Omul e fiin\u0163\u0103 complex\u0103 \u015fi cu multe aspecte, dar e \u00eencadrabil \u00een dou\u0103 categorii mari \u015fi late: cel care vrea s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u015fi cel care vrea s\u0103 par\u0103 c\u0103.<\/p>\n
Cel care vrea s\u0103 fac\u0103 nu se preocup\u0103 foarte mult de ceea ce pare c\u0103. Ai de f\u0103cut zece figurine cu balerin\u0103 ridic\u00e2nd cracul? Le faci \u015fi la\u015fi ceea ce ai f\u0103cut s\u0103 te reprezinte, apoi bei o bere-dou\u0103-zece \u015fi te culci. Via\u0163a e simpl\u0103.<\/p>\n
Cel care vrea s\u0103 par\u0103 c\u0103 e de obicei putoare ordinar\u0103 \u015fi om \u00een cuv\u00e2ntul c\u0103ruia nu po\u0163i avea \u00eencredere. Pentru c\u0103 nu-i pas\u0103 de esen\u0163e, e preocupat de “imagine \u015fi brand”. \u015ei atunci, oamenii ajung destul de repede s\u0103-l ignore \u015fi s\u0103-l evite \u00een cercuri largi.<\/p>\n
Cel care vrea s\u0103 par\u0103 c\u0103 simte c\u0103 e ceva \u00een neregul\u0103. \u015ei ce face? \u00cen loc s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 s\u0103 se \u0163in\u0103 de angajamente \u015fi promisiuni, se duce la un workshop de dezvoltare personal\u0103, unde i se spune c\u0103 e special, unic, c\u0103 aura lui va r\u0103zbate printre mun\u0163ii mediocrit\u0103\u0163ii umane ca Hercule printre cele dou\u0103sprezece \u00eencerc\u0103ri \u015fi c\u0103 important e s\u0103 fie \u00een armonie cu universul.<\/p>\n
Dragi fani ai dezvolt\u0103rii personale,
\nSenza\u0163ia inconfortabil\u0103 c\u0103 e\u015fti degeaba este cel mai s\u0103n\u0103tos \u015fi util lucru din lume. Ea \u00ee\u0163i spune c\u0103 faci umbr\u0103 p\u0103m\u00e2ntului degeaba \u015fi c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 te apuci de ceva folositor, orice ar fi acel ceva. C\u00e2nd v\u0103 duce\u0163i la tabere de g\u00e2dilat egoul cu o pan\u0103 de g\u00e2sc\u0103, nu vindeca\u0163i boala. Trata\u0163i temporar simptomul \u015fi at\u00e2ta tot. Sunte\u0163i ca \u0103ia cu ditamai punga de puroi la r\u0103d\u0103cina molarului praf de cariat, care iau trei fiole de algocalmin \u00een loc s\u0103 se duc\u0103 naibii la dentist.<\/p>\n
Durerea \u015fi disconfortul sunt cele care-\u0163i spun c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 iei m\u0103suri. M\u0103suri concrete \u015fi limpezi. S\u0103 te min\u0163i singur c\u0103 e\u015fti special, \u00een timp ce minim zece oameni \u0163epui\u0163i de tine dau acatiste s\u0103 mori \u00een chinuri mi se pare hazliu.<\/p>\n
Te sim\u0163i ca o dron\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 rost? Cel mai probabil, chiar e\u015fti.
\n\u00ce\u0163i displace acut senza\u0163ia? F\u0102 CHESTII CONCRETE.<\/p>\n
Mut\u0103-te \u00een alt ora\u015f, ia-\u0163i un alt job, apuc\u0103-te de un sport, adopt\u0103 un animal de companie, \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 o limb\u0103 str\u0103in\u0103 sau un instrument muzical. Va fi o dezvoltare personal\u0103 mai util\u0103 dec\u00e2t conectarea-cu-universul-\u00een-spirala-iubirii. Vei sim\u0163i c\u0103, \u00eentr-adev\u0103r, se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 lucruri cu tine \u015fi c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 pui osul la treab\u0103, s\u0103 progresezi. Iar satisfac\u0163ia c\u0103 reu\u015fe\u015fti s\u0103 c\u00e2n\u0163i singur la chitar\u0103 acordurile de la The Unforgiven<\/em> sau c\u0103 reu\u015fe\u015fti s\u0103 \u00eenjghebi o conversa\u0163ie \u00een francez\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103 interlocutorul de tine \u015fi cu curul e o senza\u0163ie real\u0103, bazat\u0103 pe rezultate palpabile.<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 \u0163ii neap\u0103rat s\u0103 te sim\u0163i glorios \u015fi s\u0103 nu faci nimic pentru asta, n-ai nevoie de o traineri\u0163\u0103 ur\u00e2t\u0103, \u00eentre dou\u0103 v\u00e2rste, debitatoare de cli\u015fee. E de ajuns s\u0103 bei o vodc\u0103 sau s\u0103 fumezi o m\u0103rioar\u0103. Eventual combinate. Orice c\u00e2rcium\u0103 de la col\u0163 e plin\u0103 de indivizi la fel de speciali ca tine.<\/p>\n Nu \u00een ultimul r\u00e2nd: nevoia asta de masare perpetu\u0103 a egoului cu ulei de palmier \u015fi cu vr\u0103jeal\u0103 de doi bani denot\u0103 o alt\u0103 tr\u0103s\u0103tur\u0103 detestabil\u0103 a unor oameni. Narcisismul. De ce au unii nevoie s\u0103 aud\u0103 la infinit c\u0103-s unici \u015fi neaseMUI\u0162I, de la ni\u015fte oameni care nici m\u0103car nu \u015ftiu despre ce vorbesc? Cu ce te ajut\u0103 asta? Cu ce-\u0163i folose\u015fte c\u0103 aceea\u015fi traineri\u0163\u0103 ur\u00e2t\u0103 \u015fi \u00eentre dou\u0103 v\u00e2rste \u00ee\u0163i spune c\u0103 toate minunile universului sunt \u00een tine, de\u015fi, probabil, te crede un avort e\u015fuat? C\u00e2nd ai mereu nevoie s\u0103 fii suflat \u00een cur, nu un atelier de dezvoltare personal\u0103 e solu\u0163ia. Mai degrab\u0103 o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 la sap\u0103, s\u0103 te trezeasc\u0103 la realitate. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Omul e fiin\u0163\u0103 complex\u0103 \u015fi cu multe aspecte, dar e \u00eencadrabil \u00een dou\u0103 categorii mari \u015fi late: cel care vrea s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u015fi cel...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8301","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8301","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8301"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8301\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8301"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8301"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8301"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}