O parte dintre oamenii cu care fac proasp\u0103t\u0103 cuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103 decid c\u0103 sunt hazlie \u015fi simpatic\u0103, drept care le sunt drag\u0103. \u015ei pasul imediat urm\u0103tor e c\u0103 \u00eencep s\u0103 unelteasc\u0103, s\u0103 mi-l prezinte pe X care are firm\u0103 \u015fi bani, \u015fi e singur, sau pe Y care e artist boem, sau pe Z care “a zis c\u0103 te place”, pe ideea de “e p\u0103cat s\u0103 nu ai un b\u0103rbat l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine.”<\/p>\n
Dragii mei,<\/p>\n
Apreciez mult preocuparea. E dr\u0103gu\u0163 s\u0103 ai oameni c\u0103rora le pas\u0103 de tine. Simt c\u0103 e o dorin\u0163\u0103 sincer\u0103 de a face un bine \u015fi, dincolo de suprafa\u0163a vag iritant\u0103 a inten\u0163iei, pot aprecia bun\u0103tatea de profunzime.<\/p>\n
DAR:
\n-eu \u015ftiu foarte bine s\u0103 m\u0103 m\u0103rit \u015fi singur\u0103, dac\u0103 vreau.<\/p>\n
Dar nu vreau.<\/p>\n
Pentru unii, singur\u0103tatea e o chestie oribil\u0103, care trebuie musai comb\u0103tut\u0103 cu primul pulete sau prima mizd\u0103 vag umanoid\u0103 care iese \u00een cale. Pentru al\u0163ii, printre care cu onor m\u0103 num\u0103r, singur\u0103tatea e o stare de gra\u0163ie.<\/p>\n
Eu, ca s\u0103 scriu, am nevoie s\u0103 fiu singur\u0103. Poate pot implementa alte stadii ale unor proiecte \u00eempreun\u0103 cu diver\u015fi oameni, dar partea de concep\u0163ie trebuie s-o fac \u00een compania unei singure f\u0103pturi: motanul meu Pulic\u0103. Pentru mine singur\u0103tatea e o necesitate \u015fi o form\u0103 de re\u00eenc\u0103rcare a bateriilor. E pl\u0103cut s\u0103 ies cu oameni, dar dup\u0103 3, 4, 5 sau 8 ore, t\u00e2njesc la singur\u0103tate ca la aer. Forma mea fundamental\u0103 de fiin\u0163are e singur\u0103tatea. \u015ei a\u015fa m\u0103 simt bine.<\/p>\n
Ideea c\u0103 omul e f\u0103cut s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u00een cuplu e un imens cli\u015feu. P\u0103rin\u0163ii v-au educat gre\u015fit. Sunt oameni care se simt bine numai \u00een ga\u015fc\u0103 – \u0103ia \u00ee\u015fi fac familii extinse \u015fi le \u0163in mereu \u00een jur – oameni care se simt bine \u00een doi \u015fi oameni care se simt bine singuri. \u015ei care n-au nevoie s\u0103 fie salva\u0163i de singur\u0103tate, \u00eempotriva voin\u0163ei lor. E ca \u015fi cum ai trece strada cu o bab\u0103, cu sila, c\u00e2nd baba are treab\u0103 exact pe trotuarul pe care era ini\u0163ial.<\/p>\n
Noi, oamenii, suntem n\u0103scu\u0163i \u015fi crea\u0163i diferi\u0163i. Ceea ce \u0163i se aplic\u0103 \u0163ie nu mi se aplic\u0103 \u00een mod necesar \u015fi mie, \u015fi nu admit s\u0103-mi spui c\u0103 tu e\u015fti “normalul” \u015fi eu “anormalitatea”. Cred c\u0103 fiin\u0163a uman\u0103 e perfect\u0103 a\u015fa, \u00een diversitatea ei. \u015ei nu e nimic \u00een neregul\u0103 cu oamenii singuratici. \u00cen fond, d\u0103uneaz\u0103 altora mult mai pu\u0163in dec\u00e2t \u0103ia profitori ordinari, scandalagiii publici sau R\u0103zvan B\u0103ncescu. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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