Stimat\u0103 madam Burada, <\/p>\n
Ur\u0103sc ideea de scrisoare deschis\u0103, dar nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i scriu una \u00eenchis\u0103, c\u0103 prev\u0103d c\u0103 o muiere care \u00ee\u015fi neag\u0103 at\u00e2t de vehement vinov\u0103\u0163ia plodului, \u00eenc\u00e2t e \u00een stare s\u0103 fac\u0103 un grup de Facebook \u00eempotriva unei adolescente traumatizate nu mi-ar r\u0103spunde dec\u00e2t cu onomatopee incoerente. <\/p>\n
Drag\u0103 madam Burada, \u00een mintea ta e\u015fti o mam\u0103 bun\u0103, care-\u015fi ap\u0103r\u0103 cu orice pre\u0163 un cheag de celule gre\u015fit asamblate pe care le-a sc\u0103pat \u00eentr-o zi pe pizd\u0103. Noi, vocea realit\u0103\u0163ii, \u00ee\u0163i spunem c\u0103 e\u015fti cel mai prost p\u0103rinte din lume. <\/p>\n
Pentru cine nu \u015ftie povestea, probabil pentru c\u0103 a locuit pe o insul\u0103 pustie \u00een ultima lun\u0103, ni\u015fte vasluieni – acest jude\u0163 minunat unde crima e virtute \u015fi invers – \u015fapte la num\u0103r, au violat \u00een mod repetat o feti\u0163\u0103, una cuminte, de zece, pe care unul dintre ei, cunoscut din \u015fcoal\u0103, a min\u0163it-o c\u0103 o duce acas\u0103 cu ma\u015fina. \u00cent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor, cei \u015fapte erau to\u0163i copii de oameni cu bani. Pentru c\u0103 banul are acest efect secundar periculos: \u00ee\u0163i d\u0103 iluzia c\u0103 po\u0163i face orice, oricui, \u015fi s\u0103 scapi de consecin\u0163e. <\/p>\n
\u00cen loc s\u0103 se prezinte cu scuze \u015fi cenu\u015f\u0103-n cap la u\u015fa p\u0103rin\u0163ilor fetei \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi bat\u0103 infractorul juvenil p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eei intra \u00een cap ideea de consim\u0163\u0103m\u00e2nt, una dintre curvele b\u0103tr\u00e2ne care i-au plodit pe ciuma\u0163i a decis: “Vom demonstra c\u0103 fata e o curv\u0103, \u015fi prin urmare, \u015fi-a cerut-o.” \u015ei a f\u0103cut un grup de intimid\u0103ri \u015fi denigrare pe Facebook. <\/p>\n
De ce afirm c\u0103 e curv\u0103 b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103? Pentru c\u0103 reac\u0163ia natural\u0103 a unei femei demne, c\u00e2nd aude de un viol, e aceea de empatie cu victima. Numai una care a \u00eenghi\u0163it camioane de sloboz pe bani sau alte foloase materiale dezvolt\u0103 acea nep\u0103sare cinic\u0103 fa\u0163\u0103 de actul sexual impus \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 treac\u0103 la denigrarea unei copile nevinovate. <\/p>\n
A\u015fadar, stimat\u0103 curv\u0103 b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103, <\/p>\n
\u00cen copil\u0103rie – copil\u0103rie n\u0103p\u0103stuit\u0103, cu multe lipsuri – am cunoscut genul t\u0103u de mame, cu genul de plozi de bani gata pe care genul t\u0103u de mame \u00eei ap\u0103ra cu gheare \u015fi din\u0163i. Am \u00eencasat pedepse de nenum\u0103rate ori \u00een numele genului de plozi de bani gata, ca acela pe care l-ai f\u0103tat tu, \u015fi am avut de a face de nenum\u0103rate ori cu genul t\u0103u de otreap\u0103 muist\u0103 care venea, \u00een calitatea ei de adult, s\u0103 fac\u0103 gur\u0103 \u00eempotriva mea, un copil. <\/p>\n
Ca idee: nu vi se pare de o meschin\u0103rie rar\u0103 un adult care se coboar\u0103 s\u0103 striveasc\u0103 un copil? E ca \u015fi cum eu \u015fi tu ne-am cobor\u00ee s\u0103 te demonstr\u0103m for\u0163a masacr\u00e2nd pui de pisic\u0103. Cineva care vrea s\u0103 arate c\u0103 are coaie ar trebui s\u0103 se ia de persoane de aceea\u015fi v\u00e2rst\u0103 sau de acela\u015fi statut. Nu de fiin\u0163e fragile \u015fi u\u015for de strivit. <\/p>\n
Revenind, stimat\u0103 curv\u0103 b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103, <\/p>\n
N-am avut parte de genul t\u0103u de ap\u0103rare \u00een copil\u0103rie, ba dimpotriv\u0103. Pentru mama, eu eram vinovat\u0103 din start, f\u0103r\u0103 ca m\u0103car s\u0103 verifice cum st\u0103teau lucrurile, ori de c\u00e2te ori cineva m\u0103 acuza de ceva. Lucru care a rezultat totu\u015fi \u00een ceva bun: \u015eTIU S\u0102 ASUM O GRE\u015eEAL\u0102, ATUNCI C\u00c2ND EXIST\u0102. <\/p>\n
Ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat cu pulifricii de bani gata, pe care veneau mamele ca tine s\u0103-i scoat\u0103 nevinova\u0163i? To\u0163i sunt ni\u015fte be\u0163ivi rata\u0163i, f\u0103r\u0103 perspective, f\u0103r\u0103 speran\u0163e, f\u0103r\u0103 viitor, ni\u015fte rebuturi umane care, dac\u0103 ar muri m\u00e2ine, nu i-ar pl\u00e2nge nimeni. <\/p>\n
Pentru c\u0103, stimat\u0103 curv\u0103 b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103, banii pot disp\u0103rea peste noapte. Chiar pot. Un accident neprev\u0103zut, o firm\u0103 nou\u0103, mai tare dec\u00e2t a ta, un mafiot nou, mai cu testicule dec\u00e2t b\u0103rbatu-tu, o tehnic\u0103 de supt pula nou\u0103, mai performant\u0103 dec\u00e2t a ta, \u015fi fluxul de bani o ia \u00een alt\u0103 direc\u0163ie. <\/p>\n
\u015ei unicul mod de a face fa\u0163\u0103 greut\u0103\u0163ilor vie\u0163ii, stimat\u0103 curv\u0103 b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103, se nume\u015fte <\/p>\n
CARACTER. <\/p>\n
Altfel, nici nu trebuie s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eenjur\u0103m noi, v\u0103 va \u00eenjura destul destinul. Pentru c\u0103 lucrurile se \u00eentorc, t\u00e2rf\u0103. <\/p>\n
Sper s\u0103-\u0163i dea cineva link la acest mesaj. <\/p>\n
Cu sil\u0103 etern\u0103,
\nUn fost copil persecutat de otrepe sinistre ca tine. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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