Discutam ieri cu o prieten\u0103 despre modestie, arogan\u0163\u0103 \u015fi nuan\u0163e intermediare. \u015ei ce m\u0103 determin\u0103 s\u0103 scriu acest text e faptul c\u0103 ea glorifica “modestia” unei ter\u0163e persoane, iar eu \u00eei explicam c\u0103 acolo este vorba de simpl\u0103 slug\u0103rnicie \u015fi curling\u0103ial\u0103, care au cam at\u00e2ta leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu modestia c\u00e2t\u0103 are un pe\u015fte cu o biciclet\u0103.<\/p>\n
Eu CHIAR sunt fundamental un om modest. Punctul de pornire \u00een raport cu oricine altcineva este 100% respectuos. Evident, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een momentul \u00een care constat c\u0103 interlocutorul ia respectul meu \u015fi-l folose\u015fte pe post de h\u00e2rtie igienic\u0103. Atunci o d\u0103m pe m\u00e2rl\u0103nez\u0103, ca m\u0103car s\u0103 avem un limbaj comun.
\nSunt un om modest \u00een sensul c\u0103 nu-mi arog merite pe care nu le am \u015fi nu mimez c\u0103 sunt mai mult dec\u00e2t sunt. Nu m\u0103 rup \u00een figuri, nu impun nim\u0103nui s\u0103 se dea dup\u0103 mine, interac\u0163iunea cu mine nu te las\u0103 cu impresia “cine pula mea e asta”.<\/p>\n
Nu sunt \u00eens\u0103 un om slugarnic. Nu cred c\u0103 modestia presupune s\u0103 aprobi f\u0103r\u0103 discern\u0103m\u00e2nt un nume-brand, indiferent ce t\u00e2mpenii spune, doar ca s\u0103 ar\u0103\u0163i c\u0103 e\u015fti modest. Nu cred c\u0103 modestia presupune s\u0103 accep\u0163i orice, oricum, doar pentru c\u0103 X e sus-pus. Nu cred c\u0103 modestia presupune o atitudine servil\u0103. Respectuoas\u0103, da; dar umil\u0103 \u015fi servil\u0103 nu. Nu cred c\u0103 modestia presupune s\u0103 fii yesman perpetuu \u015fi s\u0103 nu spui dac\u0103 te deranjeaz\u0103 ceva.<\/p>\n
\u015ei cred c\u0103 modestia se \u00eempac\u0103 ok cu siguran\u0163a de sine \u015fi \u00eencrederea \u00een for\u0163ele proprii. Slug\u0103rnicia nu, pentru c\u0103 simpla ei existen\u0163\u0103 denot\u0103 lipsa acestor dou\u0103. \u015ei, \u00eentre noi fie vorba, pe mine m\u0103 sperie teribil de tare oamenii slugarnici. \u00cemi tot imaginez c\u0103 vor s\u0103-mi \u00eenfig\u0103 un cu\u0163it \u00een spate, dar se ab\u0163in \u015fi se poart\u0103 frumos, pentru c\u0103 organele trebuie s\u0103 fie proaspete la livrare.<\/p>\n
Nu \u00een ultimul r\u00e2nd: a\u0163i remarcat cu to\u0163ii cum se schimb\u0103 slugarnicul, cu 180 de grade, c\u00e2nd d\u0103 de cineva pe care-l consider\u0103 subordonat? Toat\u0103 atitudinea lui \u0163ip\u0103 “Buun, acum c\u0103 mi-am f\u0103cut limba \u015fmirghel de at\u00e2ta cur lins, e OBLIGA\u0162IA ta sub\u00een\u0163eleas\u0103 s\u0103 faci acela\u015fi lucru! Trebuie s\u0103 existe echilibru pe lume!”<\/p>\n
Genul \u0103sta de om ar trebui eliminat cu mitraliera. Pentru o Rom\u00e2nie mai curat\u0103 \u015fi mai uscat\u0103. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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