Am c\u00e2teva prietene bine-crescute. Doamne \u015fi domni\u015foare finu\u0163e, educate corespunz\u0103tor, care nu riposteaz\u0103 niciodat\u0103 la nimic. “Trebuie s\u0103 ignor\u0103m r\u0103ul. \/ Nu putem fi nesim\u0163ite \/ Nu ne cobor\u00e2m \/ Trebuie s\u0103 fim imune \/ Nu trebuie s\u0103 ne afecteze”.<\/p>\n
Ce au prietenele mele \u00een comun?<\/p>\n
Toate, dac\u0103 le dai cep adev\u0103ratelor sentimente re\u0163inute din bun\u0103-cre\u015ftere, spumeg\u0103 ca ni\u015fte \u015fampanii c\u0103rora le-a s\u0103rit dopul.
\n\u015ei, egoist fiind spus, descarc\u0103 asupra ta bagajul emo\u0163ional st\u00e2rnit de interac\u0163iunea nepl\u0103cut\u0103 cu boul sau vaca de X.<\/p>\n
Aparent, sunt fete calme. \u00cen esen\u0163\u0103, sunt m\u0103cinate de furii neexprimate la timp.<\/p>\n
De aceea m\u0103 enerveaz\u0103 nespus lozinca: “Trebuie s\u0103 ignori”. P\u0103i dac\u0103 ai ignorat, de ce vii s\u0103 mi te vaie\u0163i mie? Sau, de fapt, n-ai ignorat? Dac\u0103 te \u0163ine cu adev\u0103rat s\u0103 ignori, ignor\u0103 complet.<\/p>\n
Sau dac\u0103 nu po\u0163i s\u0103 nu ignori complet, ermetic, plan\u015f\u0103, zid, nu te face c\u0103.<\/p>\n
Eu, dac\u0103 te ui\u0163i la mailul meu, mesageria mea, wallul meu de facebook, blogul meu, zici c\u0103-s cea mai distrus\u0103 nervos fiin\u0163\u0103 din univers. Apoi lumea m\u0103 vede pe viu \u015fi vede un om calm, z\u00e2mbitor, care nu are nici un fel de bagaj de desc\u0103rcat \u015fi care te \u0163ine \u00een glume p\u00e2n\u0103 seara. \u015ei nu \u00een\u0163elege.<\/p>\n
“P\u0103i pari altfel \u00een scris”.<\/p>\n
Par altfel, pentru c\u0103 aleg s\u0103 m\u0103 afecteze. Aleg s\u0103 nu ignor. Aleg s\u0103 fiu nesim\u0163it\u0103. Aleg s\u0103 m\u0103 cobor. ALEG S\u0102 RIPOSTEZ. ALEG S\u0102 M\u0102 ELIBEREZ. ALEG S\u0102 TR\u0102IESC PL\u0102CEREA DE A VEDEA UN VIERME CARE M-A AGRESAT TR\u0102IND EL \u00ceNSU\u015eI EXPERIEN\u0162A AGRESIUNII, LA CARE \u00ceNCERCASE S\u0102 M\u0102 SUPUN\u0102 PE MINE.”<\/p>\n
Cred c\u0103 a mima c\u0103 ignori r\u0103ul e cel mai r\u0103u lucru pe care \u0163i-l po\u0163i face tu \u0163ie. Cred c\u0103 a te min\u0163i c\u0103 e\u015fti ok cu un lucru cu care de fapt nu e\u015fti ok e ca \u015fi cum \u0163i-ai m\u0103cina propria identitate. Cred c\u0103 imunitatea nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 un organism care trece inert pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 un virus, ci un organism care respinge violent acel virus \u015fi se elibereaz\u0103 de toate efectele lui.<\/p>\n
E bine s\u0103 urli c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0163i vine s\u0103 urli. E bine s\u0103 bagi pule \u00een g\u00e2\u0163i c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0163i vine s\u0103 bagi pule \u00een g\u00e2\u0163i. \u015ei nu \u00een g\u00e2\u0163i nevinova\u0163i, care nu \u0163i-au gre\u015fit cu nimic, ci exact \u00een g\u00e2\u0163ii care \u0163i-au st\u00e2rnit starea de furie.
\nN-ai de ce s\u0103 \u00eenmagazinezi. Elibereaz\u0103. Pulverizeaz\u0103-l pe r\u0103uvoitor cu propria lui for\u0163\u0103 negativ\u0103. Nu c\u0103ra bagajul lui cu tine, c\u0103 nu l-ai adus cu tine de acas\u0103.<\/p>\n
F\u0103-l s\u0103 dea \u00eenapoi. F\u0103-l s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 c\u0103 nu \u015fi-a g\u0103sit un obiect de manevr\u0103 \u00een tine. F\u0103-l s\u0103-\u015fi ling\u0103 el r\u0103nile, nu \u0163i le linge tu.<\/p>\n
\u015ei un comentariu cu care sunt perfect de acord:<\/p>\n
Ratacind pe net: Am c\u00e2teva prietene bine-crescute. Doamne \u015fi domni\u015foare finu\u0163e, educate corespunz\u0103tor, care nu riposteaz\u0103 niciodat\u0103 la nimic. “Trebuie s\u0103 ignor\u0103m r\u0103ul. \/ Nu putem fi...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8708","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8708","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8708"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8708\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8708"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8708"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8708"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nLaselor! Pentru voi mai exista expresia enablers.
\nDaca taci si te faci ca ignori, badaranii vor crede ca le merge, ca e normal comportamentul lor.
\nDaca va e frica sa ripostati, macar nu va ascundeti sub masca \u201ctrebuie sa ignoram raul\u201d. Hai, in caz ca nu v-ati prins, ma repet: raul ignorat nu dispare ci, dimpotriva, creste, pe principiul \u201cmerge asa, nu-mi zice nimeni nimic, prin urmare pot sa continui\u201d
\nPoti sa raspunzi pe un ton civilizat, dar raspicat, pentru ca jigodiile sa inteleaga ca nu esti de acord cu astfel de mizerii.
\nSi nu aveti nici o scuza ca va varsati nervii pe oameni cu bun simt, care v-au aratat curtoazia sa va asculte si sa se poarte frumos cu voi.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"