{"id":9697,"date":"2015-08-20T10:03:46","date_gmt":"2015-08-20T10:03:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=9697"},"modified":"2015-08-20T16:52:53","modified_gmt":"2015-08-20T16:52:53","slug":"foodformyman-un-interviu-informal-cu-melinda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/foodformyman-un-interviu-informal-cu-melinda\/","title":{"rendered":"#Foodformyman: un interviu informal cu Melinda"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>O \u015ftiu pe Melinda Kutasi, acum Teohari, de 5 ani, de pe coridoarele revistei Playboy. A pozat, cred, \u00een num\u0103rul de februarie 2010 &#8211; sau martie? &#8211; iar eu scriam pentru revista cu pricina. \u0162in minte c\u00e2t de frumoas\u0103 \u015fi inaccesibil\u0103 mi s-a p\u0103rut. \u00cenalt\u0103, zvelt\u0103, cu ochi c\u0103prui-verzi. O zei\u0163\u0103 unguroaic\u0103. <\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11217982_663792533764501_2254956278008470173_n.jpg?resize=700%2C700\" alt=\"11217982_663792533764501_2254956278008470173_n\" width=\"700\" height=\"700\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9704\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11217982_663792533764501_2254956278008470173_n.jpg?w=800&amp;ssl=1 800w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11217982_663792533764501_2254956278008470173_n.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11217982_663792533764501_2254956278008470173_n.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><br \/>\n<em>Foto: Valentin C\u0103linescu.<\/em> <\/p>\n<p>Au trecut cinci ani. Melinda e prieten\u0103 cu mine pe Facebook. S-a m\u0103ritat cu o institu\u0163ie a umorului rom\u00e2nesc- Teo de la Club 99 &#8211; \u015fi m\u0103 asasineaz\u0103 lent cu fotografii criminale, care prezint\u0103 bun\u0103t\u0103\u0163i pozate \u00een cele mai apetisante unghiuri \u015fi taguite &#8211; cum altfel? &#8211; #foodformyman. Ceea ce \u00eemi sus\u0163ine teza: femeile libertine sunt so\u0163iile perfecte. C\u00e2nd au cu cine. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Trollywood: Melinda, eu te \u015ftiu de c\u00e2nd erai coperta revistei la care scriam. Care a fost parcursul t\u0103u spre so\u0163ia perfect\u0103 de azi? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Eeee, so\u021bia perfect\u0103, nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 zic. \u015ei nu m\u0103 alint. \ud83d\ude42 L-am cunoscut pe Teo. Asta a dus la un curs firesc al unei rela\u021bii pe care am \u00eenceput-o sub sloganul &#8220;no bullshit&#8221;. &#8220;No bullshit&#8221; \u00eensemn\u00e2nd nu ne min\u021bim, oricare ar fi rezultatul.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Trollywood: Nu e riscant\u0103 politica &#8220;no bullshit&#8221;?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Ba da, dar deocamdat\u0103 la noi func\u0163ioneaz\u0103. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Trollywood: Presupune o \u00eencredere oarb\u0103 \u00een inteligen\u0163a partenerului.<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Da, mai mult \u00een inteligen\u0163a lui. :)) Nu, glumesc. Am stabilit de la bun \u00eenceput s\u0103 fim sinceri unul cu cel\u0103lalt deoarece am\u00e2ndoi am trecut prin rela\u021bii nu tocmai s\u0103n\u0103toase \u0219i am decis, pentru ca era prea frumos ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpla, s\u0103 nu ne min\u021bim.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11828787_10207707712751212_8738315025886656925_n.jpg?resize=640%2C640\" alt=\"11828787_10207707712751212_8738315025886656925_n\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9705\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11828787_10207707712751212_8738315025886656925_n.jpg?w=640&amp;ssl=1 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11828787_10207707712751212_8738315025886656925_n.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11828787_10207707712751212_8738315025886656925_n.