\u00centotdeauna am avut o reputa\u0163ie de fat\u0103 discret\u0103 cu lac\u0103t pe buze. Nu, nu m\u0103 invidia\u0163i.<\/p>\n
Partea bun\u0103 e c\u0103 o mul\u0163ime de oameni aleg s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 secretele lor, \u015fi a\u015fa aflu lucruri despre al\u0163i oameni, iar asta m\u0103 face s\u0103 \u015ftiu dedesubturi \u015fi s\u0103 realizez de ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 chestii care, altminteri, par generate de for\u0163e oculte.<\/p>\n
Partea proast\u0103 e c\u0103 o mul\u0163ime de oameni aleg s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 secretele lor, \u015fi a\u015fa devin martorul neputincios ale unor chestii care m\u0103 enerveaz\u0103 peste m\u0103sur\u0103.<\/p>\n
\u015ei iat\u0103 de ce.<\/p>\n
Eu sunt genul de om care rezolv\u0103 probleme. Se stric\u0103 un bec \u00een cas\u0103? \u00cel \u00eenlocuiesc. Simt o durere nepl\u0103cut\u0103 pe st\u00e2nga? M\u0103 duc la doctor. Nu mai merge amoarea ca la \u00eenceput? Vedem ce putem face \u015fi dac\u0103 nu putem face nimic, lu\u0103m pauz\u0103 de publicitate. Pe scurt, nu stau s\u0103 transform o problem\u0103 \u00een companioana vie\u0163ii mele, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd moartea ne va desp\u0103r\u0163i.<\/p>\n
\u015ei-mi irosesc o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de timp valoros ascult\u00e2nd cu drag \u015fi empatie problemele prietenilor. De c\u00e2te ori pot, intervin pentru rezolvarea lor. C\u00e2nd nu, ofer minimum o vorb\u0103 bun\u0103 \u015fi eventual un ceai.<\/p>\n
Partea enervant\u0103 \u00eencepe c\u00e2nd omul care se vaiet\u0103 nu face nimic s\u0103 rezolve problema de care se vaiet\u0103. Cu alte cuvinte, se complace porce\u015fte \u00een ea, abuz\u00e2nd la infinit de timpul \u015fi r\u0103bdarea celui dispus s\u0103 \u00eel asculte. Ba, dimpotriv\u0103, de la un punct \u00een colo ai zice c\u0103 pl\u0103cerea maxim\u0103 e pe abuzul de timp \u015fi r\u0103bdare, iar dac\u0103 printr-un miracol i s-ar termina problema curent\u0103, ar g\u0103si repede alta, doar ca s\u0103 aib\u0103 pl\u0103cerea de a seca nervii cuiva.<\/p>\n
Ai doi prieteni \u015fomeri, s\u0103 zicem. Unul merge la interviuri de joburi, \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 chestii, nu i se potrivesc, e\u015fueaz\u0103, \u00eencearc\u0103 iar. Povestea nu devine niciodat\u0103 plictisitoare, pentru c\u0103 vezi \u00een mod clar eforturi concrete, insistente, ferme, de a face ceva. Cel\u0103lalt o \u0163ine una-ntruna cu pia\u0163a de c\u0103cat \u015fi bagpula\u00eenrom\u00e2nia asta \u015fi soro nimeni nu m\u0103 merit\u0103 \u015fi d\u0103-i dreacu de ho\u0163i. Iar \u015fi iar \u015fi iar \u015fi iar.<\/p>\n
De ce s\u0103-mi m\u0103n\u00e2nci scurtul timp al fiin\u0163\u0103rii pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt s\u0103-mi poveste\u015fti exact ce mi-ai povestit ieri, c\u00e2nd sunt at\u00e2tea c\u0103r\u0163i minunate pe care nu le-am citit \u015fi at\u00e2tea filme pe care nu le-am v\u0103zut?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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