Azi, vom trata o specie de om care e direct responsabil\u0103 de propagarea r\u0103ului \u00een lume: omul care g\u0103se\u015fte o explica\u0163ie.<\/p>\n
Poate fi colegul de munc\u0103 care-\u0163i justific\u0103 istericalele sinistre, inexplicabil tolerate de toat\u0103 lumea, ale amantei \u015fefului. Poate fi partenerul de biznis care-\u0163i explic\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103ciuitor de ce un colaborator are un comportament de o m\u00e2rl\u0103nie greu de descris. Poate fi maic\u0103-ta, care-\u0163i explic\u0103 de ce bogatul familiei explodeaz\u0103 literalmente de arogan\u0163\u0103, ca un balon umflat dincolo de rezisten\u0163a gumei din care e fabricat. Poate fi oricine.<\/p>\n
\u015ei omul care g\u0103se\u015fte o explica\u0163ie vine s\u0103-\u0163i spun\u0103: “E adev\u0103rat, Gogu e cam violent \/ Vasilica \u0163ip\u0103 ca proasta \/ Ionel fur\u0103 portofele, dar vezi tu, a avut o via\u0163\u0103 grea, a f\u0103cut foamea, setea, dorul de codru verde \u015fi n-a avut mereu bani de ciocolat\u0103 Cibo, care, \u015ftie toat\u0103 lumea, e panaceul universal pentru traumele sufletului”.<\/p>\n
Acum, drag public, s\u0103 ridice dou\u0103 degete acela dintre voi care n-a avut o via\u0163\u0103 grea, care n-a f\u0103cut niciodat\u0103 foamea, setea, dorul de codru verde \u015fi care a avut mereu ciocolat\u0103 Cibo la discre\u0163ie.<\/p>\n
Bun. Faptul c\u0103 ai avut o via\u0163\u0103 grea te transform\u0103 automat \u00eentr-un nemernic? Nu. O sesiune-dou\u0103-trei de foame \u00ee\u0163i ia neap\u0103rat min\u0163ile \u015fi te face s\u0103 ui\u0163i c\u0103 e\u015fti om? Nu.<\/p>\n
Adev\u0103rul e c\u0103 toate acestea te transform\u0103 \u00eentr-un nemernic doar dac\u0103 se nimeresc s\u0103 dea peste cineva care ar fi fost un nemernic \u015fi \u00een caz de via\u0163\u0103 u\u015foar\u0103 \u015fi cornul abunden\u0163ei ad\u00e2nc \u00eenfipt \u00een fund la orice or\u0103 din zi \u015fi din noapte.<\/p>\n
Iar justificatorii, oamenii care \u0163i-l scuz\u0103 pe nemernic nu fac dec\u00e2t s\u0103-i perpetueze nemernicului o stare de confort pentru a fi nemernic \u00een continuare<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Ce \u00eencearc\u0103 nemernicul de fapt? Folosindu-se de arogan\u0163\u0103, agresivitate sau alte mijloace inechitabile, ob\u0163ine lucrurile pe care \u015fi le dore\u015fte investind mult mai pu\u0163in dec\u00e2t un om care opteaz\u0103 pentru un traseu echilibrat \u015fi fair-play.<\/p>\n Care e solu\u0163ia corect\u0103? S\u0103-i ar\u0103\u0163i nemernicului c\u0103 manevrele lui sunt nefunc\u0163ionale. Exact ca un computer care d\u0103 ERROR – ERROR – ERROR de c\u00e2te ori \u00eencerci un shortcut pe care nu-l recunoa\u015fte.<\/p>\n Ce sper\u0103 justificatorul? Sper\u0103 ca, intr\u00e2nd \u00een gra\u0163iile nemernicului, s\u0103 aib\u0103 mai pu\u0163in de \u00eendurat \u015fi mai mult de c\u00e2\u015ftigat. De fapt, demersul “\u00een\u0163elege-o \u015fi tu pe cut\u0103ri\u0163a, c\u0103 a avut o via\u0163\u0103 grea, etc.” se completeaz\u0103 cu “uite, b\u0103i, cut\u0103ri\u0163o, eu te ap\u0103r de fa\u0163\u0103 cu lumea, ar trebui \u015fi tu s\u0103…” Demersul aparent altruist e de fapt de un egoism feroce.<\/p>\n Justificatorii se comport\u0103 aidoma unor mafio\u0163i. \u015etiu c\u0103 ap\u0103r\u0103 o chestie oribil\u0103. O fac strict urm\u0103rindu-\u015fi propriile interese. \u015ei, f\u0103c\u00e2nd asta, contribuie la perpetuarea manevrelor mafiote. Pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 nemernicul n-ar avea ap\u0103r\u0103tori \u015fi alia\u0163i, ar ajunge rapid la cap\u0103tul \u015fmecheriilor \u015fi ar fi silit s\u0103 schimbe foaia.<\/p>\n De aceea, v\u0103 rog mult, avoca\u0163i benevoli ai nemernicilor, da\u0163i-v\u0103 zece secunde \u00een care s\u0103 v\u0103 g\u00e2ndi\u0163i: “merit\u0103 persoana pe care o ap\u0103ra\u0163i justificarea voastr\u0103? e lucrul pe care-l ave\u0163i de c\u00e2\u015ftigat suficient de valoros \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 contracareze faptul c\u0103 ap\u0103ra\u0163i un de\u015feu uman? sau chiar crede\u0163i sincer c\u0103 o via\u0163\u0103 grea justific\u0103 faptul c\u0103 un om se comport\u0103 oribil?”<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 crede\u0163i ultimul enun\u0163, e bine s\u0103 v\u0103 ocolim. Nu \u015ftim niciodat\u0103 c\u00e2nd ve\u0163i decide c\u0103 a\u0163i ajuns la nivelul de greut\u0103\u0163i optim pentru a v\u0103 da \u015fi voi arama pe fa\u0163\u0103. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Azi, vom trata o specie de om care e direct responsabil\u0103 de propagarea r\u0103ului \u00een lume: omul care g\u0103se\u015fte o explica\u0163ie. Poate fi colegul...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8474","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8474","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8474"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8474\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8474"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8474"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8474"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}