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><br \/>\n<em>Seria #foodformyman <\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong> A fost iubire la prima vedere?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Ne-am cunoscut la club 99, la un show al lui. M\u0103 chemaser\u0103 ni\u015fte prieteni. Am aflat ulterior c\u0103 sunt prieteni comuni.<br \/>\nNu a fost dragoste la prima vedere, c\u0103 nu cred \u00een ea. <\/p>\n<p><strong> Dar ce? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: A fost chimie. Cred. Discu\u021bia a curs pl\u0103cut \u0219i a\u015fa am aflat c\u0103 suntem n\u0103scu\u021bi \u00een aceea\u0219i zi, 11.11. Am\u00e2ndoi scorpioni. <\/p>\n<p> <strong>\u015ei ce au scorpionii particular si comun?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: M\u0103i, nu prea le am cu zodiile, dar se spune c\u0103 sunt pasionali \u0219i devota\u021bi. Astea-s calit\u0103\u0163ile unui scorpion. \u015ei r\u0103zbun\u0103tori pana la autodistrugere. Asta e mai pu\u021bin pl\u0103cut. :))<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u015ei te incredin\u0163ezi cu politica &#8220;no bullshit&#8221; pe un partener r\u0103zbun\u0103tor? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Da, pentru c\u0103 e ca \u015fi cum a\u015f tr\u0103i cu mine \u00een cas\u0103. Automat m\u0103 educ \u0219i \u0219tiu care sunt factorii declan\u0219atori \u00een anumite situa\u021bii. Ca sa \u00een\u021belegi: de 3 ani, de c\u00e2nd suntem \u00eempreun\u0103, nu ne-am certat absolut niciodat\u0103. Probabil c\u0103 3 ani nu sunt mul\u021bi,  dar nu e pu\u0163in lucru s\u0103 nu m\u0103 cert cu mine 3 ani, cu toate ca nu a presupus nici un efort \u00een plus.<br \/>\nE, el e mai temperat, el m\u0103 lini\u0219te\u0219te pe mine. \ud83d\ude42 Eu sunt mai ar\u021b\u0103goas\u0103, \u00eemi sare mu\u015ftarul repede, poate \u0219i pentru c\u0103 sunt maramure\u0219eanc\u0103, nu \u0219tiu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ar\u0163\u0103goas\u0103 \u015fi cu el? Sau cu oamenii \u00een general?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Cu el nu prea, cu oamenii \u00een general, nu am r\u0103bdare prea mult\u0103.<br \/>\nEu am venit dintr-un ora\u0219 mic, unde \u0219tiam pe toat\u0103 lumea. Sunt de 11 ani \u00een Bucure\u0219ti \u0219i tot nu pot s\u0103 spun ca m-am c\u0103lit. Sunt coleric\u0103. Reac\u021bionez din impuls. \u00cen Bucure\u0219ti, asta \u00eemi provoac\u0103 dureri de cap \u0219i nervi pe care trebuie s\u0103 \u00eei exteriorizez cumva, iar c\u00e2nd mai dau peste un om s\u0103rac cu duhul, m\u0103 descarc. \u00cen afar\u0103 de asta, nu prea pot s\u0103 tac c\u00e2nd ceva nu mi se pare corect, chiar dac\u0103 uneori nu ar trebui s\u0103 o fac.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ca de exemplu? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: De exemplu, \u00eentr-o sear\u0103, m-am oprit la un chio\u015fc \u00een fata casei, s\u0103 iau detergent \u0219i balsam de rufe. Era 21:20. Dup\u0103 mine, mai era o tip\u0103 care voia un pachet de \u021big\u0103ri. Femeia de la tejghea i-a spus foarte \u00een\u021bepat\u0103 c\u0103, dac\u0103 nu are suma fix\u0103 nu o serve\u015fte. Am intervenit. I-am zis c\u0103 nu po\u021bi s\u0103 alungi un client \/ cump\u0103r\u0103tor pentru c\u0103 tu nu \u00ee\u021bi faci datoria, mai mult, faci clientul s\u0103 se simt\u0103 el prost c\u0103 a fost at\u00e2t de nesim\u021bit c\u0103 nu a avut bani fic\u015fi. Foarte nervoas\u0103, casieri\u0163a mi-a spus s\u0103 fiu bucuroas\u0103 c\u0103 m-a servit \u0219i c\u0103 nu m\u0103 prive\u0219te pe mine situa\u021bia respectiv\u0103. Cam a\u0219a se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 peste tot \u00een Bucure\u0219ti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O, da. Pe mine m-a pulit una pentru ca voiam o bere si i-am dus 6 monede de 50 bani. Eu i-am zis c\u0103-i trimit OPC pe cap cu toat\u0103 ranchiuna unui om neb\u0103ut \u015fi \u015fi-a revizuit atitudinea. Dar s\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m chio\u015fc\u0103resele care se cred pomana lui Dumnezeu. Ce te-a determinat acum 5 ani sa pozezi in Playboy?