{"id":8464,"date":"2014-08-13T11:09:14","date_gmt":"2014-08-13T11:09:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/2014\/08\/13\/draga-mamica-isterica\/"},"modified":"2014-08-13T11:09:14","modified_gmt":"2014-08-13T11:09:14","slug":"draga-mamica-isterica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/draga-mamica-isterica\/","title":{"rendered":"Drag\u0103 m\u0103mic\u0103 isteric\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>St\u0103team azi la coad\u0103 \u00een urma ta, \u00eentr-un Mega Image. \u0162i-ai pl\u0103tit cump\u0103r\u0103turile, \u0163i le puneai \u00een plase, c\u00e2nd copila\u015ful t\u0103u a \u00eenceput s\u0103 trop\u0103ie \u00een spa\u0163iul str\u00e2mt din fa\u0163a caselor, bloc\u00e2ndu-mi trecerea. Eu, pas\u0103mite, \u00eemi luasem doar o \u00eenghe\u0163at\u0103 \u015fi o sticl\u0103 de ap\u0103, am terminat repede.<\/p>\n<p>Eu am m\u00e2ng\u00e2iat finu\u0163 copila\u015ful pe cap \u015fi l-am rugat: Te dai pu\u0163in la o parte? P\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 reac\u0163ioneze el, tu l-ai smucit cu mojicie. Era feti\u0163\u0103. \u015ei ai \u00eenceput s\u0103 urli ca apucat\u0103 de streche: Proasta dracu&#8217;, mereu stai \u00een drumul oamenilor. D\u0103-te la o parte!<\/p>\n<p>\u0162i-am zis pe un ton calm, de\u015fi mi-am reprimat cu greu impulsul de a te da cu capul de marginea metalizat\u0103 a casei de marcat: &#8220;Stimat\u0103 doamn\u0103, nu era nevoie!&#8221; Ai dat din umeri \u015fi ai mai smucit copilul o dat\u0103. <\/p>\n<p>\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, drag\u0103 m\u0103mic\u0103 isteric\u0103, proced\u00e2nd astfel, i-ai dat copilului t\u0103u informa\u0163ia c\u0103, \u00een ochii t\u0103i, el valoreaz\u0103 mai pu\u0163in dec\u00e2t un str\u0103in la nimereal\u0103 de la casa de marcat. L-ai umilit verbal \u00een fa\u0163a unui \u00eentreg magazin \u015fi a unei persoane str\u0103ine c\u0103rora voi nu-i datora\u0163i nimic \u015fi, care, evident, nu e nici o secund\u0103 recunosc\u0103toare c\u0103 ai ales s-o aju\u0163i a\u015fa. <\/p>\n<p>Eu nu \u0163i-s nimeni \u015fi nici n-am re\u0163inut nimic din fizionomia sau personalitatea ta, am re\u0163inut doar brutalitatea fa\u0163\u0103 de f\u0103ptura aia mic\u0103 \u015fi fragil\u0103. F\u0103ptura aia mic\u0103 \u015fi fragil\u0103, \u00eens\u0103, e urma\u015ful t\u0103u de drept, viitorul om mare care te va privi \u00eentr-o zi \u00een ochi \u015fi-\u0163i va spune cu senin\u0103tate: &#8220;Mi-a fost ru\u015fine toat\u0103 via\u0163a s\u0103 fiu copilul unui jeg uman cum e\u015fti tu!&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>\u015ei, poate, te va brutaliza verbal a\u015fa cum ai brutalizat-o tu. Asta e chiar indicat, pentru c\u0103 \u0163i-o meri\u0163i. Dar poate \u0163i-a mo\u015ftenit prostia \u015fi-\u015fi va brutaliza copiii a\u015fa cum a \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at de la tine, iar asta mi s-ar p\u0103rea impardonabil. <\/p>\n<p>A\u015fadar, drag\u0103 m\u0103mic\u0103 isteric\u0103, tocmai ai c\u0103lcat \u00een picioare fiin\u0163a pe care trebuia s-o protejezi, \u00een favoarea unui str\u0103in oarecare. <\/p>\n<p>Apoi: eu rugasem frumos copila\u015ful s\u0103 se dea la o parte \u015fi, mai mult ca sigur, s-ar fi dat. Era doar cu privirea pironit\u0103 la mine. \u00cent\u00e2i am crezut c\u0103 e din cauza frumuse\u0163ii mele r\u0103pitoare. \ud83d\ude00 Dup\u0103 ce ai deschis tu clon\u0163ul, m-am prins c\u0103 era altceva. Copilul \u0103la auzea pentru prima oar\u0103 \u00een via\u0163a lui ni\u015fte cuvinte rostite pe un ton uman. <\/p>\n<p>Te mai miri c\u0103 sunt at\u00e2\u0163ia pro\u015fti pe Internet care intr\u0103 mereu \u00een discu\u0163ii pe un ton de parc\u0103 te-ar fi scos din cur? Probabil c\u0103 sunt copiii unor astfel de mame. <\/p>\n<p>Dar ce e mai trist, drag\u0103 m\u0103mic\u0103 isteric\u0103, e c\u0103-i vei transmite \u0103luia mic preconcep\u0163ia instinctual\u0103 c\u0103 to\u0163i oamenii sunt pro\u015fti \u015fi r\u0103i ca tine. \u015ei asta e cel mai grav. Nu pentru c\u0103 va tinde \u00een mod natural spre singur\u0103tate, pentru c\u0103 l-ai obi\u015fnuit de mic cu faptul c\u0103 interac\u0163iunea uman\u0103 e un chin de nedescris, care trebuie scurtat pe c\u00e2t posibil. Ci pentru c\u0103, urm\u0103rindu-te c\u00e2t e\u015fti de grotesc\u0103 \u015fi hidoas\u0103 \u00een prostia \u015fi r\u0103utatea ta, va dezvolta un ochi special pentru prostia \u015fi r\u0103utatea altora. <\/p>\n<p>Drag\u0103 m\u0103mic\u0103 isteric\u0103, <\/p>\n<p>probabil c\u0103 tocmai \u0163i-ai condamnat copilul la comedie. <\/p>\n<p><em>Update: Nu fi al nu \u015ftiu c\u00e2telea care m\u0103 \u00eentreab\u0103 de ce comentez dac\u0103 n-am copii. Uite r\u0103spunsul <a href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/2014\/08\/15\/de-ce-dai-tu-sfaturi-despre-copii\/\">aic<\/a>i.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>St\u0103team azi la coad\u0103 \u00een urma ta, \u00eentr-un Mega Image. \u0162i-ai pl\u0103tit cump\u0103r\u0103turile, \u0163i le puneai \u00een plase, c\u00e2nd copila\u015ful t\u0103u a \u00eenceput s\u0103&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8464","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8464","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8464"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8464\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8464"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8464"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8464"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}