{"id":9473,"date":"2015-05-27T11:07:14","date_gmt":"2015-05-27T11:07:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=9473"},"modified":"2015-05-27T11:07:14","modified_gmt":"2015-05-27T11:07:14","slug":"o-forma-de-scuze","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/o-forma-de-scuze\/","title":{"rendered":"O form\u0103 de scuze"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Drag\u0103 Internet,<\/p>\n<p>\u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 ai ales s\u0103 te sim\u0163i profund ofensat de un cuv\u00e2nt rom\u00e2nesc absolut normal \u015fi de uz larg. &#8220;Bab\u0103&#8221;. At\u00e2t de ofensat \u00eenc\u00e2t mi-ai urat s\u0103 mor, m-ai amenin\u0163at c\u0103 o s\u0103 mor, mi-ai propus acte sexuale orale, normale \u015fi anale, ai propus altora s\u0103 m\u0103 &#8220;trimit\u0103&#8221; la acte sexuale, orale \u015fi anale, mi-ai urat s\u0103 fac cancer, AIDS \u015fi sifilis \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eennebunesc, ca s\u0103 citez doar hardcore stuff.<\/p>\n<p>Drag\u0103 Internet,<\/p>\n<p>Am folosit termenul bab\u0103 pentru c\u0103 eu m\u0103 simt perfect confortabil cu ideea c\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi voi \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ni. Pentru c\u0103 am suficiente talente care pot fi folosite la orice v\u00e2rst\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 \u00eenaintarea \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u00eemi va face un serviciu major: vor \u00eenceta oamenii s\u0103 m\u0103 priveasc\u0103 ca pe o prad\u0103 sexual\u0103, care trebuie &#8220;provocat\u0103&#8221; \u015fi &#8220;cucerit\u0103&#8221;, \u015fi m\u0103 vor privi ca pe o fiin\u0163\u0103 uman\u0103. Pentru mine, b\u0103bismul va fi un avantaj.<\/p>\n<p>Am \u015fi scris pe tema asta. <a href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=9400%20\">Iat\u0103<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Nu \u00eemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 am folosit termenul &#8220;bab\u0103&#8221;, \u00eemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 \u0163i-am st\u00e2rnit toate fricile abisale legate de uzura fizic\u0103 \u015fi moral\u0103, \u015fi c\u0103, probabil, asta te-a determinat la un astfel de tratament.<\/p>\n<p>Drag\u0103 Internet,<\/p>\n<p>Chiar dac\u0103 eu am p\u0103c\u0103tuit grav &#8211; \u00een viziunea ta &#8211; folosind termenul &#8220;bab\u0103&#8221;, po\u0163i s\u0103 dormi lini\u015ftit c\u0103 ultimele patru zile de presiune psihic\u0103, prin mesaje, mailuri, post\u0103ri publice \u015fi denigr\u0103ri rupte de context m-au pedepsit peste limita toleran\u0163ei.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen plus, drag\u0103 Internet,<\/p>\n<p>Tu, care predicai empatia, erai ciudat de lipsit de empatie \u00een mirarea ta: &#8220;de ce r\u0103spunde fata asta violent la agresiune verbal\u0103?&#8221; \u015etiu, e mai u\u015for s\u0103 predici empatia dec\u00e2t s-o sim\u0163i real. \u015ei m\u0103 \u00eentreb, drag\u0103 Internet, dac\u0103 empatia pe care o sim\u0163i doar c\u00e2nd sugereaz\u0103 al\u0163ii c\u0103 ar fi cazul s\u0103 fii empatic te face s\u0103 dormi bine la noapte. Probabil c\u0103 da.<\/p>\n<p>A\u015fadar, drag\u0103 Internet,<\/p>\n<p>iart\u0103-mi termenul &#8220;bab\u0103&#8221;. Crezi c\u0103 po\u0163i face asta? Sau r\u0103m\u00e2nem du\u015fmani pentru eternitate, pentru c\u0103 e mai simplu?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Drag\u0103 Internet, \u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 ai ales s\u0103 te sim\u0163i profund ofensat de un cuv\u00e2nt rom\u00e2nesc absolut normal \u015fi de uz larg. &#8220;Bab\u0103&#8221;.&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9000,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9473","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/The-Usual.jpg?fit=1600%2C900&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9473","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9473"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9473\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9474,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9473\/revisions\/9474"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9000"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9473"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9473"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9473"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}