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Un moment. \u015etii am mai aflat? De la taximetri\u015ftii bucure\u0219teni? C\u0103 nu bucure\u0219tenii sunt de c\u0103cat, ci to\u021bi cei care au venit din provincie, inclusiv eu.<br \/>\n\u0218i a\u0219a e.<br \/>\nAcum 5 ani, era o echip\u0103 mi\u015fto la Playboy. Cu fotograful Vali C\u0103linescu am lucrat foarte mult, eram muza lui. \ud83d\ude42 El mi-a propus s\u0103 lucr\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103 la proiectul \u0103sta. Noi stabilisem ni\u015fte lucruri; ceea ce a ie\u015fit pe urm\u0103 nu a fost finalul pe care ni-l doream, dar a fost ok. Plus c\u0103 \u00eemi plac fotografiile nud \u0219i asta a contribuit la decizie. Nemaivorbind de faptul c\u0103 era Playboy! Revistele pe care le-am g\u0103sit ascunse prin dulap c\u00e2nd eram mica \u0219i am descoperit pornografia. De aceea mi-am \u0219i dorit s\u0103 ajung pe copert\u0103. :))<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/melindakutasi-3.jpg?resize=610%2C922\" alt=\"melindakutasi-3\" width=\"610\" height=\"922\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9706\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/melindakutasi-3.jpg?w=610&amp;ssl=1 610w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/melindakutasi-3.jpg?resize=99%2C150&amp;ssl=1 99w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/melindakutasi-3.jpg?resize=198%2C300&amp;ssl=1 198w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 610px) 100vw, 610px\" \/><br \/>\nSursa: Playboy.ro <\/p>\n<p><strong>Ai avut fantezii legate de pornografie? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Sunt fan\u0103 filme porno. :)) Am un sertar \u00eentreg cu juc\u0103rii \u0219i diverse accesorii. C\u00e2nd Teo e plecat, seara mea se \u00eencheie cu un film porno \u015fi un bong. Dorm ca un nou n\u0103scut pe urm\u0103.<br \/>\nAm f\u0103cut asta doar c\u00e2t am fost tineric\u0103, pentru c\u0103 mi-au spus oamenii c\u0103 sunt frumoas\u0103 (nu m\u0103 alint, eu nu am avut niciodat\u0103 o asemenea p\u0103rere despre mine,  dar aici intr\u0103 sechelele din copil\u0103rie \u0219i asta e alt\u0103 poveste). <\/p>\n<p><strong>Ce sechele din copil\u0103rie?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Am fost crescut\u0103 cu educa\u021bie comunist\u0103, b\u0103taie pe p\u00e2ine, lips\u0103 de comunicare \u0219i privat\u0103 de ata\u0219ament emo\u021bional.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Eu, una, a\u015f face un Auschwitz pentru p\u0103rin\u0163ii din genera\u0163ia aia. Cei mai mari du\u015fmani ai propriilor copii. Tu? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: A\u0219a \u0219tiau, a\u0219a au fost educa\u021bi \u0219i ei, plus c\u0103 nici nu aveau vreun termen de compara\u021bie, prin urmare considerau c\u0103 e bine. Nu \u00eei mai condamn, via\u021ba a fost mai grea cu ei, eu sunt un tampon \u00eentre genera\u021bia lor \u0219i viitoarea genera\u021bie, am preluat eu \u015focul \u0219i am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 accept asta pentru ca viitorul meu copil s\u0103 nu o fac\u0103. E un sacrificiu cu care tr\u0103iesc mul\u021bi fo\u0219ti copii acum adul\u021bi, n\u0103scu\u021bi \u00een anii &#8217;80.<br \/>\nPoate de aia reac\u021bionez impulsiv. Am fost educat\u0103 cu b\u0103taie \u0219i atunci o apreciezi mai mult. :)) Hah, uite c\u0103 am \u0219i g\u0103sit explica\u021bia,  datorit\u0103 \u0163ie. :))<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mul\u0163umesc din baierile inimii. \ud83d\ude42 Ce au zis p\u0103rin\u0163ii t\u0103i severi c\u00e2nd te-au v\u0103zut la vremea aia \u00een Playboy? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Ai mei mereu \u015fi-au dorit s\u0103 realiz\u0103m ceva. A\u0219a era presiunea aia pe atunci, ca dac\u0103 nu ai cu ce s\u0103 te lauzi la mesele de s\u0103rb\u0103tori, unde se aduna tot neamul t\u0103u,  ai tr\u0103it degeaba. Mama avea o vorb\u0103: cum s\u0103 treci a\u0219a, prin via\u0163\u0103, ca c\u0103catul prin ap\u0103? Fiind un ora\u0219 mic, oricine pleca de acolo realiza ceva prin simpla plecare. Asta i-a f\u0103cut mai permisivi. Puteau s\u0103 se laude cu ce a realizat fata cea mare la Bucure\u0219ti. Am fost model vreo 9 ani.