Ieri, scrollam eu pe Feed, pe Facebook, c\u00e2nd sub ochi mi-a picat urm\u0103toarea not\u0103: <\/p>\n
Andrei T\u00e5nase
\n14 hrs \u00b7 Bucharest \u00b7
\nNu inteleg si nu cred ca voi putea intelege urmatoarea chestie: cineva iti comenteaza la o poza “esti superba\/minunata\/etc” si tu raspunzi “multumesc!”. Cum? De ce? Vreau sa stiu ce gandesti cand raspunzi asa! Astept…<\/p><\/blockquote>\nPentru c\u0103 uamenii nu pricepuser\u0103 din prima, autorul a explicat. <\/p>\n
acel multumesc devine practic: da stiu ca sunt minunata\/geniala etc… cat de sigur pe tine poti fi? grin emoticon<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
De ce tratez subiectul \u0103sta? <\/p>\n
Pentru c\u0103 specimenul de mascul invidios pe relaxarea \u015fi siguran\u0163a de sine feminin\u0103 mi se pare cel mai penibil cioroi din c\u00e2rd. E cel care te \u00eentreab\u0103 agresiv pe strad\u0103: “Ce, f\u0103, te crezi frumoas\u0103?”, cel care crede c\u0103, dac\u0103-\u0163i las\u0103 un comment cu “e\u015fti ur\u00e2t\u0103, gras\u0103 \u015fi nu te-a\u015f fute” \u00ee\u0163i devasteaz\u0103 universul interior (\u015fi c\u00e2nd \u00eei r\u0103spunzi: “oric\u00e2t a\u015f fi de ur\u00e2t\u0103 \u015fi de gras\u0103, nu e problema pulii tale \u015fi nici nu va fi” rage c\u0103 ai limbaj ne\u0163es\u0103lat).
\nSpecimenul de mascul invidios e \u0103la care nu doar c\u0103 nu \u00ee\u0163i aduce flori, dar mai face \u015fi crize c\u00e2nd le prime\u015fti de la al\u0163ii \u015fi \u00eencepe: “Aaa, \u0103la sigur vrea s\u0103 te fut\u0103” (de parc\u0103 ar fi un lucru r\u0103u. Da, b\u0103, un b\u0103iat politicos vrea s\u0103 m\u0103 fut\u0103. Sun\u0103 a plan armonios de s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103 seara). <\/p>\nSfat pentru b\u0103rba\u0163ii cu tendin\u0163e din acestea ranchiunoase \u015fi invidioase, care au impresia c\u0103 relaxarea unei femei le ia lor direct din boii de la biciclet\u0103: Tendin\u0163ele astea v\u0103 fac r\u0103u. Vou\u0103 ca oameni. V\u0103 \u00eencarc\u0103 de energii na\u015fpa. \u015ei nimeni nu vrea s\u0103 fie prin preajma unui om cu energii na\u015fpa. Mai mult, nici o femeie n-are chef s\u0103 se trezeasc\u0103 diminea\u0163a l\u00e2ng\u0103 o cioar\u0103 ursuz\u0103 care-i spune: Drag\u0103, parc\u0103 \u0163i s-a l\u0103sat curul \u015fi ai \u015fi cearc\u0103ne. Dimpotriv\u0103, ai chef s\u0103 te treze\u015fti diminea\u0163a l\u00e2ng\u0103 o pereche de ochi \u00een care cite\u015fti: “Pentru mine e\u015fti perfect\u0103 a\u015fa cum e\u015fti, pentru c\u0103 te iubesc necondi\u0163ionat”. <\/p>\n
Serios, a fi b\u0103rbat \u00eenseamn\u0103 a fi generos. Nu neap\u0103rat \u015fi nu doar financiar. \u00censeamn\u0103 a fi protector \u015fi puternic. Nu po\u0163i proteja oameni pe care e\u015fti invidios. Mai ales c\u00e2nd invidia are un obiect at\u00e2t de volatil cum ar fi complimentele sau senza\u0163ia de siguran\u0163\u0103 de sine a altora. <\/p>\n
Nu e mare lucru s\u0103-\u0163i comenteze cineva pe Facebook c\u0103 e\u015fti superb\u0103. \u015ei chiar dac\u0103 nu e\u015fti, m\u0103car e un g\u00e2nd pozitiv, un semnal de afec\u0163iune, de tandre\u0163e, sau cel pu\u0163in un semn de pul\u0103 erect\u0103. E pl\u0103cut g\u00e2ndul c\u0103 un alt om se g\u00e2nde\u015fte cu tandre\u0163e – sau cu pul\u0103 erect\u0103, fie! – la tine. \u015ei r\u0103spunsul firesc este: “Mul\u0163umesc”. Nu pentru cele c\u00e2teva vorbe, posibil mincinoase. Pentru g\u00e2nd. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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