\u0102sta e unul dintre cli\u015feele pe care poporul de r\u00e2nd, mai ales \u0103la cu \u00eenclina\u0163ii sentimentaloide, ador\u0103 s\u0103 le cultive. “Iubire s\u0103 existe, c\u0103 restul se rezolv\u0103.” “At\u00e2ta vreme c\u00e2t v\u0103 iubi\u0163i, maic\u0103…” “Tot ce-\u0163i trebuie e iubire!” \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Partea cea mai nasoal\u0103 cu inep\u0163iile astea e c\u0103 le auzi prima oar\u0103 la v\u00e2rste extrem de fragede \u015fi, ca o consecin\u0163\u0103, \u00eencepi s\u0103 pierzi vreme valoroas\u0103 lupt\u00e2nd pentru a-i modela pe diver\u015fi care pretind c\u0103 te iubesc, \u00een a\u015fa fel \u00eenc\u00e2t, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 iubirea lor, s\u0103 sim\u0163i c\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fti \u015fi tu.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Pe c\u00e2nd adev\u0103rul e c\u0103 iubirea \u00een sine nu e niciodat\u0103 suficient\u0103. Iubirea \u00een sine are valoare doar dac\u0103 se grefeaz\u0103 pe o armonie a lucrurilor pe care oamenii le doresc unul de la cel\u0103lalt.\u00a0<\/p>\n
“Ar trebui s\u0103 iubim necondi\u0163ionat!” \u0102sta e un bullshit uria\u015f. Iubirea masculin\u0103 e condi\u0163ionat\u0103 de lookul feminin, iubirea feminin\u0103 e condi\u0163ionat\u0103 de tandre\u0163ea \u015fi aten\u0163ia pe care b\u0103rbatul iubit e dispus s\u0103 le investeasc\u0103 \u00een rela\u0163ie. Subliniez “b\u0103rbatul iubit”, ca s\u0103 nu \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 to\u0163i stalkerii pis\u0103logi \u015fi nes\u0103ra\u0163i c\u0103 ar fi cazul s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 frece neamuzant la icre.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Exemple concrete: Ion \u015fi M\u0103rioara se iubesc de le d\u0103 s\u00e2ngele pe nas. Dar Ion \u00ee\u015fi dore\u015fte o femeie predominant casnic\u0103, s\u0103 dormiteze \u00eempreun\u0103 pe canapea, pe c\u00e2nd M\u0103rioara a dat de gustul antreprenoriatului \u015fi tocmai \u00ee\u015fi face firm\u0103, st\u0103 la coad\u0103 la finan\u0163e dup\u0103 actele de \u00eenfiin\u0163are ale companiei. Nu trebuie s\u0103 fii Mama Omida s\u0103 prevezi divor\u0163 cu strig\u0103turi.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Gigi \u015fi Veta au o chimie c\u00e2t tabelul lui Mendeleev. Veta e PR, pasionat de ceea ce face. Gigi \u00ee\u015fi concediaz\u0103 vechiul PR… \u015fi angajeaz\u0103 pe altcineva s\u0103-l reprezinte! Din nou, intuie\u015fti o desp\u0103r\u0163ire ca-n filme cu du\u015fm\u0103nii, f\u0103r\u0103 ca cineva s\u0103 mai adauge un detaliu la povestea asta.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Pamfilica vrea copii grav. \u00cel iube\u015fte pe Gigel de moare. Dar Gigel vrea be\u0163ii \u00een c\u00e2rciumi. Deznod\u0103m\u00e2ntul e at\u00e2\u00e2\u00e2\u00e2t de evident.\u00a0<\/p>\n
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Concluzia e simpl\u0103 \u015fi scurt\u0103. Nu “el e un bou” \u015fi “ea e o vac\u0103”, de\u015fi nici astea nu sunt excluse. Concluzia e c\u0103, dincolo de sentimente, mai trebuie ca oamenii s\u0103-\u015fi \u015fi doreasc\u0103 aproximativ acelea\u015fi lucruri unul de la cel\u0103lalt. C\u0103 dac\u0103 nu, iubirea se ofile\u015fte \u015fi cade.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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