeia din mine. Asta pentru c\u0103, tot timpul, asist sau uneori m\u0103 \u015fi...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7472","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7472","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7472"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7472\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7472"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7472"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7472"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}