{"id":9840,"date":"2015-10-02T11:02:15","date_gmt":"2015-10-02T11:02:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=9840"},"modified":"2015-10-02T13:19:39","modified_gmt":"2015-10-02T13:19:39","slug":"cea-mai-nociva-chestie-pe-care-am-vazut-o-vreodata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cea-mai-nociva-chestie-pe-care-am-vazut-o-vreodata\/","title":{"rendered":"Cea mai nociv\u0103 chestie pe care am v\u0103zut-o vreodat\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"

E extrem de u\u015for s\u0103 faci mi\u015fto de pliantul \u0103sta care promoveaz\u0103 eliminarea educa\u0163iei sexuale, ca \u015fi de celelalte pliante din aceea\u015fi serie, \u015fi motivele sunt evidente. Eu, \u00eens\u0103, prefer s\u0103 scriu serios. Pentru c\u0103 e mai mult dec\u00e2t o claie de prejudec\u0103\u0163i aruncate cu furca; e chintesen\u0163a acelei atitudini de superioritate-cu-tot-dinadinsul, cu care te exaspereaz\u0103 fanaticii religio\u015fi. <\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 e s\u0103 c\u0103ut\u0103m, am \u00eent\u00e2lnit destui. To\u0163i veneau cu o condescenden\u0163\u0103 uluitoare, cu un ton arogant \u015fi agresiv, atot\u015ftiutor \u015fi nu aveau nici m\u0103car o secund\u0103 vreun semn de \u00eentrebare legat de propriile lor verdicte. <\/p>\n

\u0102sta e cel mai grav lucru pe care-l fac – nu Biblia \u015fi adev\u0103rata credin\u0163\u0103, care pun accentul pe SMERENIE \u015fi iubire fa\u0163\u0103 de aproapele, a\u015fa cum nici Coranul nu zice s\u0103 omori \u00een st\u00e2nga \u015fi-n dreapta, doar a\u015fa, de fun – ci fanatismul \u015fi dogma. \u00cel umflu pe musulmanul \/ ortodoxul prost de o at\u00e2t de mare siguran\u0163\u0103 c\u0103 de\u0163ine directivele lui Dumnezeu pe anul \u00een curs, respectiv de o orbire at\u00e2t de \u00eenfrico\u015f\u0103toare la nuan\u0163e – adversarii devin to\u0163i la fel, mas\u0103 prim\u0103 pentru afuriseal\u0103, nu mai sunt trata\u0163i diferen\u0163iat, fiecare dup\u0103 calit\u0103\u0163i. <\/p>\n

Dup\u0103 cum \u015fti\u0163i cu to\u0163ii, educa\u0163ia sexual\u0103 nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 un \u00eendemn s\u0103 \u0163i-o tragi cu oricine solicit\u0103. Educa\u0163ia sexual\u0103 e informa\u0163ie. Informa\u0163ie legat\u0103 de cum func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 organele tale, de bolile pe care le po\u0163i c\u0103p\u0103ta dac\u0103 ai contacte neprotejate, de modalit\u0103\u0163i de protec\u0163ie \u015fi de riscurile aferente acestor modalit\u0103\u0163i de protec\u0163ie. \u015ei, desigur, despre faptul c\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i cu burta la gur\u0103 de c\u00e2te ori faci amor conjugal, pentru c\u0103 po\u0163i planifica s\u0103 spui stop dup\u0103 doi sau trei copii. Mentalitatea aia de tip “via\u0163a e sf\u00e2nt\u0103 \u015fi prezervativul e o crim\u0103” duce la familiile alea cu 15 copii, unde nici unul dintre copii nu are o \u015fans\u0103 real\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceva \u00een via\u0163\u0103 pentru c\u0103 nu ai cum s\u0103 finan\u0163ezi studii superioare cu al\u0163i 14 copii or\u0103c\u0103ind de foame. <\/p>\n

Dar ce m\u0103 sperie cel mai mult la pliantele astea e predica asta legat\u0103 de “mame eroine” \u015fi “ta\u0163i ocrotitori”.
\nPentru c\u0103 \u015ftim cu to\u0163i c\u00e2te frustr\u0103ri ascunse clocotesc \u00eentr-o “mam\u0103 eroin\u0103” for\u0163at\u0103 de societate \u015fi de impozitul pe celibat al lui Ceau\u015fescu s\u0103 devin\u0103 animal f\u0103t\u0103tor, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 apuce s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103. \u015etim cu to\u0163ii cum e ocrotirea aia cu sila, de tip “zici ca mine sau te ia mama dracu’, c\u0103 eu \u00ee\u0163i dau s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nci!” <\/p>\n

Oamenii “ocrotitori” \u015fi “eroi” sunt oameni care \u015fi-au sacrificat propria libertate pentru ni\u015fte gre\u015feli: o sarcin\u0103 datorat\u0103 exact absen\u0163ei educa\u0163iei sexuale, sau o c\u0103s\u0103torie pripit\u0103 \u00een ideea de a face sex – c\u00e2nd e\u015fti intens nefutut, \u0163i se pare c\u0103 e\u015fti \u00eendr\u0103gostit cu cl\u0103buci. \u015ei sunt de o nefericire teribil\u0103. Nu \u015ftiu cum arat\u0103 \u015fi cum se simte fericirea, pentru c\u0103 toat\u0103 via\u0163a lor s-a desf\u0103\u015furat sub imperiul obliga\u0163iei.
\n\u015ei oamenii neferici\u0163i \u00ee\u015fi descarc\u0103 insatisfac\u0163iile pe dou\u0103 c\u0103i: persecut\u00e2ndu-\u015fi copiii, pedepsind \u00een ei orice urm\u0103 de independen\u0163\u0103 \u015fi mustr\u00e2nd str\u0103ini pe un ton agresiv. <\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 dintre toate rela\u0163iile ratate care ne macin\u0103, vorba pliantului, cel mai tare ne macin\u0103 cele pe care ne \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u0163\u00e2n\u0103m s\u0103 le prelungim. <\/p>\n

Later edit: \u015ei de la cititorul nostru Mihai Tuf\u0103, tot a\u015fa, mai pu\u0163in pe caterinc\u0103, mai mult serios: <\/p>\n

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E extrem de u\u015for s\u0103 faci mi\u015fto de pliantul \u0103sta care promoveaz\u0103 eliminarea educa\u0163iei sexuale, ca \u015fi de celelalte pliante din aceea\u015fi serie, \u015fi...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9841,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9840","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/es0.png?fit=627%2C627&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9840","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9840"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9840\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9846,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9840\/revisions\/9846"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9841"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9840"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9840"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9840"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}