<\/p>\n<p><strong>M\u0103 a\u015fteptam s\u0103-mi spui c\u0103 te-au dezmo\u015ftenit.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Nu, dar sunt genul de oameni care nu sunt niciodat\u0103 mul\u021bumi\u021bi. Nimic din ce a\u015f fi f\u0103cut \u015fi din ce am f\u0103cut nu era destul. Cred c\u0103 e mai r\u0103u dec\u00e2t dezmo\u015ftenitul:))<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u015ei ce-ar fi trebuit s\u0103 faci mai mult \u00een sensul \u0103sta? Filme cu deepthroat? :)))))))<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Nu m\u0103i, nu. :)) M\u0103 refeream la toat\u0103 \u0219ederea mea aici nu la Playboy \u00een particular.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Deja \u00eemi imaginam o scen\u0103 de familie cu &#8220;Fata tatii, trebuie s\u0103 vorbim. A trecut at\u00e2ta timp de la Playboy \u015fi tu nimic nou!&#8221; :))) <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Apropo de deepthroat. Mama crede c\u0103 dac\u0103 sugi o pul\u0103, b\u0103rbatul \u0103la nu te respect\u0103, dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi cere asta. Ceea ce e de doua ori sexist :))<\/p>\n<p><strong>De ce de dou\u0103 ori?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: \u00cen sensul c\u0103 unei femei trebuie sa \u00eei ceri asta; nu o s\u0103 o fac\u0103 de bun\u0103 voie c\u0103 doar nu e curv\u0103. :)) Asta e a doua.<br \/>\nPresupun c\u0103 prima s-a \u00een\u0163eles. <\/p>\n<p><strong> Care a fost cea mai nesim\u0163it\u0103 propunere pe care ai primit-o dup\u0103 apari\u0163ia \u00een Playboy?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Propuneri nu am avut pentru c\u0103 nu m-am expus. Nu \u0103sta a fost scopul meu. Eu am pozat pentru c\u0103 am vrut \u0219i pentru c\u0103 mi-a pl\u0103cut, dar nu am c\u0103utat s\u0103 fiu vedet\u0103 Playboy, nu am ap\u0103rut la nici o petrecere organizat\u0103 de Playboy. Mi se cerea s\u0103 vin cu fete, nu cu iubitul meu, sau s\u0103 m\u0103 duc \u00eembr\u0103cat\u0103 \u00een costum de baie la un eveniment \u00eentr-un club la mare \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 pozez cu to\u021bi l\u0103barii. De aceea m-am \u015fi l\u0103sat de modelling. Nu m\u0103 tenta deloc via\u0163a aia, mediul \u0103la. <\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11900058_10207715075535277_3509825310154936546_n.jpg?resize=640%2C640\" alt=\"11900058_10207715075535277_3509825310154936546_n\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9708\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11900058_10207715075535277_3509825310154936546_n.jpg?w=640&amp;ssl=1 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11900058_10207715075535277_3509825310154936546_n.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11900058_10207715075535277_3509825310154936546_n.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><br \/>\n#foodformyman <\/p>\n<p><strong>Pulaaaa, iar mi s-a rupt tirbu\u015fonul. Cred c\u0103 m-a blestemat cineva: Rupe-\u0163i-s-ar toate tirbu\u015foanele :((<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Eu am o sticl\u0103 desf\u0103cut\u0103, \u015fi dac\u0103 vrei, am \u0219i tirbu\u015fon. :))<\/p>\n<p><strong>M-am descurcat cu un pix, dar mul\u0163umesc. E at\u00e2ta promiscuitate \u00een modelling c\u00e2t\u0103 se spune c\u0103 e?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Da, era. Nu \u0219tiu cum e acum dar probabil la fel. Acum modellingul a devenit \u0219i o ramp\u0103 de lansare pentru pu\u015ftoaice din provincie \u00een lumea monden\u0103 \u0219i de ora\u0219. Pu\u021bine fete sunt modele pe bune. Serios, dac\u0103 ai chef de un bong \u0219i o tacla,  po\u021bi s\u0103 vii \u0219i s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i aici. Am \u0219i un motan fain.