{"id":8414,"date":"2014-08-02T07:36:54","date_gmt":"2014-08-02T07:36:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/?p=8414"},"modified":"2014-08-02T07:36:54","modified_gmt":"2014-08-02T07:36:54","slug":"barbatul-cu-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/barbatul-cu-care\/","title":{"rendered":""B\u0103rbatul cu care""},"content":{"rendered":"

Exist\u0103 ceva extrem de jignitor \u00een mentalitatea rom\u00e2neasc\u0103. \u015ei anume, orice ar zice \u015fi ar face o fat\u0103, t\u00e2mpi\u0163ii \u00eencep s\u0103 analizeze \u00een ce m\u0103sur\u0103 \u00eei convine asta unui ipotetic b\u0103rbat care ar fute-o.<\/p>\n

Am pozat la un moment dat str\u00e2ng\u00e2nd \u00een bra\u0163e mai multe sticle de bere. \u015ei am ilustrat cu poza aia un interviu pe care mi-l ceruse un site. Primul comentariu: “Dac\u0103 asta e at\u00e2t de be\u0163iv\u0103, cum se simte oare b\u0103rbatul ei?”<\/p>\n

WTF? \u00cenc\u0103 nu am v\u0103zut pictoriale cu Adam Levine \u00een nudu’ gol<\/a> \u015fi pe cineva criz\u00e2ndu-se ce simte o eventual\u0103 partener\u0103 legat de faptul c\u0103 o alt\u0103 m\u00e2n\u0103 de femeie \u00eei acoper\u0103 cucule pas\u0103re sur\u0103.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 faci o fapt\u0103 bun\u0103, un om bine inten\u0163ionat, crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 te complimenteaz\u0103, \u00ee\u0163i spune ce fericit trebuie s\u0103 fie tipul cu care e\u015fti. WWTF? De ce?? Ce leg\u0103tur\u0103 are fapta mea bun\u0103 cu via\u0163a mea sexual\u0103?<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 unui cretin \u00eei displace c\u0103 scrii cu “pul\u0103”, \u00eencepe s\u0103 te frece c\u0103 n-o s\u0103 mai vrea nimeni s\u0103 fie cu tine \u015fi o s\u0103 mori singur\u0103. WTF??<\/p>\n

De ce trebuie, \u00een permanen\u0163\u0103 \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eencetare, s\u0103 raport\u0103m o femeie la expectan\u0163ele partenerului din g\u00e2ndurile noastre? De ce, \u00een mintea noastr\u0103, scopul primordial al femeii e s\u0103 corespund\u0103 unui set de reguli cu care, uneori, partenerul real n-are nici o treab\u0103? De ce nu ne g\u00e2ndim c\u0103 exist\u0103 \u015fi femei care-s entit\u0103\u0163i de sine st\u0103t\u0103toare? Care nu au un scop primordial de a lega un b\u0103rbat de gard, care nu v\u0103d rela\u0163iile dec\u00e2t ca pe un mod agreabil de \u00eenfrumuse\u0163are a vie\u0163ii, \u00een nici un caz ca pe o misiune de slujire a p\u0103r\u0163ii dotate cu penis \u015fi care \u015ftiu acel adev\u0103r revelat doar oamenilor siguri de ei: “C\u00e2nd un om te iube\u015fte, te ia exact a\u015fa cum e\u015fti?” <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Exist\u0103 ceva extrem de jignitor \u00een mentalitatea rom\u00e2neasc\u0103. \u015ei anume, orice ar zice \u015fi ar face o fat\u0103, t\u00e2mpi\u0163ii \u00eencep s\u0103 analizeze \u00een ce...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8414","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8414","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8414"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8414\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8414"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8414"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8414"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}