{"id":9093,"date":"2015-03-18T18:00:50","date_gmt":"2015-03-18T18:00:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=9093"},"modified":"2015-03-18T22:17:45","modified_gmt":"2015-03-18T22:17:45","slug":"in-sfarsit-un-semn-de-sanatate-mintala","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/in-sfarsit-un-semn-de-sanatate-mintala\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00cen sf\u00e2r\u015fit, un semn de s\u0103n\u0103tate mintal\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>M-am bucurat nespus s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na trecut\u0103, c\u00e2nd o \u0163ar\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103 s-a coalizat \u00een a da peste nas unei prezentatoare de televiziune.<\/p>\n<p>Nu, nu pentru v\u00e2rst\u0103. Nimeni nu i-a repro\u015fat v\u00e2rsta luat\u0103 de una singur\u0103. Nimeni n-a zis: uite, b\u0103, una trecut\u0103 de 40 \u015fi-a uitat marama acas\u0103. Cei care au \u00eencercat s\u0103 pun\u0103 problema a\u015fa voiau s\u0103 aduc\u0103 discu\u0163ia, \u00een mod fake, pe un teren care s\u0103 le convin\u0103 lor, \u015fi totodat\u0103, un teren u\u015for de atacat.<\/p>\n<p>Semnul de s\u0103n\u0103tate mintal\u0103 a fost dat de coalizarea a sute de mii de rom\u00e2ni \u00een ap\u0103rarea unui copil NORMAL CA \u00ceNF\u0102\u0162I\u015eARE.<\/p>\n<p>De c\u00e2nd pia\u0163a a fost invadat\u0103 de pilule de sl\u0103bit minune la 1000 de dolari flaconul, cosmetice minune la 1,000 lei bucata, aparate de sl\u0103bit minune la mii de euro, \u015fi pe deasupra Photoshop, a ap\u0103rut aceast\u0103 tiranie aberant\u0103 a frumuse\u0163ii conven\u0163ionale care trebuie neap\u0103rat s\u0103 fie trestioar\u0103, Barbie, toat\u0103 numai piele \u015fi os. Dar dac\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor conforma\u0163ia fizic\u0103 e cu oase mai late, cu bazin larg, cu \u015folduri, cu cavitate toracic\u0103 mai mare?<br \/>\nNu conteaz\u0103, tu trebuie s\u0103 fii trestioar\u0103. Toat\u0103 lumea la fel, ca Armata Poporului. Comunismul m\u0103surii S.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei rezultatele le \u015ftie toat\u0103 lumea. Anorexie, bulimie, tulbur\u0103ri fizice, tulbur\u0103ri mintale. Oameni care fl\u0103m\u00e2nzesc p\u00e2n\u0103 cad pe jos, oameni care ajung la grave caren\u0163e alimentare, oameni c\u0103rora le cade p\u0103rul \u015fi li se cariaz\u0103 din\u0163ii pentru c\u0103 organismul lor nu face fa\u0163\u0103 lipsirii constante de substan\u0163ele de care are nevoie.<\/p>\n<p>Iar atitudinea &#8220;dac\u0103 e\u015fti gras\u0103, nu te ia nimeni&#8221; e de o m\u00e2rl\u0103nie incalificabil\u0103. S\u0103 subordonezi s\u0103n\u0103tatea \u015fi, \u00een cele din urm\u0103, via\u0163a unei persoane, pl\u0103cerilor \u015fi toanelor alteia e nici mai mult, nici mai pu\u0163in dec\u00e2t o form\u0103 de sclavie. O femeie e mai mult dec\u00e2t suma penisurilor care se ridic\u0103 d\u00e2rz \u00een zare, \u00een urma ei. O femeie are o via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi dincolo de aptitudinea ei de a atrage masculi sau nu. O femeie gras\u0103 e om, exact ca tine \u015fi ca mine, \u015fi e decizia ei ce vrea s\u0103 fac\u0103 cu corpul ei. O femeie gras\u0103 nu are de dat explica\u0163ii nim\u0103nui, legat de num\u0103rul ei de kilograme; cel mult partenerului, dac\u0103 \u0103la o consider\u0103 strict o cantitate fizic\u0103, ca pe o marf\u0103, \u015fi \u00eencepe s\u0103 urle c\u00e2nd marfa se altereaz\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Da, Lorena, dar vorbim de un performer&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Un performer gras poate fi comic p\u00e2n\u0103 la lacrimi (vezi Melissa McCarthy) \u015fi talentat p\u00e2n\u0103 la Dumnezeu (vezi Montserrat Caballe). A\u0163i v\u0103zut vreodat\u0103 dansatoare oriental\u0103 de tip piele \u015fi os? Eu nu. Chiar \u015fi \u00een cazul fotomodelelor, exist\u0103 modele plus-sized, care prezint\u0103 moda pentru forme mai ample.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru c\u0103, fie c\u0103 ne convine, fie c\u0103 nu, suntem diferi\u0163i fizic. \u015ei oamenii rubiconzi trebuie s\u0103 se \u00eembrace, exact ca scobitorile.<\/p>\n<p>Concluzia: At\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t num\u0103rul de kilograme nu afecteaz\u0103 calitatea presta\u0163iei scenice, nimeni nu are dreptul s\u0103 latre a prost.<\/p>\n<p>De aceea zic: m\u0103 bucur nespus, popor rom\u00e2n, pentru pozi\u0163ia pe care ai luat-o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na trecut\u0103. E reconfortant c\u0103 nu te-ai aliniat blam\u0103rii unui copil \u00een formare.<\/p>\n<p>Hai s\u0103 privim lucrurile obiectiv. O \u00eempiedic\u0103 pe tipa asta num\u0103rul de kilograme s\u0103 se mi\u015fte ca o zei\u0163\u0103?<\/p>\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/qkBG42i4BV8?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M-am bucurat nespus s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na trecut\u0103, c\u00e2nd o \u0163ar\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103 s-a coalizat \u00een a da peste nas unei prezentatoare de televiziune. Nu, nu pentru v\u00e2rst\u0103.&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9094,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9093","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/BCP64_c_14_CU1.jpg?fit=625%2C650&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9093","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9093"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9093\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9129,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9093\/revisions\/9129"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9094"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9093"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9093"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9093"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}