{"id":8811,"date":"2015-01-05T13:52:01","date_gmt":"2015-01-05T13:52:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/?p=8811"},"modified":"2015-01-05T13:52:01","modified_gmt":"2015-01-05T13:52:01","slug":"gimme-gimme-gimme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/gimme-gimme-gimme\/","title":{"rendered":"Gimme Gimme Gimme"},"content":{"rendered":"

Am f\u0103cut acum ni\u015fte ani un reportaj de ghetouri \u015fi aventur\u0103 numit Down and Out in Bucharest<\/a>. Cu homle\u015fi. Tr\u0103itori de azi pe m\u00e2ine. Ocazional infractori, dac\u0103 nu puteau lua o p\u00e2ine din ce ob\u0163ineau non-violent.
\nM-am plimbat cu ei, i-am ascultat cu aten\u0163ie \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 prejudec\u0103\u0163i pove\u015ftile, i-am tratat ca pe orice parteneri de dialog din interviu \/ reportaj \/ feature pe care l-am f\u0103cut. Ce m-a frapat \u00een tot ce mi-au povestit n-au fost atrocit\u0103\u0163ile \u00eendurate, cele comise sau cele la care au fost martori. Ci un anume mod de a g\u00e2ndi, comun \u00eentregii g\u0103\u015fti \u015fi celor ca ei.<\/p>\n

Tot ce-i interesa pe oamenii \u0103\u015ftia era “ce ni se d\u0103”. Cutare e un om bun, pentru c\u0103 d\u0103 \u015fpag\u0103 mare c\u00e2nd facem pe parcangiii. Popa nu \u015ftiu care e om bun pentru c\u0103 “ne d\u0103” m\u00e2ncare de dou\u0103 ori pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103. Nu \u015ftiu care era bun pentru c\u0103 “ne d\u0103” nu mai \u015ftiu ce.<\/p>\n

Era fascinant cum pentru oamenii \u0103\u015ftia era firesc s\u0103 primeasc\u0103. Constant, mereu, f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eencetare. S\u0103 primeasc\u0103 \u015fi at\u00e2t. Eu eram un furnizor de aten\u0163ie \u015fi de promovare. Important e c\u0103 d\u0103deam ceva ce le trebuia. De aceea m\u0103 tolerau.<\/p>\n

Nu ar\u0103tau nici cea mai vag\u0103 inten\u0163ie de a returna ceva, cuiva. Nu con\u015ftientizau c\u0103 ar avea vreo obliga\u0163ie fa\u0163\u0103 de societatea care \u00eei \u00eentre\u0163inuse \u00een orfelinate \u015fi \u00eei asistase social. Nu, datul nu era un privilegiu. Era o datorie a celor din jur. Cei care se sustr\u0103geau erau ni\u015fte javre.<\/p>\n

S\u0103 zicem c\u0103 pot \u00een\u0163elege asta \u00een cazul unor oameni care nu fuseser\u0103 educa\u0163i s\u0103 produc\u0103 \u015fi func\u0163ionau pe baza ideii “Sunt s\u0103rac \u015fi e datoria ta, societate, s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentre\u0163ii”.<\/p>\n

Dar v\u0103d mul\u0163i oameni integra\u0163i social, educa\u0163i, unii cu studii superioare, care func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 exact pe acela\u015fi sistem. Mentalitatea de etern receptor. De etern receptacul. Treptat, devine o obliga\u0163ie s\u0103 dai, s\u0103 tot dai, s\u0103 livrezi, s\u0103 fii la dispozi\u0163ia lor. Perpetuu. Iar dac\u0103 intri \u00een hora asta, aceea a eternului furnizor moca, ajunge s\u0103 nu-\u0163i execu\u0163i o singur\u0103 dat\u0103 obliga\u0163iile imaginare \u015fi devii debitor lipsit de credibilitate.
\nAbia asta m\u0103 sperie.<\/p>\n

Ce frumos ar fi dac\u0103 fiecare dintre noi, \u00eenainte s\u0103 se apuce s\u0103 frece la cap persoane de care nu-s legate contractual – da, c\u00e2nd avem un contract, e firesc s\u0103 \u0163inem cont de termeni \u015fi condi\u0163ii, c\u0103 de aia e contract – s\u0103 ia zece minute. S\u0103 respire ad\u00e2nc. \u015ei s\u0103 se \u00eentrebe sincer din str\u0103fundul inimii:<\/p>\n

“\u00cemi datoreaz\u0103 cineva ceva?”<\/p>\n

“\u015ei dac\u0103 mi-a datorat la un moment dat, nu cumva s-a achitat cu v\u00e2rf \u015fi \u00eendesat?”<\/p>\n

“Poate datorez eu mult mai mult acelui cineva dec\u00e2t \u00eemi datoreaz\u0103 el mie?”<\/p>\n

\u015ei, subit, raporturile dintre oameni ar fi ceva mai echilibrate.
\nZic \u015fi eu, nu dau cu ranga.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Am f\u0103cut acum ni\u015fte ani un reportaj de ghetouri \u015fi aventur\u0103 numit Down and Out in Bucharest. Cu homle\u015fi. Tr\u0103itori de azi pe m\u00e2ine....<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8811","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8811","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8811"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8811\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8811"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8811"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8811"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}