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nu pot azi, dar \u00een alt\u0103 zi, cu drag. \u0162i-am v\u0103zut un shooting BDSM din acea vreme. Erai impresionant\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Hehe, da, am o afinitate pentru BDSM. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Ca dominatrix sau ca sub?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Ca sub. Nu \u00eemi place s\u0103 domin, m\u0103 amuz\u0103 prea tare \u015fi nu pot s-o fac serios. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Nu m\u0103 a\u015fteptam la r\u0103spunsul \u0103sta :))) C\u00e2t a contat pozatul \u00een Playboy pentru cariera ta de model din acea vreme? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Absolut deloc. Chiar am fost respins\u0103 la un job pentru un produs care targeta familia. Din nou, mentalitate meltean\u0103.<br \/>\nDe aia, eu \u015fi Teo avem politica &#8220;no bullshit&#8221;. Dorin\u0163ele reprimate devin mon\u015ftri. <\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11731745_10207428541892115_4643852530722818330_o-1024x1024.jpg?resize=700%2C700\" alt=\"11731745_10207428541892115_4643852530722818330_o\" width=\"700\" height=\"700\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-9709\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11731745_10207428541892115_4643852530722818330_o.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11731745_10207428541892115_4643852530722818330_o.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11731745_10207428541892115_4643852530722818330_o.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11731745_10207428541892115_4643852530722818330_o.jpg?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><br \/>\n#foodformyman. <\/p>\n<p><strong>A cui a fost ideea cu politica &#8220;no bullshit&#8221;?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: A am\u00e2ndurora. Cred c\u0103 eu am zis c\u0103 a\u015f vrea asta, iar el a fost mai mult dec\u00e2t bucuros.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tu c\u00e2nd ai ie\u015fit din modelling?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>La vreo 2 ani dup\u0103 Playboy. M-am angajat la un cabinet de avocatur\u0103. Ca asistenta avocatei titulare \u0219i apoi ca jurist. \u0218i de atunci lucrez tot acolo. \u015ei, o vreme, am mai lucrat ca model. \u00cemi luam liber de la munc\u0103 dac\u0103 era de plecat cu vreun job.<br \/>\nLa un moment dat m-am oprit pentru c\u0103 intrasem \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie nasoal\u0103 \u0219i nu mai eram om. Din rela\u0163ia asta, am ie\u015fit \u00een spital. :)) Apoi, am stat singur\u0103 un an. Eu \u0219i motanul meu de pe atunci. \u00cen anul \u0103la mi-am propus s\u0103 nu m\u0103 ata\u0219ez emo\u021bional de nici un barbat \u0219i cam asta \u0219i afi\u0219am.<br \/>\nIar \u00eentr-o sear\u0103, acum 3 ani \u015fi un pic, l-am cunoscut pe Teo. \u0218i de atunci \u00eemi plac dulciurile \u0219i g\u0103tesc. :)) Deocamdat\u0103 metabolismul meu e de acord cu asta.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cum a f\u0103cut el metamorfoza asta? Ce \u0163i-a f\u0103cut? :))<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Jur ca nu \u0219tiu. Cel pu\u021bin, nu cu dulciurile. \u00cenainte, nu \u00eemi pl\u0103ceau deloc. \u00cemi cump\u0103ram un borcan de castrave\u021bi mura\u021bi pe zi, nu o ciocolat\u0103 sau o prajitur\u0103.<br \/>\nEl este pasionat de g\u0103tit. Am vrut sa \u00eencerc \u0219i eu, eu care muream de foame cu m\u00e2ncarea \u00een frigider.<br \/>\nNu am fost niciodat\u0103 nevoit\u0103 sa g\u0103tesc,  mama ne f\u0103cea orice, am avut o situa\u021bie financiar\u0103 destul de bun\u0103 \u0219i nu ne lipsea nimic, a\u0219a c\u0103 m\u0103 obi\u0219nuisem a\u0219a. Ba mai mult, nu suportam momentele c\u00e2nd mama m\u0103 punea s\u0103 o ajut la m\u00e2ncare.