Feminitatea nu e pi\u0163ig\u0103ial\u0103. Nu e totuna cu vocea sub\u0163iat\u0103 fals, cu ifosele studiate, cu romantismul de parad\u0103, cu g\u00e2ndurile truiste \u015fi cli\u015feice despre frumuse\u0163ea apusului de soare, v\u00e2nticelul ce adie prim\u0103v\u0103ratic \u015fi b\u0103\u015fini trandafirii cu iriza\u0163ii. Feminitatea nu e efortul exagerat \u015fi agasant de a mima o delicate\u0163e de suprafa\u0163\u0103 \u015fi o sensibilo\u015fenie care acoper\u0103, de cele mai multe ori, fuga de responsabilitate.<\/p>\n
Feminitatea nu e pi\u0163iponceal\u0103. Nu e totuna cu tocuri \u00eenalte, colec\u0163ie de farduri \u015fi rujuri, diet\u0103 etern\u0103 de sl\u0103bire, bulimie, anorexie, \u0163oale de dantel\u0103 imposibil de purtat iarna, acid hialuronic, coenzima Q-10, botox, silicon. Nu e fa\u0163ad\u0103. Nu e nevoia de a epata cu gene lungi de-\u015fi pun t\u0103tarii corturile la umbra lor \u015fi nici cu buze dezechilibrat de mari comparativ cu restul fe\u0163ei.<\/p>\n
Feminitatea nu e obedien\u0163\u0103. Nu e obligativitatea de a fi o “finu\u0163\u0103” (\u00een traducere liber\u0103, o diplomat\u0103 negociind supus un armisti\u0163iu dezechilibrat) cu orice imbecil sinistru, prost ca noaptea, care mimeaz\u0103 superioritatea f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 se bazeze pe nimic concret. Nu e acceptarea supus\u0103 a oric\u0103rui abuz, verbal sau fizic, din partea oric\u0103rui jeg uman care se nimere\u015fte pe acolo. Nu e acceptarea supus\u0103 a oric\u0103ror idei despre via\u0163a ta, emise de oameni care nu dovedesc cu nimic c\u0103 ar \u015fti m\u0103car s-o tr\u0103iasc\u0103 pe a lor.<\/p>\n
Feminitatea nu e renun\u0163are la sine. Nu e despre a-\u0163i abandona proiectele, visele \u015fi prietenii pentru c\u0103 vrea un bou oarecare, care m\u00e2ine te va p\u0103r\u0103si pentru alta independent\u0103 \u015fi sigur\u0103 de ea. Nu e renun\u0163area la a fi ce vrei tu, pentru a fi ce vrea m\u0103-ta, tac-tu, puletele sau orice altcineva. Am auzit ieri \u00een metrou o discu\u0163ie \u00eentre dou\u0103 fete: “Dai la actorie?” “Dac\u0103 zice Gabi s\u0103 dau, dau”. Nu e despre a face chestii doar cu acordul lui Gabi, Ionel \u015fi Costel. Nu e despre a fi mereu pe ultimul loc \u00een propria ta via\u0163\u0103.<\/p>\n
Feminitatea nu e sl\u0103biciune. Feminitatea nu e nevoia de a cer\u015fi aprobare. Feminitatea nu e la\u015fitate.<\/p>\n
Nu m\u0103 mai \u00eemb\u00e2csi\u0163i cu ideile voastre retardate despre feminitate.<\/p>\n
E\u015fti femeie? Define\u015fte-\u0163i propria versiune de feminitate. Una \u00een care s\u0103 te sim\u0163i liber\u0103 \u015fi \u00een confort cu tine. La mul\u0163i ani de 8 martie!<\/p>\n
Foto: Andrei Groso\u015fiu. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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