{"id":7706,"date":"2014-04-06T09:32:32","date_gmt":"2014-04-06T09:32:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/?p=7706"},"modified":"2015-10-28T10:33:23","modified_gmt":"2015-10-28T10:33:23","slug":"regulile-conversatiei-pentru-neinitiati-social","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/regulile-conversatiei-pentru-neinitiati-social\/","title":{"rendered":"Regulile conversa\u0163iei pentru neini\u0163ia\u0163i social"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Motto:<\/p>\n<p>Vaca proast\u0103:<\/p>\n<ul id=\"webMessengerRecentMessages\" class=\"uiList _2ne _4kg\">\n<li id=\"wm:mid.1396775412260:d4c7421aa6e1e59a17\" class=\"webMessengerMessageGroup clearfix\">\n<div class=\"clearfix\">\n<div class=\"clearfix _42ef\">\n<div class=\"_37\">\n<div id=\"mid.1396775412260:d4c7421aa6e1e59a17\" class=\"_53\">\n<div class=\"_3hi clearfix\">\n<div class=\"_38 direction_ltr\">\n<p>Joi, 10 april, ora 14&#8230;la Muzeul Literaturiii Romane, va astept la lansarea volumului meu de poezie&#8230;.. Sf\u00e2r\u015fitul conversa\u0163iei<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"_1yr\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"_3hi clearfix\">\n<div class=\"_38 direction_ltr\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"_1yr\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"_sq\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<p>Lorena Lupu:\t<\/p>\n<p>Sf\u00e2r\u015fitul conversa\u0163iei fiind titlul sau cum?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>**<\/p>\n<p>Dragi pro\u015fti care ave\u0163i impresia c\u0103 stelele se aliniaz\u0103 dup\u0103 cum flatula\u0163i voi,<\/p>\n<p>Orice conversa\u0163ie &#8211; s\u0103 \u00eencep cu partea de truism &#8211; are unul sau mai mul\u0163i parteneri. Cea mai simpl\u0103 are doi parteneri, A \u015fi B.<\/p>\n<p>A, numit \u00eendeob\u015fte \u015fi ini\u0163iatorul dialogului, se bag\u0103 \u00een seam\u0103 cu B. \u00cen genere, pentru c\u0103 vrea ceva de la B. Dac\u0103 A e strateg, \u00eei spune lui B \u015fi ce poate oferi pentru acel ceva, s\u0103-l cointereseze, sau \u00eel informeaz\u0103 subtil pe B s\u0103 decid\u0103 de ce are nevoie la schimb. Dac\u0103 A e \u0163\u0103ran prost \u015fi are iluzia c\u0103 tot universul i se cuvine, pretinde poruncitor. Iar dac\u0103 A e \u0163\u0103ran prost, are iluzia c\u0103 tot universul i se cuvine \u015fi, pe deasupra, e retardat de-\u015fi nimere\u015fte fruntea cu \u00eenghe\u0163ata, mai \u015fi anun\u0163\u0103 c\u0103 asta a avut de zis \u015fi c\u0103 nu conteaz\u0103 ce ai tu de r\u0103spuns.<\/p>\n<p>Dragi cretini din toat\u0103 lumea,<\/p>\n<p><strong>Niciodat\u0103, c\u00e2nd tu deschizi un dialog, nu decizi tot tu c\u0103 \u0103l\u0103lalt n-are dreptul s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 tu e\u015fti cer\u015fetorul de aten\u0163ie, nu donatorul ei.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cel care doneaz\u0103 aten\u0163ia poate decide, la un moment dat, c\u0103 tema nu e interesant\u0103 \u015fi c\u0103 \u00eentrerupe negocierea. \u015ei e fair. Cerutul nu e totuna cu ob\u0163inutul.<\/p>\n<p>Desigur, \u015fi tu po\u0163i renun\u0163a, la un moment dat, dac\u0103 \u0103l\u0103lalt are preten\u0163ii aberante. De exemplu, dac\u0103 Vaca Proast\u0103 d\u0103dea spamul de mai sus \u015fi eu r\u0103spundeam ceva de genul &#8220;Vin dac\u0103-mi faci o fela\u0163ie dup\u0103&#8221;, avea tot dreptul s\u0103 sf\u00e2r\u015feasc\u0103 glorios conversa\u0163ia.<\/p>\n<p>Altminteri, dac\u0103 tu e\u015fti cel care cere, trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163i s-o faci \u00een a\u015fa fel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu \u0163i se r\u0103spund\u0103 automat cu un deget mijlociu ridicat \u00een sus. Nu e foarte economic s\u0103 faci asta.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Motto: Vaca proast\u0103: Joi, 10 april, ora 14&#8230;la Muzeul Literaturiii Romane, va astept la lansarea volumului meu de poezie&#8230;.. Sf\u00e2r\u015fitul conversa\u0163iei &nbsp; Lorena Lupu:&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7706","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7706","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7706"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7706\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9999,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7706\/revisions\/9999"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7706"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7706"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7706"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}