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11863409_10207657488855646_4337891145338645824_n.jpg?resize=700%2C869\" alt=\"11863409_10207657488855646_4337891145338645824_n\" width=\"700\" height=\"869\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9710\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11863409_10207657488855646_4337891145338645824_n.jpg?w=773&amp;ssl=1 773w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11863409_10207657488855646_4337891145338645824_n.jpg?resize=121%2C150&amp;ssl=1 121w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11863409_10207657488855646_4337891145338645824_n.jpg?resize=242%2C300&amp;ssl=1 242w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Deci, tu te-ai molipsit de la Teo?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Nah, \u00eemi pl\u0103cea ideea s\u0103 \u00eei g\u0103tesc b\u0103rbatului meu. Dar aveam emo\u021bii. Nu \u0219tiam dac\u0103 o sa \u00eemi ias\u0103. :))<br \/>\nAcum, \u00eemi place at\u00e2t de mult s\u0103 g\u0103tesc, s\u0103 chem oameni \u00een vizit\u0103 doar s\u0103 le fac ceva bun. Oamenii se bucur\u0103, iar eu m\u0103 bucur \u015fi mai tare.<br \/>\nCum Teo pleac\u0103 mereu prin \u0163ar\u0103 cu spectacole, i-am tot g\u0103tit \u00een ziua \u00een care se \u00eentorcea. Mi-am f\u0103cut un obicei din asta. A\u0219a mi-a \u0219i venit ideea cu #foodformyman. Acum nu o fac doar c\u00e2nd se \u00eentoarce, o fac mereu. Noua ne place sa m\u00e2nc\u0103m. Nu s\u0103 furaj\u0103m, ci s\u0103 savur\u0103m un preparat BUN. Majoritatea vacan\u0163elor noastre sunt planificate \u00een func\u021bie de buc\u0103t\u0103ria \u0163\u0103rii respective.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Unde a\u0163i fost p\u00e2n\u0103 acum \u015fi ce bun\u0103t\u0103\u0163i v-au atras?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: \u00cen Lisabona, m-am \u00eendr\u0103gostit de muzica fado, vino verde \u0219i caracati\u021b\u0103 la gratar \u00een ulei cu usturoi, coriandru \u0219i ceap\u0103. Tot acolo am m\u00e2ncat \u00een fiecare zi pasteis de nata, un desert specific portughez. Cele mai bune sunt pasteis de Belem, un cartier din Lisabona care are o cofet\u0103rie specializat\u0103 doar \u00een desertul \u0103sta. Stai la coad\u0103 jum\u0103tate de or\u0103, dar merit\u0103. \u00cen Cracovia, mi-au pl\u0103cut f mult pierogi, sunt un fel de dumplings \/ g\u0103lu\u0219ti sau un fel de paste umplute cu carne, legume, varz\u0103 sau cu dulcea\u021b\u0103 de fructe.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cu ce l-ai impresionat cel mai mult pe Teo? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Melinda: Cam cu orice \u00eei g\u0103tesc, c\u00e2teodat\u0103 scoate ni\u0219te sunete de pl\u0103cere de m\u0103 face geloas\u0103. :)) Recent, am f\u0103cut un aperitiv \u0219i un gazpacho care l-au marcat. M\u0103m\u0103lig\u0103 pr\u0103jit\u0103 cu pesto de oregano \u0219i ro\u0219ii uscate, cu br\u00e2nz\u0103 de capr\u0103 picant\u0103 \u015fi cu ceapa caramelizat\u0103. \u0218i gazpacho cu ro\u015fii, castravete, avocado, ardei gras, ceap\u0103 murata pres\u0103rat\u0103 cu m\u0103sline, chives, br\u00e2nz\u0103 de capr\u0103, avocado, boia afumat\u0103 \u0219i chili flakes. A zis ca a fost cel mai bun gazpacho pe care l-am m\u00e2ncat vreodat\u0103.<br \/>\nM\u00e2ine \u00eei fac piept de ra\u0163\u0103 la tigaie cu ciuperci \u0219i un sos din p\u0103trunjel,  cimbru, chives, usturoi \u0219i vin alb.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11892210_10207749493435703_6074292706413879398_n.jpg?resize=640%2C640\" alt=\"11892210_10207749493435703_6074292706413879398_n\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9711\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11892210_10207749493435703_6074292706413879398_n.jpg?w=640&amp;ssl=1 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11892210_10207749493435703_6074292706413879398_n.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/11892210_10207749493435703_6074292706413879398_n.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>O \u015ftiu pe Melinda Kutasi, acum Teohari, de 5 ani, de pe coridoarele revistei Playboy. 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