De ceva vreme, autoarea Otilia \u0162ig\u0103na\u015f m\u0103 tot \u00eembolde\u015fte s\u0103 ne cert\u0103m \u015fi noi pe facebook, s\u0103 se uite lumea \u00een gura noastr\u0103 ca la dentist, s\u0103 ron\u0163\u0103ie popcorn \u015fi s\u0103 ne sim\u0163im eroine. Iar eu \u00eei tot zic c\u0103 nu pot mima c\u0103 m\u0103 cert. Sau m\u0103 cert, sau nu m\u0103 cert. Nu exist\u0103 cale de mijloc.<\/p>\n
Bun, \u015fi azi, dup\u0103 ce a renun\u0163at la ideea de a se certa cu mine mimat, Otilia a dat un status cu care s\u0103 m\u0103 pot certa. Un status care \u00eenvinuie\u015fte femeia modern\u0103 de faptul c\u0103 e modern\u0103, \u015fi c\u0103 nu-i permite b\u0103rbatului s\u0103 se simt\u0103 b\u0103rbat, de aceea nu poate el s-o fac\u0103 s\u0103 se simt\u0103 femeie.<\/p>\n
Drag\u0103 Otilie, istoric \u015fi isteric vorbind, femeia c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t r\u0103s\u0103rit\u0103 \u015fi-a dorit din cele mai vechi timpuri s\u0103 fie modern\u0103. A\u015fa ajuns s\u0103 lupte s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la \u015fcoal\u0103, s\u0103 ajung\u0103 directoare, s\u0103 aib\u0103 drept de vot \u015fi s\u0103 poarte pantaloni. \u015ei multe alte pl\u0103ceri, dintre care cea mai intens\u0103 e tocmai asta:<\/p>\n
S\u0102 NU FIE SILIT\u0102 DE SOCIETATE S\u0102 SE SIMT\u0102 FEMEIE CONTRAR VOIN\u0162EI EI.<\/p>\n
Dup\u0103 cum bine \u015ftie orice femeie care a experimentat minimum o dat\u0103 o interac\u0163iune vie cu un b\u0103rbat, nu exist\u0103 eforturi pe care un b\u0103rbat s\u0103 le poat\u0103 depune \u00een a\u015fa fel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 te sim\u0163i mai femeie sau mai pu\u0163in femeie. Unii te fac s\u0103 te sim\u0163i femeie dintr-o simpl\u0103 privire. Al\u0163ii pot s\u0103 stea \u015fi-n cap \u015fi-n fund, s\u0103 etaleze c\u00e2t\u0103 musculatur\u0103 vor \u015fi tot nu-\u0163i umezesc f\u00e2nt\u00e2ni\u0163a dorului. Pentru c\u0103 nu e nimic acolo.<\/p>\n
\u015ei oric\u00e2t ai fi de modern\u0103, emancipat\u0103, libertin\u0103, coioas\u0103, puloas\u0103, self-made, self-taught, self-achieved \u015fi alte selfuri, \u015ftii s\u0103 fii instinctiv femeie cu un b\u0103rbat care \u00ee\u0163i inspir\u0103 asta. E \u00een aer. \u015ei b\u0103rbatul care \u00ee\u0163i inspir\u0103 asta \u015ftie c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i inspir\u0103 asta, de aceea nu face pe disperatul, nu se d\u0103 cu fundul de p\u0103m\u00e2nt, nu devine agresiv \u015fi nu simte c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 faci tu trei pa\u015fi \u00een spate s\u0103 se vad\u0103 el mai \u00eenalt \u015fi mai luminos. Cel care \u00ee\u0163i cere asta o face pentru c\u0103 \u015ftie c\u0103 nu te poate face natural s\u0103 te sim\u0163i femeie \u015fi atunci \u00eencearc\u0103 \u015fi el prin mijloace complementare.<\/p>\n
Pe scurt, un b\u0103rbat care e destinat s\u0103 te fac\u0103 pe tine personal s\u0103 te sim\u0163i femeie are cum. \u015ei nu, solu\u0163ia nu e s\u0103 ba\u0163i tu \u00een retragere. Solu\u0163ia e o form\u0103 de comuniune care vine de la sine atunci c\u00e2nd e cazul.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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